When I was at the dentist who told me I needed a crown on my tooth and I was trying to think if I could put it on my credit card so he wouldn’t know. I went home and told him I needed the treatment and he told me I was just looking for ways to spend money. I was earning a 6 figure salary. Enough was enough. Ironically he was a cop who worked in family violence prevention and lectured on financial control ….. it was a relief to leave.