We need to talk about John Aiken's strange vendetta against Heidi on Married at First Sight.

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Married at First Sight is back for yet another week and the drama certainly isn’t dying down.

At this week’s commitment ceremony, Jessika and Dan followed through on their promise to stay in the competition with their partners Mick and Tamara to continue their secret cheating scandal.

But it wasn’t just Jessika and Dan’s decision that had fans frustrated during tonight’s episode.

After spending last week arguing to the point where they completely ended things, Heidi and Mike had fans particularly frustrated on the couch tonight.

And it’s easy to see why.

After telling Heidi that he feels like he “could try and fall in love with her” earlier this week, Mike told the experts that he feels like he’s walking on eggshells around his wife.

"Heidi doesn't like me calling it 'being moody' It feels like she reacts, you know, way over the top to something that might bother her. It could be something that I say to her that's, frankly, you know, innocuous, but it just sets her off," he said.

"I feel like I'm in damage control a lot of the time."

Yep, another blatant case of gaslighting.

And to make matters even more, John was on Mike's side, claiming that the couple's marriage breakdown is all Heidi's fault.

Erm, what?

"I don't like what I'm seeing," John said.

"You say, Heidi, that you're prepared to do whatever it takes to make this work. I don't think you do. I think you're sabotaging this," he continued.

"I don't think you want this. 'Cause the way you're acting... he's not gonna last. You guys are just starting to become people that are drifting apart."

"Just settle, Heidi. Don’t sabotage your relationship, Heidi. Do you want to end up single, Heidi?"

In the end, to make matters even more confusing, Heidi decided to stay in the competition for yet another week with Mike.

Here's how Australia reacted to the experts advice for Heidi:

Ugh, Dr John is trying to plant the seeds of doubt in Heidi's head about leaving Mike, like he's convincing her that she'll be a 'quitter' otherwise who won't force her relationship to work. JUST LET HER DUMP MIKE ALREADY! STOP IT DR JOHN!! #MAFS pic.twitter.com/pCocWUu5Zp

— seapunk aesthete ???? (@BiancaNeveXO) March 10, 2019

#MAFS It’s great how every Sunday the experts and Mike can get together and agree it’s all Heidi’s fault.

— YeahNah (@YeahNah2You) March 10, 2019

#MAFS It’s great how every Sunday the experts and Mike can get together and agree it’s all Heidi’s fault.

— YeahNah (@YeahNah2You) March 10, 2019

HEIDI STAND UP FOR YOURSELF, GIRL!!!! #mafs

— Tea (@teaismyfav) March 10, 2019

I am SO annoyed at the way Heidi gets treated. Her feelings have been sidelined and ignored. John, Mike, appreciate her side of things!!!!! #MAFS #mafsaus

— AllThingsMom(Sydney) (@AllThingsMom_Au) March 10, 2019

John literally just said to Heidi, if she wants a happy ever after, she’ll need to stay and change her behaviour. Am I the only one thinking this doesn’t sound right? ???? #MAFS

— Reality Noms (@RealityNoms) March 10, 2019

Woah! Ground breaking advice from the experts! “Heidi, just change” #MAFS

— Mylanta Mercy (@JLapin1) March 10, 2019

Oh my lord, John just told Heidi and Mike to stop wasting everyones time. Sorry? What about Innes, Jess, Dan and Sam? Couldnt say anything to them? #MAFS

— Zay (@Zayna09866376) March 10, 2019

If John is going to call out Heidi on something so small I’d hope he’d rip into Dan and Jess for their indiscretions #mafs

— Alex Lucifero (@LuciferoAlex) March 10, 2019

Every commitment ceremony I feel Heidi is being branwashed into changing for Mike #mafs @MarriedAU

— London (@London00307366) March 10, 2019

Just because Heidi's been gaslit into staying in an abusive relationship doesn't mean you have to. You can leave. Being single is better #MAFS

— lucy (@sensual_egg) March 10, 2019

John, nows when you step in and tell Nic he needs to let go of the past... you know... like you did with Heidi.... #MAFS

— Gracie Grace (@GraceTheBeatle) March 10, 2019

Is it just me or does John haaaaaate Heidi?! He loves ripping her a new one #MAFS

— Helen Deering (@bbaugender) March 10, 2019

Heidi is NOT scared! She just has great instincts! This show is telling women they’re to blame for abusive men like Mike. THEY. ARE. NOT. #mafs #RunHeidiRun

— Mad Fucking Witches (@MadFckingWitch) March 10, 2019

Housemates:
Me: THE EXPERTS ARE GASLIGHTING HEIDI AGAIN #mafs

— Lucie Robson (@lucierobson) March 10, 2019

And make you question yourself any time you question him.
Heidi: “I’m done”
John: “Do you even want love?”
H: “He is emotionally inept!”
J: “is he? Or are you just sabotaging everything?” #mafs

— RandomExpat (@RandomT95388832) March 10, 2019

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