Tonight’s episode of Insight is focussed on how far should we go to save extremely premature babies, here one father shares his experience.
My partner Rochelle and I were advised at 26 weeks by a private obstetrician and a specialist to abort our pregnancy. We were told “you are not going to get a feasible baby out of it. It is not going to live out of this situation, so go home and the baby will pass. You will miscarry and that will be the end of it.”
Rochelle was beside herself. I just thought, “this doesn’t sound right to me”, so I made some initial contact and research and spoke to a few specialists in the area. Most told us that the doctors were right, that there was a small chance of survival.
It’s not in my nature to take no for an answer. I know that there are variables and that not everything is black and white in any industry, especially medicine. So when I went back home, I had to have a look at my options. I wasn’t just going to assume there was only one.
I spoke to a lot of specialists and people in different hospitals. I did some Google searching into some articles- but ones that had weight – not just forums.
I didn’t tell Rochelle what I was doing – I didn’t want to get her hopes up.
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My niece was born at 26 weeks weighing just under 500g. She is now a thriving bubbly 7 yo and I'm so thankful for the doctors and nurses who work tirelessly to give these premmies a chance at life. Best wishes to you.