I was the biggest bridesmaid with two others, the dress was backless and little spaghetti straps, I was a size 14 and busty (always have been) and at that time extremely fit, im a size 22 now so at the time hardly at biggest and I overheard the grooman I was set up with say, "great, I got the fat one", was difficult to be all bubbly for photos etc, one of the worst experiences I've had.