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Last week I wrote a piece on how to fix common makeup mistakes, which I think we can all agree was the finest piece of literature ever written, Are You There God It’s Me Margaret, notwithstanding. (Do they send you the Nobel prize? Or do you have to go in and pick it up? I’ll find out soon enough I guess.)

As promised I will now follow on with advice on makeup errors commonly made by those loveable rascals among us who have elegantly skated past 40. This, of course, is a wild assumption, based on nothing more than generalisations. You might have been gifted with superb genes and still look 35 at 50, or you could have fried that gorgeous face of yours in the sun your entire INXS-saturated youth, and now at 35, look 45, or you could have been part of a weird Romanian science experiment and been frozen for 20 years and have the skin of a teen. I DON’T KNOW.

1. Re-assess your foundation. Harshly.

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Max Factor Age Renew

It’s highly unlikely the foundation you were using at 30 is relevant for you at 45. Skin changes seasonally, hormonally and definitely with age. Also, let’s all stop using foundation as a mask over your entire face – it’s unrequired! Crazy! Doing that beautiful face no good! Just because you might have more things you want to hide, does not mean you slap on more product. Instead, get your skin hydrated and in top shape (skincare with ceramides, AHAs, peptides and retinoids are your friend) and always moisturise before applying your foundation.

NB: If you have redness, use a green-tinted corrector (Maybelline and Prestige both do them) UNDER your foundation to conceal redness, instead of trying to cover it up with more foundation.

For your new youthful, sheer look, use a liquid (or creamy compact) foundation that will boost radiance (like Dior Capture Totale or Max Factor Age Renew) but not make you look like you’ve applied it with a soup ladle. A sponge or foundation brush will help you get precise, even coverage and you’ll see how great the right base can for diminishing the bad – age/sun spots etc – and accentuating the good. (If your skin is excellent, you can use tinted moisturiser instead, but do wear something – it’s such an easy way to get glow.)

Finish with creamy concealer to brighten up and conceal the under eye area (and if you have dark circles, a yellow-based corrector under that) without making it dry or crepey. (Try Revlon Age Defy Concealer.) Pop on your blush and eye makeup, then set your finished face with a light, translucent powder if you feel you need to, although keep in mind that too much powder will only accentuate any dryness and wrinkles, so use very sparingly, if at all. The skin naturally becomes drier as we age, so there shouldn’t be as much need for powder anyway. (If you need or want more coverage, rather than pressed powder, opt for a semi-matte foundation.)

 

2. Soften up your eye makeup, why don’t you?

The older we get, the softer our eye makeup should be. Leave the severe and dark colours (try the gentler version of the colours you love… So, if you wear chocoloate, go more latte. Love violet? Go lilac. Mad for navy? Switch to soft blue) and unflattering textures (especially shimmer, which accentuates wrinkles and crepey skin) alone, and move into matte or satin powder eye shadows that will conceal and smooth out the skin.

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Estee Lauder

BUT! Before you do that, brighten the whole eye area with a creamy liquid or crème eye shadow in a peach, buff or soft pink tone over the entire eyelid, and then apply your powder shadow. (Try Jane Iredale Eye Gloss in Pink Silk, Estee Lauder Double Wear Stay-in-Place ShadowCreme in Golden Sands or Illamasqua cream eye shadow in Wail.)

It is SO much more flattering on the eyes to have a wash of flattering, satiny colour than harsh lines, a lots of dark and unforgiving colours, it makes your eyes look bigger and more awake, and therefore more youthful. Dark colours and harsh lines accentuate the lines around the eyes, add unnecessary shadows and draw the focus to creases, veins and capillaries, all combining to make you look older – and more tired – than you are. (This is why teenagers pile on the black eyeliner, to look older.) I feel arrogant enough to assume none of us are that interested in that, so, let’s soften things up. Switch your black liner to a brown or plum, or even a soft grey, and – this is a biggie – just once, try to not line or shadow in the bottom lash line. Keep the lower eye makeup free and watch how much fresher you look. Buy and use a lash curler before you apply your mascara, which will open up the lashes and your eyes, (Manicare do good ones cheaply, but my favourite is Utowa, available at Mecca) and if you’re hovering around the mid-50s and beyond, ditch your black mascara for brown mascara. I finally convinced my vivacious mother of this and it has made an enormous difference to her face. (I also convinced her to read labels properly after she realised she had been using a Schwarzkopf hair mask as night cream. Cute!)

