There are things turning blue all over the world this month – buildings, bridges, monuments, in the name of Autism Awareness. This can only be a good thing, right? Apparently not.

American author Kim Stagliano is mother to three girls with autism and earlier this month she wrote in The Washington Post that she, ‘despises Autism Awareness Month’.  Presented by the activist group, Autism Speaks, the month is ‘a celebration of the unique talents and skills of persons with autism.’

Stagliano writes:

Kim Stagliano with daughter Gianna. Image via Twitter @KimStagliano.

Many families of kids with disabilities (of course many do not see autism as a disability, but equally, many do) are living in crisis. In Australia, carers have the lowest level of wellbeing than any other group, and the highest levels of depression. People living with disability have one-tenth the opportunity for participation in activities outside the home than other Australians. Many families feel they’re at ‘breaking point’. They want more than awareness, they want real services that do more than avert crises. Stagliano continues:

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Stagliano suggests anyone who wants to support people with autism and their families do become more than aware – they should become generous – with time, money and kindness.

Here’s an organisation that’s started doing something real, here in Australia. Bestlife offers kids with disabilities (including children with autism) the opportunity to enjoy regular sleepovers with small groups of friends with professional adult support. It’s a big step towards independence for the kids and an invaluable break for families.

Have a look at their video:

You can learn more about Bestlife here and donate here.