Wait, you think peri menopause is tough? Wait for the next phase... menopause! All of the above and worse. For me, as a sole parent it wasn’t too bad until I tried to have sex again. OMG it was painful 😥 I was completely blindsided. Why wasn’t I warned? It was so unpleasant I decided to give it a miss. Not necessarily a bad thing, I transcended, but it’s a personal choice. Thank God/Goddess for vibrators, can’t speak highly enough of them, such lifesavers. If only they could dance and buy me drinks!