 

3. Get a fancy new lip wardrobe.

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Benefit Benetint

Or rather, contents thereof.  Take a long hard look at any lipsticks you own that are darker than a cup of coffee (ESPECIALLY port, wine and brown shades), and ask yourself if you think they are doing you any favours. (Dark-skinned dames aside, because you look tremendous in these shades.) I can’t see how they are, because solid, dark lip shades generally make the lips look small and thin (and draw attention to dryness, as well as wrinkles around the lips) and in order to get the best from our makeup as we age, we obviously want it to make us look as fresh and radiant as possible. So, consider a switch to nudey-pinky-almondy lipsticks, which like a pair of magnificent nude-coloured high heels, create an optical illusion, although in this case it’s not longer legs, it’s bigger lips, because there is no discernible line. Add a slick of lip plumping gloss (Sally Hansen Lip Inflation Extreme will blow your head off, but the juicy big kissers are worth it) and you’re done.

If you love colour, (and I hope you do because a bright red or pink lipstick is terribly youthful and extremely exciting to look at) there’s no need to give it up. However, do avoid matte textures, and instead choose glossier, shinier, creamier varieties. (Like L’Oréal Paris Colour Riche Anti-Age Serum lipsticks… I love True Red.) You can always fill in lips with your beloved lip liner or lipstick colour of choice and then add a dab of gloss on top as a quick make-good. And if you really love darker lip shades, choose the shade you love but in a transparent version, such as Clinique Black Honey in the new glossy formula, or if gloss shits you, just use a tint, like Benefit Benetint as a stain, or a balm-tint, like Bobbi Brown Treatment LipShine in Brownie Nude.

Come back week when I illustrate how to look 25 if you’re competing in a toddler beauty pageant!

Lisa Wilkinson, 51

Amazing face 380x476 3 awesome age defying makeup tipsZoe Foster is an author, columnist and porridge fan. She was beauty director of Cosmopolitan, Harper’s BAZAAR and PRIMPED and then collated all the best tips and tricks from her time in these roles for the beauty bible, Amazing Face. She is currently the dating columnist for Cosmopolitan magazine, although her best advice in this arena can probably be found in the dating and relationship guide, Textbook Romance , which she co-wrote with Hamish Blake. Zoe has published three novels, Air Kisses, Playing The Field and The Younger Man, and she rates them among the best novels ever written in the history of the written word. Find more info on her here, or supervise on her daily procrastination here and here.

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97 Comments so far

  1. fudgingthemenu

    I couldn’t agree more with the tip about foundation. My mother always says you need heavier foundation as you get older to ‘cover your faults’ but it’s my experience it only accentuates them. These days I wear a foundation that’s so sheer it’s almost not there. As for eyeshadow, I had a real eye-opener recently when I put on a shade I’ve worn all my life. I took one look at myself in the mirror and shrieked, YOU OLD TART! Turns out some colours are not lifelong friends.

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  2. guest

    Does anyone else hate Zoe Foster for being engaged to the funniest man in the world?????

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  3. Donna

    Hey Zoe and fellow mamamia readers, just a quick question: Are moisturisers with SPF as effective as a sunscreen with the same SPF or are they really only 50% moisturiser and 50% sunscreen?
    Thanks! Donna xx

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  4. katieda

    Hi Zoe,
    Always love your tips and tricks! Can I just say though, I really miss your videos. Though I absolutely love your writing, you really do have a wonderful way of explaining the dos and don’ts of cosmetics and it is incredibly helpful to see first hand how to apply the products you recommend. Is it at all possible that you can write and create videos too! Maybe throw in a video every other post?? Pretty please! Either way you’re fabulous! Keep up the excellent work!
    Katie.

