Barry Du Bois’ colourful life has been punctuated by tragedy.
The Australian designer, builder and television presenter lost his mother to cancer in 2004.
Just over a year later, Du Bois’ wife Leonie, miscarried twins after 13 rounds of IVF. The doctors then discovered she had an aggressive form of cervical cancer.
“It was hard to live through that and then just a year from that my wife was pregnant with twins and I heard that scream again from the bathroom,” he said in a speech at The Cancer Council’s Biggest Morning Tea in 2014.
“I realised for the 13th time we’d lost that chance again. Through complications from the loss of those twins, Leonie ended up in hospital and we discovered she had an aggressive cervical cancer.”
Leonie underwent treatment and the couple eventually had twins, Arabella and Bennett, who are now five years old.
In 2011, Du Bois was then diagnosed with plasmacytoma myeloma, a cancer of the immune system which attacks healthy bone marrow.
By the time he was diagnosed, it had already destroyed the vertebrae at the top of his spine.
“I was having a Christmas surf with my brother and nephew and I had a sore neck. Being a builder I was used to that sort of thing, and I went under a wave and cracked my C1 vertebrae. I didn’t know it at the time but it was the last of my vertebrae caving in,” he said in the speech.
After his diagnosis, the dad-of-two underwent a 15-hour surgery to put in a titanium spine to repair the damage caused by the cancer and to stabilise his spine. He then underwent aggressive radiation therapy.
The cancer disappeared.
But on Friday night, six years after his initial diagnosis, Du Bois announced on The Living Room that his cancer had returned – and it was more aggressive this time.
“It seems that my cancer has come back, reasonably aggressively now I have what is regarded as multiple myeloma. We’ve got a cancer in my body that has created several tumours right through my body,” he said.
