Who started this long-hair rule, that women should wear “age appropriate” hairstyles? What age is appropriate? And who categorizes the hairstyles? Is a bob age appropriate? What about a ponytail? At what age do we lop off our ponytails in favor of the shorter bob?
Listen to your mother. I did. Briefly. She was adamant that it was wrong for a woman over 40 to wear a long hairstyle. I believed her.
Then. Not any more. Not only am I over 40, my dark, curly hair is halfway down my back. Sorry, Mum. Rules are made to be broken.
This rebel hairstyle stems from childhood. Even then, my mum wanted me to have short hair. I hated short hair; my hair had always been long. When I was nine, she took me to her hairstylist. Unbeknownst to me, she paid her to cut my hair into a pixie. I was emotionally traumatized. No kidding. I took a wooden chair and placed it at the end of our hallway, where there just happened to be a full-length mirror hung on a closet door. I sat there for days. Crying. Just sitting. And crying.
I probably don't have to tell you that she never did that to me again. That's how this little girl taught her mum a lesson. I didn't just tug on her heartstrings; I ripped them out. She admitted much, much later that she felt bad. And she never said one more word about my hair. I let it grow long again, and it's been long ever since.
Who started this long-hair rule that women should wear "age appropriate" hairstyles? And what age is appropriate, anyway? And who categorizes the hairstyles? Is a bob age appropriate? What about a ponytail? At what age do we lop off our ponytails in favor of the shorter bob?
Audrey Hepburn sported a short, cropped cut in the early 1950s, but had a ponytail later in the decade. Elizabeth Taylor wore a close, striking cut, too; her style inspired many women, including my mum. Then along came Twiggy (aka Lesley Hornby). Her short pixie-bob made her a household name, and women flocked to their hairstylist to imitate the cut. Numerous women cut their hair to follow these fashion trendsetters. My mum was one of them; she thought she was supposed to go short. But that was then…