People think we are selfish because we spend so much alone time, but people drain me. And when I am alone, I can recharge. It does stink being an empath. I can feel other people's thoughts. I got my oil changed the other day, and on the back wall, there was a small sign that said we retain the right to refuse service to anyone. I told her that I had to do that one time with a mean customer, and then she proceeded to tell me how that very day before I came in, they had to call the cops on an irate customer, and her company wound up banning them nationally. I have read things like this many times, I seem to know these things. Part of me likes being an empath, and part of me does not.
No sweetie, he has that little "secret" you share with him, with a lot of other people, you and he are cheating on her, but he has other girls and they have fun cheating on you. Fun times. Those guys are manipulators and they use all women. The dumb ones are the ones who fall for their crap or believe anything they say or do.