Wednesday was International Women’s Day and I didn’t know about it until I woke up in the morning and saw my Instagram feed flooded with people acknowledging the powerfulness and importance of women.
It was a good way to wake up.
The following day I woke up and there was an article in my Facebook feed, one of those ’(Insert random number) reasons why…” This was about the things women do everyday, most of the time subconsciously or as a learned reflex to situations, that men don’t have to worry about.
One of the statements was this, “Staying silent when being verbally harassed out of fear if you fight back it’ll turn violent.” This struck a chord with me because the exact same thing had happened to me the previous Saturday night as I left a nightclub.
As a young female, I’ve never been one to outspokenly declare myself a feminist. I’ve always shied away from the connotations that go along with it – women not wearing bras (even though I do this often out of comfort), slashing men, not shaving armpits – all those stereotypical generalisations which are quite frankly, archaic.
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While the boys' behavior definitely sucks, it's not up to the security guards to do anything about it. Their job is to ensure the physical safety of all patrons, not to police rude language.
All I can say is "How lucky you were to only have to walk past these idiots, walking past this one time abuse is a stroll in the park. Try living with a barrage, a torrent, a whole lot more than you experienced"
Even worse not only letting the abuse fall on your ears and be about you but sadly about & to your children. YES!! You heard right, & let me tell you it's hideous. You might just say, pick up yourself & your children and leave. Its just not that easy. There's the issue of money & support in the form of family and if you don't have either, then what are you to do. There's shelters for women to transition to their own housing but government support has kicked in all too late with these types of support services heaving at the seams. What am I supposed to do to protect my child from the taunts, abuse and sarcasm at their expense. What do I do when my child cries tears that I can only wipe away. As a mum I feel completely hopeless. Things go through my mind and I think, maybe it's something I've done or said. No. Everybody tells me it's not. But I have no choice but to stay as financially as well as emotionally I'm stripped bare and left hopeless.