I assumed the dress, wig and makeup were an attempted disguise due to the existing intervention order and Laidley trying not to be recognised while still keeping tabs on the woman protected by the intervention order. I didn't know he was wrestling with his gender identity at the same time as being an alleged stalker living with addiction. Rehab isn't going to protect anyone at risk of his stalking, or heal any mental health issues he has either. What a murky situation.