The clock is ticking. My brother-in-law will be released from prison soon and I’m going to have to tell my son where he has been, and why we will never see him again.
Last year my husband’s brother disappeared. At first his absence wasn’t noticed. It’s not like we saw him every day. But when he didn’t appear at our regular family get-togethers my son began asking, then demanding to know where he was.
His wife was cagey and defensive of his whereabouts. It didn’t make any sense. We racked our brains for an explanation. Is he sick in hospital? Had she murdered him?
Where the hell is he?
It took me just a few minutes of searching on the internet to find him and our worst fears were realised. He was in prison for child sex crimes.
It would have been better if he were dead.
The crimes he was convicted for are unforgivable, even though some members of the family comforted themselves with the fact they were only online crimes, as far as we could tell. The worst part of the entire situation was his effortless duplicity.
We had no idea that lurking inside this charming, affable, loving uncle was a monster.
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Looking for advice. My mother’s husband (third marriage) has a Donna who just got out for possession of child pornography. Luckily my daughter is young and has never met him. However we have proceeded with a very strict rule of not being in contact.
The problem is that my mother insist she “he’s a good guy and deserves a second chance”. It is my duty to protect my chil. This person is being invited to all family gatherings. Christmas, thanksgiving, birthday parties, etc. My mother recently invited me to a few events. Without thinking I replied absolutely. Then realized I should probably ask. “Of course he will be there. He is family”
I proceed to decline her invitation. She states he is also going to be at her birthday. I decline that invite as well. She is trying to turn the tables on me. “Well if that is your choice. Is it going to be like this for the rest of my life”.
I do not now what to say. I am fine with not having a relationship with my mother. We do not have a good path. However I feel the rest of the family is being dragged in. It is also preventing me to traveling to the town where everyone lives. I have tried explaining to her I am uncomfortable and she doesn’t seem to care. One family members response was “well just keep a closer eye on your daughter”.
I won’t have to explain why this person was in jail, but if this continues a few years how do I tell her why we didn’t visit my family all those years?
The bastard should die in jail! I'm a mother of two children and I'd kill him without a second thought or remorse. Don't care he is family or not. Paedophiles must die!!!