BY ZOE FOSTER
As per many a ringleted, wavy, curly girl’s request, I present to you a (kind of) definitive guide on how to style natural curls. (Motto for today: “Don’t be surly, just get curly!”)
As the owner of such curls, these are the Ways and Prodz that have worked best for me over the years. (Mind you, when my hair is very blonde, as it is now (this photo is a year old), natural curls don’t even exist in my hair – they are just a stringy, frizzy, dry mess of straggle. So I fake it with a curling tong until my hair is healthy and brown and bouncy again.)
Off we go!
When washing and conditioning…
Buy shampoo and conditioner that will cater to your curls. Not your colour, or your volume, but your curls. Curls generally go troppo for moisture, but don’t love weight, which is a bit of an odd pairing, and why most curl-specific shampoos and conditioners will have lovely but very lightweight nourishing oils or ingredients in them, so your curls are moisturised, but not heavy and lank. I love Redken Fresh Curls shampoo and conditioner, Davines (pronounced dav-in-nay) Lovely Curl enhancing shampoo and conditioner and my curly girlyfriend swears by the Herbal Essences Totally Twisted range.
Also, consider NOT applying conditioner to the scalp, just from about two inches down. This should help keep any hair-stick-to-head-ness away. And please use a hair mask or treatment once a week. Keeping your hair in tip bloody top condition is crucial for non-stringy, non-ratty, non-limp curls. Regular trims to get rid of split ends that ruin the look and ‘spiral’ of your curls are also very, very wise. (Especially if one is dyed blonde.)
There is, of course, also the issue of frizz, which can make a happy curly girl morph into a terrified or terrifying beast indeed, and while frizz products aren’t specifically created for curl obedience, they can certainly help. I must mention Living Proof (buy from Mecca) here, who have a magical, patented formula in their shampoo and conditioner, that does incredimazing things for curl behaviour and frizz walloping.
Fun thing to try! Drying your hair with a cotton t-shirt (those soft, v-neck ones from American Apparel work for me) instead of a towel. And gently pat dry, instead of tousling.
When your hair is still wet…
Comb through a conditioning balm, whip or mousse, treatment or cream after gently towel (or t-shirt) drying your hair.) This can be a regular one, or a specific curl boosting one. I don’t find a huge amount of difference personally, and prefer to get my curls happening/styled more once my hair is dry.
This will soften the curls and nourish them and make them much more likely to behave. I choose creams over oils or silicone serums, because I feel they’re generally lighter, and mean I won’t have heavy, flat hair within 24 hours. But! That’s because I have fine hair – your hair might looooove oils and anti-frizz serums, depending on its natural texture and groovy individual idiosyncrasies.
One friend uses straight out coconut oil on her curls, and another monoi oil from the Body Shop. Both seem deliriously happy with these choices, so good for them.
Controversially, I don’t use a diffuser for my curls. I dry off loosely on low heat using my fingers to scrunch and shape – but that’s because I prefer a more relaxed curl if I am going natural. Or, if we’re being honest, because I usually just tong in some curls even if I am pretending to go natural.
If you do use your diffuser on curly hair, use a low heat, low-air setting, and “cup” the diffuser up under the bottom of the hair, to encourage curling. Blasting your wet hair with a high-air, high-heat hair dryer, and using a brush will not do your curls many favours at all. Probably not even one, in fact. It will just make it big, boofy and enthuse naughty fly-aways.
Try: Pantene Hydrating Curls mousse (which is SO far off giving 80’s crunchy mousse curls, I assure you), Garnier Fructis Nutri-repair smoothing cream, ghd obedience cream, Davines Momo Moisturising Curl Enhancing Serum or evo Liquid Rollers. (Oh look! Here’s a video how-to those rascals made on how to best use it. Diffuser cupping included.)
