Discussing sex and the facts of life with your child can be daunting and embarrassing – but it can also be a chance to share thoughts, feelings and set them on the right track for life. Here’s how to start talking…
By Fiona Gibson
When should I start?
Quite simply, as soon as your child starts asking questions.
Do I really have to do it?
Yes – because, even if sex is never mentioned at home, your child will pick up half-truths and myths in the playground.
When is the best time to broach the subject?
It’s more effective to chat in a relaxed situation, when something else is going on, than sitting down face to face.
What if he blurts out a direct question in public?
How much detail should I give?
As you know your child better than anyone, follow your instincts and explain, in simple terms, what you think your child needs to know.
What if my teen won’t talk to me?
Don’t take is personally if your teen seems to be withdrawing from you.
Won’t it encourage my child to have sex?
It’s a common concern that, the more she knows, the more likely teen is to get out there and do it.
But she still seems so young...
As parents, it’s hard for us to think of our children as having sexual feelings.
But she says she knows everything already...
....And you, as an adult, know nothing, right?
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