My friend and I have known each other since high school. We were the best of friends, more like family, choosing each other as godparents to our children and sharing our lives. We became mums at the same time and our children have spent a lot of time together because we always wanted them to become best friends too.
We’ve always tried to be smart with our money and started trying to think of ways to invest together, so we could both be secure about our futures.
Long story short, she and I bought a property together. It was a lot of work but we were determined to ensure we’d be able to retire comfortably after our children were grown and go on all those holidays we’d always dreamed of. I knew more than she did about how to go about it, so initially I did the majority of the work.
It was so much fun fixing the place up. We’re both massive fans of The Block and used to talk as though we were being filmed. Who knows? If this hadn’t happened then maybe we would have ended up on the show together? After the success of our first investment together we set up a self-managed super fund together and bought another one.
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It didn’t take too long for things to start to go wrong.
I started realising that I was doing all of the work and every time I asked her to do something she’d say she was too busy so I had no choice but to do it. We started bickering, then fighting and now we aren’t even speaking.
We ended up having a massive fight, the kind of fight you can’t come back from. Now, we aren’t even speaking, aside from the occasional terse email. I want to sell the property, divide the profits and go our separate ways. But selling requires work and I refuse to do it all myself.
This is the story of someone close to me. She recently went through the horrible experience of ending a 26-year friendship, just months after buying a property with that friend.