Truth-be-told, attraction is fleeting, meaning that it can come and go at will.
This is especially true when you’ve been in a long-term relationship for a while.
Guess what? It’s normal! But, what isn’t so normal or wonderful for that matter is when your partner completely stops being sexually attracted to you.
Yikes! However, although painful, it’s important to be aware of the signs, so your sexual chemistry doesn’t fizzle out permanently. And, if there is still something smoldering between you, you may still have a chance to revive the sexual fire in your relationship, but you need to get started now.
So, if you are wondering if your partner has lost interest, take a look at this article and learn the warning signs, before it’s too late.
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Sign 1: Your partner chooses masturbation over sexual intercourse with you…
Truth-be-told, there’s nothing wrong with “getting to know yourself better” and “showing yourself some much-needed self-love, “ however, when that little voice in your head whispers to you that your partner is shunning your advances, in favor of masturbation, it may be a sign that he/she just isn’t that into you…anymore.
Solution: So, what can you do when your partner enjoys his/her hand over intermingling with your nether regions? Well, my suggestion would be to switch it up. For instance, if your relationship typically consists of “vanilla sex” (i.e. strictly missionary position), try something new.
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I have a real issue with "Sign 2: Your partner is always (or mostly always) cold, hostile and/or distant towards you now…"
I act cold, distant and hostile towards my partner a lot more of the time than I'd like to, mostly (if not entirely) due to the mental illness I am living with. I drive an 800 km round trip to see a psychologist once a month, and am on the waiting list for an appointment with a psychiatrist as my psychologist has conceded that tweaking my medication is likely the only way we'll make any further progress. My hostility, coldness, or distance has absolutely nothing to do with my sexual attraction to my partner or lack of, and I would really prefer articles on the internet didn't suggest behaviour I (and likely hundreds of others) are working on daily to overcome, is simply a 'sign' we don't want to f*** them.