Warning: this post is NSFW.
Being a porn star means that I often have to face up to being stereotyped. As a porn star, I’m often considered the ‘good time’ girl, the wild one, who is always up to party, to get loose, to cause trouble, the one that will steal your man.
For the most part, my life doesn’t resemble anything like that stereotype and so I often get to go under the radar, but there are certain situations where I stumble close to the stereotype and end up some unique experiences.
Nightclubs are a normal part of our young party lives, where we can go to drink, party with our friends, pick up or to get lost in a sea of strangers on the dance floors. But when society sees you as ‘the girl that’s up for anything’, night clubbing takes on a whole new flavour.
Whenever I enter a nightclub, it seems that there is always a fan. Often just one fan, but I get to see just how quickly word spreads.
I will enter with friends, go about the usual ritual of hitting the bar for our first round, sussing out the dance floor and picking our spot, just as anyone would do. And then the double takes begin.
“You look so familiar, do I know you?” one guy asks.
“Oh I get that a lot, I look like Renee Zellweger, we don’t know each other,” I respond with my standard line.
He walks away with that confused look. Then the phone comes out. These days with the Internet being in all our pockets, I can’t hide for long. A quick scroll through social media or Google brings up hundreds of my photos.
Top Comments
I have no idea why women deem it necessary to be mean to you. You are working a job, that has a demand, that I'm guessing thousands or hundreds of thousands of women before you have done. I don't see anything wrong with you making the choice to do porn.
Sucks and completely unnecessary that you are treated that way.
I am sorry to hear about your experience Madison. Women can be primal. As a sex worker I have had many similar experiences, in public. Men are typically boorish but women can be very aggresive especially in groups. Women like us are threatening other women by challenging societal norms. Whether it be the sex worker, a good time girl, or in previous decades simply just a woman who had sex outside of marriage. Women are the biggest slut shamers of all because we are perceived to lower the collective market value. You are less worthy of respect than a surgeon or a teacher. Do not allow other to diminish your life.