The recent popularity of Netflix’s 13 Reasons Why has started an unprecedented conversation about mental health and suicide in pop culture.
As a result, however, we have one particular narrative of suicide sitting front and centre – one that paints the act as the ultimate form of revenge, and focuses on the apparently tangible ‘reasons’ that lead a person to choose to end their life.
But earlier this year on the ABC, a particularly powerful (and timely) episode of You Can’t Ask That aired.
The show, which was then in its second season, aims to lift the lid on difficult conversations by asking misunderstood Australians the questions we’ve always wanted to ask. The questions are anonymous – and are therefore posed without the reverent, politically correct filter we would usually adopt.
The demographic for this particular episode is suicide-attempt survivors, and they’re asked everything from ‘why are you still alive?’ to ‘do you think what you did was selfish?’
Many individuals describe the method by which they attempted suicide – a topic usually avoided at all costs, due to ‘suicide contagion’ research that suggests information about method leads to copy cat behaviour.
Listen: Jacqui Lambie speaks to Mia Freedman about her suicide attempt. Post continues after audio.
But the entire point of You Can’t Ask That is to not shy away from topics that are hard or awkward or problematic. And in wholeheartedly committing to this approach, the show offers a raw, real and deeply emotional perspective on what it means to attempt suicide.
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I've been there multiple times. I suffer with bipolar disorder. A third of people with bipolar suicide. A third. In the case of bipolar it's normally not event related, it's simply brain chemistry. The chemistry changes and you are plunged into deepest pits of despair. The mental pain you feel is so incredibly intense, all you want is for it to stop. It's like the worst grief you've ever felt, times by 100. It's unbearable. You beg for it to stop and you have absolutely no control over it. If anyone spent a minute in this pain, they would never question why again.
15 years of therapy, medication, and hospitalizations in addition to every type of coping skill/exercise/getting out/eating right/positive thought/nice lifestyle I should be grateful for doesn't produce the peace that suicide offers.
While my previous reply was all in response to a particular event, as this show was timely for us, and I was glad the ABC show crossed most demographics and genders. However the discussion needs to go further, Australia wide, including suicide in the elderly which Nikki Gemmel has broached with her mother's experience. This may well effect us all in some way, in the long run...do we care enough?