A 60 Minutes story about 12-year-old Max, a boy with severe non-verbal autism and an undiagnosed intellectual disability, has attracted criticism from Amaze, the peak body for people with autism spectrum disorder.
Max Whelan, who lives with his family at Mt Martha on the Mornington Peninsula, was shown on the program during one of his violent outbursts, as his family explained that their home can often feel like a ‘war zone’.
Max’s siblings described him as “scary” and “crazy,” with Max’s father Sean adding, “home should be a safe place, and it’s not at the moment”.
“We love him,” Max’s mother Liz told reporter Liz Hayes. “There’s no conditions on our love for him. But there’s conditions on our safety.”
The family’s extremely difficult situation became public earlier this year when a GoFundMe page was set up by Australian actress Nicky Whelan – Max’s aunt, and the sister of Liz Whelan. The page aimed to help the family with their finances, as they say there are currently no government options available to them to support Max’s needs on a permanent basis.
Liz and Sean Whelan discuss life with 12-year-old Max. Post continues after video.
They are aiming to turn the family home into a care facility for Max, while the rest of the family move to another property to establish some semblance of “safety, peace of mind and normality”.
“Max is desperately loved by his family and they do not want to have to relinquish him for the safety of their other children,” Nicky explained on the page.
“This family is in crisis,” she added. “The consequences dire. If they are unable to set up their own facility for Max as well as providing a safe home for their other children, they have no choice but to consider relinquishing Max to the State, an absolutely heart-wrenching thought for any parent to ever have to contemplate.”