We can tell a lot about a person by looking at their bedroom – but more broadly, we can tell a lot about their sex life.
Whilst a few of us may use sex as an opportunity to transcend the person we are day-to-day, most people remain the same between the sheets.
When clients join me in session we’ll often discuss what turns them on and off, and many will mention how their bedrooms create or hinder their context for desire and can really affect a sexual experience. I’ve noticed a few themes over the years and how certain sexual styles can be reflected in their bedroom style.
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It’s also worth noting that human sexuality is vast! Whilst we can look at a few common traits, literally everyone is different.
But, back to those common traits... Scroll through these and see which bedroom style you identify with most.
Our self-proclaimed clean queens!
Their room is immaculate, the bed is always made, the blinds are free from dust, and they have a perfectly curated bedside table. Their room is always perfect, and this sparks real joy.