Mummy blogger Sophie Cachia, author of The Young Mummy, has written about the difference having two children, as opposed to one child, can have in a relationship… (Hint: there is no time for anything)
“When it was one child, it was a lot easier to stay in tune,” the 26-year-old wrote for Kidspot. “More time, more energy, more us. Now that there’s two, well, our life is a little more chaotic.”
Sophie’s 25-year-old partner Jaryd Cachia looks after the kids while the mummy blogger is often on the road. She said “some days we’re lucky to do a quick high-five past each other in the hallway.”
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I don't particularly like this woman and her approach, but agree with her observations in this case and think it can happen even after one child. My husband and I have both discussed this, how we can see how couples fall apart when the kids are so young. You both really need to be willing to talk/work it out at the very least, have patience with each other and forgiving quickly helps too I think.
Her baby is only a few months old, if they keep the communication open and put in the effort, they'll find they are even stronger. Different, but stronger.
I have a six-year-old and I've found it hard enough! Considering having a second and hopeful that the age gap might help, as it's hard to imagine having even less adult time than we do now, even though I know it must me so much easier than two kids under three! The thought of having a second child is quite daunting actually.