It’s a good day today. The kids are happy, the usual household chaos is at manageable status, my hair is even done (i.e. scraped up into a strange messy bun with a thousand bobby pins). I’ll get dinner organised soon, perhaps throw in a sneaky trip to K-Mart (aka Mecca) and might even snag a nap when my toddler has hers.
You know, the kind of day that twenty-something me would have shuddered at as she threw back another fruit tingle and shimmied on a sticky dance floor to some quality noughties RnB tracks on a night out with the girls. Now, at 33, with two young kids and another one on the way, this is the kind of day I crave.
A day of dullness. A day of bunging on another load of washing and playing Lego with my five year-old while the toddler helpfully tries to eat it. A run-of-the-mill, mundane, somewhat soul-numbing day of life as a stay at home mum.
Because, too often lately, I’ve had other kinds of days too. Days where the thought of getting out of bed is difficult, and days where doing so is just too damn hard. Days where I can only see darkness, exude hopelessness, feel worthlessness. Days where my children and husband can only watch—powerless—as the tears fall and fall, where I have to be reminded to breathe, reminded that everything will, in fact, be okay, when I am certain that it won’t.