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  5. Jo

    Hi Zoe, i just went out and bought the maybelline greeen corrector concealer. it is fantastic! it really does eliminate redness. however, im a bit at odds as to how to actually apply it. i have redness in varying extremes almost all over my face. where are the key places i should apply it and how exactly should i go about putting it on my skin. (the first time i tried i dont think it was rubbed in enough and i looked a little bluey/ghostly.)

    thanks Zoe, your posts are brilliant!!!

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    • fudgingthemenu

      Jo, you might like to try some IPL treatment. I have it very regularly as I’m prone to redness (rosacea) and it’s absolutely fantastic.

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  6. Sk

    PS. next stop Clarasonic Mia.

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  7. SK

    Zoe Foster, who’s not from Gloucester and didn’t fall in a puddle of rain…
    Love your book, its changed the way I take care of myself. Things of note: Washing the nest twice; Clinque Brightening system for pigmentation (has changed my skin dramatically and all for the best); PRIMER – god where have I been??; Putting that concealer stuff under my sagging eyes LAST; Colourful lips – last November Revlon (at Priceline anyway) had a two for one offer so I have completly revamped my lip ‘wardrobe’… I like to call November 2011 – The month of Loud Lips. :-)
    Just two quick questions – Parabens… what is all the fuss about? I note in your book that you recommend some Olay Masks for the face but when I went to buy some I saw that they have Paraben – isn’t that bad for your face? I bought some nontheless and they are terrific btw. Parabens – your thoughts? And finally (and you don’t have to answer this one!) does Hamish have a surname? Or will you just be Zoe… like he is Hamish? hugs and thanks sooooo much for helping me be a much better ‘put together’ woman over a certain age. xox

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  8. Cady

    Back to the shallow end of the pool. I’ve got sallow skin and I’m crap at choosing makeup colours, but a couple of years ago an unaligned professional firmly took away my dark eyeliner and told me to use Clinique’s kohl pencils (they have names like black pewter, black denim, black amethyst etc etc). Dark enough to provide some definition on those mornings when I need it, but a lot kinder colourwise – while not scaring the horses in my very conservative workplace. They’re about $35, but they’re good quality pencils and last for ages.

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  9. Karsyb

    Oh and the eyelash curler tip is great- I love my shu umera one but it sadly needs replacing. Anyone ever perm their lashes? Always wanted to try it.

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  10. Karsyb

    Great article. I’m in my mid 30s but I look a lot older I think. Re the mascara thing I find I look a bit more my age when I tint my lashes blue black (I have green eyes) making sure I get every single lash- even the inner corners. I buy that 1000 hour stuff from the chemist, once you get the hang of it it saves you a lot of money! 15-20 dollars will set you up for a year of darker lashes without mascara…:)

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  11. Makeupwithmercy

    Im just dissapointed that throughout this article every product mentioned is sold by a company that is affiliated with or conducts animal testing. Not one product mentioned is accredited with http://www.choosecrueltyfree.org.au and yes…animal testing still happens, is in Australia and is not a matter of applying lipstick to a rabbit. In fact the medical experiments conducted in Australia actually invOlve domesticated dogs and cats sourced from animal shelters by laboratories who then have toxic doses of fumes, liquids and chemicals drppied into their eyes, forced in or on their skin, forced inhalation and many, many other terrifying and painful procedures, which are practised by all the big names. Choose cruelty free are very comprehensive and do not accredit companies who cannot meet their criteria. Many claim they dont test, but they do. Buy make up with mercy.

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    • Emma

      Exactly! Also, it pays to check products to see if any of their products have been derived from palm oil – environments of orangutans and other rainforest dwellers have been destroyed to excrete this oil for everyday products (and foods – remember the big hullabuloo with Cadbury and Nestle?)

      The Melbourne Zoo has a really great pamphlet on it all and has an ingredient card available to download that has all the ingredients you need to look out for that have palm oil in them.

      It can be downloaded from this link;

      http://www.zoo.org.au/PalmOil

      (almost at the bottom of the page)

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      • RobinL

        There is palm oil which is harvested unsustainably and there is not. It is possible to use this resource responsibly and to differentiate before making sweeping statements..

