What a great article. I really enjoyed reading about your experience and your journey to finding a voice for you and your husband. I love how he began to see that he needed to set stronger boundaries around accepting behaviour from others and that his realisation came from "if not for myself than for my children". It's heartbreaking that people can act and speak so harmfully to others. I can never understand how there are some people that do not really care or realise the damage that they afflict on someone. I wish it didn't have to be this way. Sending you and your husband love!