My mother experienced difficulties in falling pregnant, with 7 attempts of IVF before successfully falling pregnant with myself. Therefore, when Michelle writes, " YOU ARE IT, BABY", I had to reflect on the weight of responsibility an only child bear.

This is particularly insightful to relationships and friendships of an only child. I find I need time by myself. You are not reliant on others to help problem solve as you have always done so yourself and generally need space when making large decisions.  

The way Michelle linked the comments of an only child being spoilt to a negative connotation, where in fact it was generally "spoilt" with time and affections as oppose to gifts, was helpful in defining why others may be jealous.

One thing that wasn't touched on is the comment some make in relation to inheritance and that you don't have to fight siblings. Although it is completely inappropriate, as money will never replace the love of a parent. Yes, you have a partner and your children, but you go through that grief alone, no comfort of shared childhood memories that only a sibling would know. Your original cheer squad is gone.

For those reading this article who are not an only child, I hope it allows you to appreciate either your friend, child or partner more. I know sharing this with my husband provided context to behaviors and reactions I have to situations.