I’m sure you’ve seen the dozens of news stories about people who never want children, about how they are ostracised and told that they are selfish and will never know true love…
But there’s another side to this story. It’s so taboo most people don’t dare talk about it.
Parents who have children but now regret their decision.
You would think that anyone who has brought life into this world would now be yelling it from the highest mountain about how much they love parenthood.
But that’s not so. There’s now support groups and social media sites dedicated to parents who not only regret becoming parents but also resent their children.
One of those group is I Regret Having Children.
Laura posted:
“I have 3 children and my and my husband’s life is all about them. While I love them and wouldn’t give them back, my life is not about me anymore and I miss that. How do you come to grips with grieving for your time, your sleep, your body, for you?
“How do you move on and just enjoy being a parent? I think constantly about what I lost and I feel so guilty. I didn’t want to be a parent and I don’t join in with a lot of other mothers because they are just 100% about their kids and nothing else.
“I think about books and travel and art and all kinds of other things.”
It’s not just mums feeling regret…
Top Comments
Becoming pregnant with my daughter kept me in Violence and abuse, losing her at 11 was not worth the suffering and trauma for us all.
lets say the blunt ugly truth.
*parents dont always get achild they like. you cant know what child he is going to be. is like russian rulette. you dont know who you are bringing home from the delivery room.
*to raise achild takes alot of patients that not all people have.
*alot of people dont really want kids or knows how it is. they just have them because eberybody around them has. it takes alot from parents.
*and the society shut them if they saing bad things about their kids.
selfish- is to have kids and not to give them what they need.