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    • Mo

      Sorry to burst the self-righteous bubble, but ‘no animal testing’ is a pot o’ crock, as it were. I used to worry too– however, after reading the following article, decided my energy oughta be spent on worrying about more worthy causes, like state sponsored terrorism or deforestation. http://beautyandthebullshit.blogspot.com/2011/01/cruelty-free-makeup-yeah-right.html#more

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      • Mo

        Warning: thought required. Dogmatic people low on attention/intelligence need not read it.

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  12. Sue

    Did you watch Revenge? Madeleine Stowe, 53, and so gorgeous and elegant. I’m now 43 and have long dark hair (admittedly a few greys now) and I think she may be my new style icon! … I think the show is going to be addictive too…

    Sandra bullock also looks awesome. But Gwyneth is only 38, that’s not old, especially if we’re going to live to 80 or 90.

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  13. Sharon @ Funken Wagnel

    Thank you so much!! I’m 38, and already been struggling with the change needed in lip colour. Thanks for some great tips. The reminder that black honey exists makes me feel all better lol. I also love benetint; I have posietint (I use on my cheeks) and I love it, so will give this benetint one a go as well.

    Zoe, how do you conceal dark brown sunspots on your face? Not a freckle or a mole, but a dark yukky patch

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    • veruca salt

      Yes, how??? I finally got rid of my acne now I have big ugly brown pigmentation marks under each eye on the upper cheeks! Hate them with a passion. Have tried everything in a bottle and had IPL use sunscreen every day but they are still there ugly as ever. :(

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  14. Spunk

    HAHAHAHA Are You There God It’s Me Margaret…what a book!

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  15. LLou

    One of my pet hates is hard black eyeliner, eg. Duchess of Cambridge and her sister, Pippa! It looks them look so hard around the eyes, that I cringe whenever I see them.

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    • rene

      Me too! Also as much as Zoe tells us that we need to grow our eyebrows nice and thick, I was completely distracted by Kates thick and dark eyebrows on her wedding day. They were WAY too dark. Even the blokes who were watching the wedding with me commented on them! That is never a good thing if even they notice something like that!

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  16. Sallly

    Thicker eyebrows I reckon they do the trick as well as clear skin….ohhhhh clear skin

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    • Anonymous

      easy for you to say if you have it

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  17. Mo

    Zoe once mentioned on her blog, that no mascara makes for a much more youthful effect. It’s true. I’ve noticed my MIL, who goes for dark eye makeup and lips, and tons of mascara, looks much harsher/older than her relatively less madeup days, when she ditches the ‘scara. My mom doesn’t use mascara, and goes for softer lip shades, as Zoe recommends, and looks heaps better than most ppl her age.

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    • kerryinperth

      That might be ok if you actually have visible eyelashes ! With my sparse, blonde ones I have always looked “peeled” – I even resort to eyelash tinting when going away where mascara use is a nuisance !

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      • Mo

        True.. sorry to make sweeping generalizations- :)

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      • ash

        Trying a dark brown mascara rather than black is a good tip.

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        • kerryinperth

          True, even as a younger person I always used brown/black because it looks more natural for this blonde.

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  18. em

    Off topic a little, but has anyone ever tried the Obagi Nu Derm system?

    Zoe perhaps you know about it? Or know someone who has?

    Thanks!!

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    • Jenna

      I admit bias because I used to work for a plastic surgeon in Melbourne who sold this however…. I think it is fantastic! My skin has never looked better. The vitamin c serum in particular is great.

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      • em

        thanks Jenna!! i actually bought the starter kit (which i don’t think includes the Vit C). i’ll have to grab it too :)

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  19. Sarah

    So, I’m 37. I must be getting older as I opened up this article to read without hesitation….

    I knew this was coming when the instructor at the gym today called ‘Smells like teen spirit” a “really old song”.

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  20. BB

    PLEASE bring back the ZOE videos!!!!!!

