Most women love their wedding ring, and I, as a whipper-snapper bride of 25, was no different. I couldn’t wait to wear it on my big day – not just because I was excited about getting married (that was only a small part of it) but because: DIAMONDS.
Joking!
Of course I was excited about getting married. Of course the ring meant something to me beyond being the most expensive piece of jewellery I had ever, and will ever, own. It meant honour and love and all the reasons why I was marrying my man.
As usually happens on the day before weddings, the bride and groom’s rings are handed over to the best man so that he can produce them at the right moment in the ceremony. The best man in our case was a dude who had been my fiancé’s closest mate for 20 years. He was a good man – the best man, really. His only liability? He was married to a judgemental and opinionated woman.
She never approved of me, and her reasons are irrelevant, because she was obviously wrong, because I am awesome. But over the five years we’d known each other, she regarded me with a lot of suspicion and always held me at arm’s length.
That’s the polite way of saying she was an insufferable pain in the arse. Her favourite mode of attack was a snide comment.
“You’d like to eat a lot, don’t you?” she’d observe.
“You should have used breast instead of leg for this recipe,” she’d suggest.
“You’re very brave to wear that pattern with your curves,” she’d note.
Top Comments
Thanks for posting this story because it's a cautionary tale about who to leave out of your life if you have the choice.
There are toxic people around and she's clearly one of them.
I've noticed just how much people (including myself) will put up with so as not to "rock the boat".
Life's too precious to accommodate these emotional vampires - they're the ones who exhaust you by sucking up your good energy.
She's such a negative creep she probably got a little "charge" out of hurting you.
It would be wise if all of us looked around at who has basked too long in our "gorgeous" vibes and at least do a little mental cull..........lol.
Goodness me, what are you thinking? Just invite them over for dinner, after all revenge is best served cold.