What were your BEST and WORST parts of the week?
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BEST: Loving my kids stupid at the moment. As I tweeted the other day: They make my heart soar. And sore.
WORST: A fight with someone very close to me over something silly. We sorted it out but it threw me for a couple of days until we did.
Sending strength and support to everyone in the MM community going through tough times….























Thank you for your reply. Well I have started taking medication. Went to a great doctor who has referred me to a good counsellor so hopefully things will be on the improve really soon.
Thanks again xox
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Disagree, Anna. The mother should have let Jess know about the polo thing – at least so she could dress appropriately. Although, thinking about it, maybe if Jess had showed up to/for the polo in her jeans, Mother would have preferred that as it would mark her as the employee? I’d tell her to jam it too.
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That would be so cool if it was the same people! You’ll have to try and figure it out, Kass!
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Good luck at your friend’s funeral, Eloise. In my limited experience, the worst bit is the time between them dying and the funeral. Thinking of you.
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I love that your daughter has made a new friend, Ggirl! What a great feeling for everyone! I hope it continues, and good on her for approaching her new friend while you were out. How exciting and uplifting!
Re your work worst – Doesn’t it drive you insane when people don’t ask if they don’t know? I got told off by my old boss in the navy for asking too many questions, because no-one else felt the need to. I responded with “Well, Chief, maybe I am the only one with the guts and the thought to ask questions”. He had no response for that. I’m lucky that I am quite happy to sound like an idiot if I don’t understand something or if I think others don’t. God it would make work easier if people just bloody said “Hey, can you show me that again because I’m not 100% on what I am supposed to do”. I love mostly working on my own now, it rocks.
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I fought going on meds for months, but when I did – OH. MY. GOD. So much better. Ongoing counselling helped, and I am off them atm, but know when I need to start popping them. The best way to look at it (I found) was its like any other ongoing medication – the chemicals in your brain should be at a certain level, but for some reason they’re not, so you need to take them in pill form to get them there. Hope your feeling better soon. **HUGS**.
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teddy bear,
the dahhling wasn’t to you, sorry if that came out rudely, it was more directed to the mothers out there, speaking like that! I definitely see both sides to the debate! I guess it was a real build up of years of being pulled here and there (of course as bad, but kind of resembling a slave)! anyway, i’m hanging up my babysitting boots now, time to get into my career in media and communications. Looking after bubs was something I fell into for cash but ended up falling for all the cute little bubs and getting stuck in a rut. So its time to hand the job over to girls (and guys) whose heart is in it and will do the job properly, while I go full steam ahead with my career! I will not turn down the odd babysitting job but ill cut down my hours so I can be a happy, flexible (within reason) babysitter
Jess
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Thanks LellaK, yeah, lots of tears … and still got funeral tomorrow
x
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Gosh, thank God they don’t have those ‘body definitions’ these days – that’s just gross! Now you can choose from Slim, Athletic, Average, Slightly Overweight, and Large-ish (to describe both yourself and ideal partner). All fairly respectful I think.
I haven’t noticed any leaderboards either! But then, I pretty much just log in to suss out my new ‘kisses’, I don’t get too involved with the other site features.
AJ, that was my fourth date on Sunday – each with a different guy (although I’ll probably see Sunday dude again, he was really nice so I’m happy to give it another go although I suspect he’s not really my type). I came out of a 7-year relationship last year, so it had been a LONG time since I’d had a date, I wasn’t sure what to expect at all. Each of the guys has been very nice, respectful, polite, and pleasant. I think the odds of connecting with someone you’ve chosen to meet based only on a photo and a short profile are pretty slim, but my mum and stepdad met on RSVP so I know it can definitely happen!
I’m thinking though that you’d have to be really open to dating lots of people, if you want to find someone special. First of all, a lot of people just don’t look anything like their photos. And secondly, when I think back over the guys I’ve been attracted to in my life, I probably wouldn’t have given their photos a second glance. It’s all about chemistry in person! I’ve actually been thinking of suggesting to RSVP that they introduce a ‘Webcam Profile’ option – at least then you could hear the person’s voice and catch their ‘vibe’.
I think I’ll be extremely lucky to find a ‘boyfriend’ online. To be honest, I’m still hoping it’ll just happen in day-to-day life!
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Gosh, thank God they don’t have those ‘body definitions’ these days – that’s just gross! Now you can choose from Slim, Athletic, Average, Slightly Overweight, and Large-ish (to describe both yourself and ideal partner). All fairly respectful I think.
I haven’t noticed any leaderboards either! But then, I pretty much just log in to suss out my new ‘kisses’, I don’t get too involved with the other site features.
AJ, that was my fourth date on Sunday – each with a different guy (although I’ll probably see Sunday dude again, he was really nice so I’m happy to give it another go although I suspect he’s not really my type). I came out of a 7-year relationship last year, so it had been a LONG time since I’d had a date, I wasn’t sure what to expect at all. Each of the guys has been very nice, respectful, polite, and pleasant. I think the odds of connecting with someone you’ve chosen to meet based only on a photo and a short profile are pretty slim, but my mum and stepdad met on RSVP so I know it can definitely happen!
I’m thinking though that you’d have to be really open to dating lots of people, if you want to find someone special. First of all, a lot of people just don’t look anything like their photos. And secondly, when I think back over the guys I’ve been attracted to in my life, I probably wouldn’t have given their photos a second glance. It’s all about chemistry in person! I’ve actually been thinking of suggesting to RSVP that they introduce a ‘Webcam Profile’ option – at least then you could hear the person’s voice and catch their ‘vibe’.
I think I’ll be extremely lucky to meet a ‘boyfriend’ online. To be honest, I’m still hoping it’ll just happen in day-to-day life!
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