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  21. Beatrice

    Hi Zoe,
    I’m in my mid 40′s and my natural hair colour used to be a very dark brown. Since my 20′s I’ve been colouring some determined silver sparklers. It has been suggested to me that I should lighten my hair colour. To be honest, I’m more than a little suspicious that my hairdresser is overcommitted with his flash new Range Rover and I’m going to be helping him out with the repayments. I believe it will be a long, slow and expensive process.Any advice?
    p.s I imagine there are many women facing the same dilemma. Perhaps a post dedicated to the cause?

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    • essessesse

      I’m in the same boat. My natural colour is dark brown and the grey is growing through so quickly on one side – and of course right on top – that it’s becoming a pain to keep getting them covered.

      My hairdresser wants to take me lighter and then look at a few highlights. I think she mentioned a bleach wash.

      Maybe get a recommendation from a friend for a good colourist and see what they say?

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      • Beatrice

        Thanks. You just made me feel a little better by understanding. I really would like to let it go in it’s natural direction because I simply can’t afford to colour it every 2 to 3 weeks (which is what it would take to really hide the truth). And I have checked into the colouring options. Here’s the end result. $$$$$$$$
        The other thing is that it really is very upsetting when “friends” tell me that it ages me. This would be ok if I had actually asked for their opinion:(

        Good luck with your hairs too.

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  22. alex

    Does anyone know where to get grey mascara? It would work better for me than brown but it seems like it doesn’t exist.

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    • zoefoster

      Try Almay? They have a great selection coloured of mascara.

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      • Anonymous

        I have a nutri metics grey mascara.

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    • Anonymous

      Check out Cover Girl Exact Eyelights mascara (I got mine from Priceline but I’ve seen it in Coles as well). They have different colours to match to your eye colour – I use the green eyes one and it’s more of a dark lilac sort of colour – not as harsh as brown. I have strawberry blonde hair and I find this colour mascara more flattering on me than even a light brown.

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      • Alex

        Thanks, yous all.

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    • Anonymous

      Been a while since I’ve looked, but Lancome and YSL used to make grey mascara. Also Maybelline and some other cheaper brands have a range of blacks. Some are black black, some are more grey-ish.

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    • cosmos

      I’m edging past 60 at a great rate and only ever wear navy blue mascara (I hve blue eyes) because I like the look of it especially as I cant wear colour on my eyelids any longer – all looks crepey and old.
      I also find mineral powder makeup less obvious and natural, and the blush can be lightly applied. Lipstick favourite at present is the Stila Lip paint/stain, it’s brilliant, stays on well, and I top it with a bit of gloss. Dont think I look too muttonish.

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  23. Anonymous

    Shit. I got the girls at MAC to do my makeup when I was 29 and have been buying the same foundation ever since. I even just bought a new bottle on the weekend. I’m 38 now!

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  24. Anonymous

    “… if gloss shits you….”
    Zoe I love you, this article WAS written just for me!

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    • Vavoom

      Had to go and re-read that, LOL! Makes sense though, the H sits right under the U….too funny!

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  25. rene

    Hey Zoe!

    I LOVE your work, bought your book (Amazing Face) and love it but I wanted to ask you a question?

    I am a long time subscriber to Paula Begouns “Beautypedia” and a lot of the skincare products that you recommend in the book have been proven to be totally ineffective and a waste of money by her.

    I never ever buy any product without reading her review of it first. So I am just wondering what makes you recommend a product? Do you have any proof that they work or do you just trust opinions of people in the beauty industry?

    I am definately NOT having a go at you! It is just that as I creep closer to 40 I am thinking more and more about my ageing face and body and constantly toying with the idea of a bit of help (Botox) and I don’t want to be paying big money for products that are doing nothing more than Sorbolene cream from my local pharmacy.

    Thanks :)

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    • Amy

      I agree with you that so many products are all hype and do nothing in the long run, but sometimes it’s just the feel good factor. I could buy a $5 body moisturiser, but my $40+ Jurlique moisturiser makes me feel so good both inside and out.

