Let’s just say that once you have your bundle of joy home then all these thoughts of missed dreams and concerns about knowing the baby’s sex will be inconsequential. Enjoy this time of your life when you thought this was at all important. Once you are caring for your baby, changing nappies, negotiating feeding and raising a new human this will just be am amusing anecdote about life before kids.
This is wonderful! Good on you! Just for the record, my beautiful daughters are 22 and 19 and I never got my pre-baby body back. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not 10 foot wide and covered in scales, but I am a size 12 not an 8 and I would NEVER trade my girls for my pre-baby body. They are worth more than any price I could pay. Also your baby is absolutely adorable.