yes!! I have had 4 kids, but was always “thin”. The number of comments post birth and even now make me feel like a traitor to women, I can’t even count them. As my kids get older I get told (by all ages)) that I don’t look like a “mother of 4”.... people say it like I should be proud, and like I have worked hard to be thin. But it is a combination of cancer and IBS. Nothing I am proud of, but something I live with constantly.