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      • ABC123

        See for me I would never want to be spending $40 when I can get something that does the same thing for $5. Call me a tightarse but I just don’t get that feeling of luxury with makeup or skincare. I just want something that works.
        I also have gotten into Paula Begouns websites and I do follow a lot of her advice and love her reviews. I don’t take it as gospel, just use it to compare things and check on ingredients.
        I have stopped buying anything with fragrance, which is rather a big job, and my skin has appreciated it. If i use something frangranced now i cant stand the smell or feel of it.

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        • Sharon @ Funken Wagnel

          You can get a lot of this stuff quite cheaply if you bargain buy online:) At least half price

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    • zoefoster

      Hi Rene, and good question.

      I recommend prodz that I’ve used and enjoyed over my time as a beauty editor (Latin: Productious Tryius). Also those that have a sterling reputation among professionals (makeup artists, hair stylists, derms etc) in the case they aren’t for my skin/hair type.

      Paula and I serve a very different purpose: I’m more of a how-to, tip-and-trick girl, rather than an exhaustively researched cosmetic cop. Use what (who) ever works for you and whatever makes you look and feel terrific!

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      • anna

        i think it’s worth mentioning aswell that bc Zoe recommends products that she has used, some of her recommendations are only suitable for her skin type/complexion. Sorry Zoe – but quite a lot of your recs just don’t work for my european skin!

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      • rene

        Thanks Zoe!

        That was pretty much what I had decided: I will use your awesome knowledge of make up products and tips/tricks/secrets and use Paula’s knowledge of skincare products to choose what to spend my cash on to give me the best possible skin. I hate spending money on products that do nothing!

        Thank you xxx

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    • JanelleC68

      I’m a fan of Paula too! I use her skincare advice & Zoe’s make-up advice.

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  26. ~Lou~

    Hi Zoe, Are you able to help me with tips for eye make up without mascara, as I currently have no eyebrows or eyelashes (just finished 5 mths chemo), I worry I don’t get eyeliner right (using dark brown pencil) or eye shadow (using soft browns) – I have blue eyes, medium skin tone and I did have dark brown hair but its growing back grey and white, I’m only 36 yrs old! Many thanks, I love reading your tips and suggestions xx

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    • Amy

      Hey hun this video might be helpful

      http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N6bvbLhT4HI

      Otherwise could you maybe bring more attention to your lips with a bright lipstick/tint/gloss and a beautiful bronzer or blush?

      Wishing you good health and strength! XO

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    • Kylie

      Hi Lou,

      you might want to check out this fantastic blog called Sophie Feels Better. Sophie is a beauty editor who has cancer. She has really useful advice…
      http://www.sophiefeelsbetter.blogspot.com/

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    • Anonymous

      Hi Lou; all the best with your treatment. Not sure if you check out youtube but there is a makeup artist on there Sandy Linter (one of the chief Lancome artists) she’s got a whole series of tutorials on there that might be useful x

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    • zoefoster

      Lou, you are spot on with browns on blue eyes. It’s your ‘pop’ colour. I imagine a wash of brown shadow and some liner for definition would look great, but would also do as Amy suggests and play up the lips and go a fair smack of bronzer. Definitely check out the (far more qualified) blog-writers mentioned below, as they are bound to have tops tips.

      If you’re not keen to embrace your new hair shade, maybe dye it a soft ashy blonde to disguise the regrowth?

      All the very best and then some more to you, Lou.

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  27. kerryinperth

    Someone should mention the most important points of

    * Drink plenty of water
    * Use all-over moisturiser
    * Don’t neglect fresh air & exercise
    * Use sun-protection (hat, sunscreen etc.)
    * Get sufficient sleep
    * Eat healthy foods – fresh & unprocessed as much as possible
    * Create a peaceful environment around you (even if it’s just to escape to for downtime)

    It’s never too early to begin these good practises – your face & body will thank you in later years !

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    • Zoe Foster

      And you just did! Thank you Kerri. (My post was purely makeup based but these things are of course very relevant.)

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      • kerryinperth

        Your tips all make good sense, Zoe.

        I have to say that I was never as self-absorbed in my teens & onward as girls seem to be these days, nor as focussed on “beauty” topics. My mother deserves my gratitude for good advice which set me on the path to sensible skin care routine and also for basic practicalities which have stood me in good stead without obsessive or expensive fads.

