Host of Channel Nine’s Today show, Lisa Wilkinson, and the Mixed Grill team have weighed in on Rachael Finch‘s Sunday Style interview, in which the 27-year-old model revealed she and husband Michael Miziner spend their weekends child free.
Finch explained that two-year-old daughter Violet stays with Miziner’s mother, Irena, from Friday afternoon until Sunday morning to allow Finch and her husband quality time together.
Finch says it’s a system that is “incredibly healthy for the relationship”.
Wilkinson asked the panel – which included guest journalists Phoebe Burgess and Sarrah Le Marquand: “Do you have a problem with this?”
For Burgess, it's a tough one.
"I think when I first read it I was initially very shocked," Burgess said, adding that as a woman who is looking forward to having children it "gave me a bit of a fright".
"If you're offloading your kids every weekend, they're obviously a bit of an energy drain," she said.
But upon considering the topic a little more, Burgess says she believes Finch is "trying to establish a modern relationship which finds the balance between children, her schedule, and her partner."
However she sees potential for the arrangement to become "problematic" for Finch and Miziner in the future.
"I think when (Violet) gets older that lumping her off to grandma every weekend could become problematic."
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You know I have made a couple of comments about being on the fence about this as it seems like a lot of time away from their child, but I just realised they pick her up again Sunday morning, so they actually get most of the day Sunday with her. And really a Friday night the child probably goes to bed early, she gets to have fun with grandma all day Saturday and probably goes to bed early again, so I guess it really only equates to a day away. I guess I had initially thought that they weren't spending any time on the weekend with the child. So whilst it is still an unusual situation I don't know that it is so bad. Maybe more people should actually do this and get to reconnect with their spouses for a day a week.
Talk about part time parenting. She spends 3 hours a day with her daughter 4 days during the week (unless grandma babysits), ships her off Friday afternoon, has Friday arvo through to Sunday Morning (probably late morning) child free and then spends a few hours with her daughter before she goes to bed, and that is it. She is no different to families who send their children full time to daycare except, those families spend the weekend with their children whereas this couple would rather dump their child so they can go to c list events.
Why would anyone NOT want to spend time with their only child? ONE CHILD - it's really not that hard. Why not spend Saturday with Grandma as a family unit? And great grandma is 85 - how is that fair to her? And I bet they don't have anymore than two children - if that. Way too selfish.
ME ME ME.