I have plenty of male friends who are, and always have been, JUST FRIENDS.

One of my best friends in the whole world is male, and while I did initially have feelings for him when we first met, this has long since passed. We’ve been friends for probably 5 years now, and there is no doubt in my mind that we are just friends – from both of our perspectives.

He talks to me like a male mate, and I sometimes talk to him like a girlfriend – getting the male perspective.

In regards to the actual post though, I think that whole situation sucks – and I’ve been there. You need to find a way to get him to trust you again, because without that trust you cannot live your life … and if this relationship does eventually break down, you’ll have burnt all the bridges that would pick you back up again. There needs to be a balance.