        Over the past decade or so I have gravitated to more natural products, locally produced, and have never been enticed by extravagant advertising or “celebrity” endorsements. Must have been doing something right, ‘cos my claims to being over 60 are usually met with shocked disbelief (◕‿-)

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        • zoefoster

          Kerry (with a “y” not an “i” as I did above like a dingus), I love your attitude. I agree with the teens thing, strangely enough, given my profession. I didn’t have my first blow dry til I was 18 and wore nothing but Charlie Red, mascara and lip gloss til then. Teenagers today blow me away with their sophistication. They scare me, even.

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    • Mellasj

      Excellent advice. Maybe another to add is love a pet. Thats makes me happy.

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  28. Susan As Well

    I’m 51 and did a few of these things at the beginning of the year. I changed my hair colour to a softer shade of the one that suited me for the last five years, now have a whispy pixie cut, I changed my foundation to one with a wrinkle serum built in, changed my black mascara to brown. All of these changes definitely made me look brighter so that was good But … I was really stuck on what to do with the lippy. Thanks and thanks again Zoe :)

    I always wondered if I would lose interest in playing with makeup looks as I got older. I don’t think it’s ever gonna happen. It’s just so much fun and the changes that happen as I get older (wrinkles and skin that is not so firm as it used to be) just haven’t stopped the fun.

    I am so glad that I am not heading towards purple hair rinses, no makeup, flat, lace-up shoes and pale purple button-up frocks to match the hair like women used to!! I see older women looking this way and I feel like running up to them with a bright red lippy to put some colour on them. They look so faded out and I’m sure that their lives were anything but dull and they should look brighter :)

    Just look at Jerry Hall … love it!

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  29. Jennywren

    Oh dear. And here I thought this was going to be an impartial beauty piece that perhaps showed some natural, inexpensive beauty remedies. Silly me..

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    • anon

      what do u even mean by this comment?

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    • dulcie

      What made you think that?

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      • Jennywren

        The FB heading: “3 tips that you can use to look, er, more youthful than you may already be”

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        • ABC123

          1. Change to a dewier foundation texture.
          2. Soften eye make up.
          3. Don’t wear dark lip colour.
          :)

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  30. request

    I just wondered if there could be more photos showing people with olive/dark skin who get their make up right? In the photos above, I couldn’t find any..thanks.. (e.g. South-east Asian, African etc)

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  31. thatgirlfiona

    Why do you say the Sally Hansen lip plumper will blow your head off? I remember hearing someone say something funny about it before but I cannot remember. Is it a good product?

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    • zoefoster

      It’s fantastic. I think the best plumper out there. But it is ZINGY! And tingly.

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    • Hanna

      do some research on this before you waste your money. it has been tested by a few experts and it was proven to be a crock o shit. yes it contains known irritants to make your lips tingle, but it has no plumping abilities at all.
      In fact you will find that not one product that claims to plump lips actually can.

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      • Mop

        I have read a similar thing. Apparently those lip plump products are useless.
        Have a look at beautypedia of you want independent research into skin care and make up. You will be amazed at how much companies lie about what their products can do.You will also learn to take the opinions of beauty editors with a grain of salt. Apologies to Zoe, but I question everything I read from people who are approached to spruik products for multi nationals

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      • Zoe Foster

        But Hanna, it makes your lips LOOK bigger! By getting the lips tingly you bring blood to the surface, which gives a slightly “beestung” appearance. (The intense shine doesnt hurt either.)

        That’s all it claims to do, and all anyone should and can expect from a cosmetic product. If you want actual plumping, head to a clinic and pay for some needles.

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        • Hanna

          Sadly Zoe, any plumping is just wishful thinking on your part.
          They do not plump your lips even a fraction of a millimeter.
          They just irritate your lips so you think they are being plumped up.
          Why don’t you tell people how to create the illusion of fuller lips with better placement of lip liner etc instead of trying to sell them a product that they don’t need and does not work.

