Seriously.?!! There a so few couples were there is equality. I have a partner who works 530am-630pm M-S. Iām pretty much doing it on my own. Sure I have someone to talk to (and look after) once kids are asleep... but I find myself envious sometimes of my sister who is divorced with 50/50 care. Of having 50% of her time to herself. To a career that I needed to forgo so I could be there for the kids, that she has very second weekend to herself. Grass is always greener right?!? š