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          • bee

            ” But Hanna, it makes your lips LOOK bigger! By getting the lips tingly you bring blood to the surface, which gives a slightly “beestung” appearance. ”

            Zoe literally just explained that they make your lips appear bigger with the the colour etc. She’s not claiming they are like botox.

            And she also explained how to make lips look bigger by using lighter shades….

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        • Em

          What a cranky bunch of coconuts today! I for one have just turned 40 & enjoyed the article, always well written and heck, so timely. ;)

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      • Alexandra

        I tried a lip plumping lip gloss by Napoleon years ago… I think it had capsicum spray in it or something! It made this weird tingly sensation and gave my lips a bee stung look.

        Too annoying to wear daily though!

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        • ashamasha

          ooh I’m a little bit hooked on the zingy plumpers! I forgot about them for a while, and dug some out of the drawer…..I think chilli/capsicum whatever is a bit addictive :P

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          • Sharon @ Funken Wagnel

            I use an avon lip plumper, it doesn’t have any zing at all, and it does somehow make my lips appear a little fuller. Tempted to try a zingy one though

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    • Anonymous

      I hate lip plumpers. The few that actually do any plumping hurt quite a bit (more than a ‘tingle’) and irritate not just my lips but the area around my mouth, so I look like I have some sort of rash. Yuck.

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  32. Beatrice

    Lauren Hutton, Dame Judi Dench, Dame Helen Mirren. Simply beautiful.

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  33. LKW

    Are you there God it’s me Margaret!! Too funny Zoe you make me laugh. Great tips…..thank you.

    Lauren Hutton is radiant!

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  34. Mo5

    Great timing. I am turning 40 on Saturday! yeah! I am excited because years ago I thought 40 was oldish, I am so excited that it isn’t. BUT (big but) I am one of those blessed with great always spot free glowing skin that has started to change!!! I am needing more concealer and a change in foundation. Great tips, thanks

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  35. bee

    Even though I’m still in my twenties this is all great to know (and pass on!).

    Quick question- is there any way to get rid of broken capillaries on the face? I have one gigantic one on my the apple of my cheek that annoying the bejesus out of me! I’m thinking laser/microderm is the only kind of thing that might work?

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    • Josie

      IPL Laser works excellent. I had broken capillaries and had two sessions and they are gone. Well worth the money.

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      • Minda

        Really! I had three or four goes at it and nothing :-( Still have those pesky little marks lurking where they are not wanted. I had been thinking about going somewhere else or trying a different sort of laser (or having a teaspoon of concrete).

        Laser hair removal on the other hand……………….

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  36. Amy

    I really love Julianne Moore. She shows that less is more (no pun intended :p).

    My biggest tip would be exfoliate! As you age, your skin cell turnover gets slower, so to make your skin glow you need to exfoliate 2-3 times a week.

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  37. Lu

    Not so much make-up but hair! There is nothing more aging than an out of date hairstyle that has been the same for 15 years. And colour. I think when you start to go grey its natures way of softening your colouring and dying your hair to the really dark brown it once was just looks a bit witchy and aging. I think once the greys appear, if you dont want to embrace them, its time for lighter highlights to soften the overall look. I know 2 women, both in their late 40′s who still go for really dark hair dye and its so harsh and makes them look 10 years older than they really are.

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    • Amy

      I know a gorgeous lady who colours her hair black and instead of looking 35 she looks 45 :( She is so beautiful but a lighter hair colour would make her glow instead of look so harsh.

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      • zoefoster

        Yes, lighter hair can make exTREME difference to visual youthfulness!
        So can fringes and layers that lovingly play around the face.

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        • Mellasj

          My two cents:
          Dying hair too dark = ages you, and blokes too should stop dying their hair. I have noticed heaps of male TV personalities who have a hair helmut.
          Eye primer/base I can’t live without = MAC Painterley
          Need darker eyebrows = powder is best its softer.
          Foundation = Zoe this one I struggle with, liquids are always too OTT. I found a mineral powder like The Body Shop still works without the heaviness.

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          • Anonymous

            I use a mineral foundation too (I’m 51) and find a light brushing of INIKA gives fantastic luminous coverage for my very uneven skin tone. Since I started using it I get comments daily.

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