Once your hair is dry…
What you use here depends on your curl, and the weight and thickness of your hair. I have fine, curly hair, which reacts in a very uncouth fashion indeed if I use a curl balm or styling gel that is too heavy for it, so tend to stick to lightweight curl and texture sprays and mists instead. I very strenuously recommend Living Proof’s No Frizz Wave Curl Styling Spray (I used it before walking around outside on a misty morning and the curls actually got silkier and better) and also a product that isn’t actually intended for curls, but which I discovered is brilliant for it, and that is evo’s icon welder, which is designed as athermal protector spray, and which I sprayed in all over before tonging in curls… before realising that the spray had made quite lovely curls already, thank you very much. (A lot of sea salt sprays give great curl, too.) The Joico Curl Activator spray is great too, actually.
But! My absolute best curl styling prod is Redken Wool Shake 08. It’s not terrific for longevity, as it’s pretty, uh, clumpy, for want of a better word (well, it IS called wool shake) and means quite a lot of business, but I find when I spray it on freshly-washed, boofy, fluffy hair – JUST FROM THE MID-LENGTHS TO THE ENDS – my goodness golly me do I get some sensational, cool and textured curls. But with just the right amount of grit, so that it’s much more like cool, modern filmclip hair, as opposed to Year Ten formal hair. Just, try it. Please. I’ve included a photo from when I had long hair last year after using it so you can see the curl type.
For those who can handle, or want, or need thicker, heavier prodz, try scrunching KMS curl-up balm, Kerastase Nurtitive Oleo Curl Defintion Cream or Bumble and bumble Curl Conscious Calming Crème.
(You’ll notice no gels have been mentioned. This is not an accident.)
Fun thing to try! Start light! Start light. You can always add more, but you cannot reverse too much prod. And DO NOT put prod into hands, then put hands directly onto top of head. Start applying at mid-lengths, please. Many thanks.
And the next day…
Depending on how well your hair responds to the prodz you use, your hair might still be in great shape and need nothing, or it might be a bit flat and limp. Sadly, first day curls are usually the best* when you’re going natural**.
I recommend flipping your hair upside down, and spraying a rejuvenating prod lightly over, such as Redken Fresh Curls curl boost or KMS bounce back spray, and then low-heat, low-air blow drying some life back in. A touch of dry shampoo at the roots wouldn’t hurt, either. Otherwise, just embrace the flatness, spray in some sea salt spray all over for more grit, add some black eye liner and go a bit fashiony and cool. Kate Moss would want it that way.
*Unless you are doing mousse, blow-dry, heat protector spray and curling tong all over, curls. THEN they are good the next day. Better, in fact. But this is an article about natural curls so I must stop talking about fake curls.
**Natural with a shittonne of products, that is.
I think that’s it. But if you’re a curly dame, why not share some of your best tricks and prodz below? (We’re all a bit sick of you being so secretive, to be honest.) Give it up! For the love of ringlets, give it up.
Check out our gallery of some curly-haired celebs here:

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Zoe is an author, columnist and porridge fan. She was beauty director of Cosmopolitan, Harper’s BAZAAR and PRIMPED and then collated all the best tips and tricks from her time in these roles for the beauty bible, Amazing Face. She is currently the dating columnist for Cosmopolitan magazine, although her best advice in this arena can probably be found in the dating and relationship guide, Textbook Romance , which she co-wrote with Hamish Blake. Zoe has published three novels, Air Kisses, Playing The Field and The Younger Man, and she rates them among the best novels ever written in the history of the written word. Find more info on her here, or supervise on her daily procrastination here and here.
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I know I am about 2 weeks late on here, but I had to post, being a curly-haired lady with masses of the stuff.
My mum and I call my days as a pre-teen my “Before Product” days, which is when I got called ‘Boof’ at school.
My hair is layered, bra-strap length, coloured, and I have a fringe. Very thick and quite curly, though the curls are no longer ringlets, they are more like 2 minute noodles with a few nice curls and waves (Sometimes. When it chooses to behave.)
These days, I have three options:
1. Blow dry after washing/conditioning and using heaps of leave-in serum or argan oil type products. Blast the bejesus out of it, whilst brushing. Then section it off and use my beloved GHD to make brilliant waves and flicks. This lasts about 4 days (with a bit of dry shampoo on day 4)
2. Use my new Vidal Sassoon big round hairdryer brush thingo. When we moved to Europe in Feb I bought this for about $50AUD and learnt to use it. The trick with these things is to make sure there are NO knots in your hair, and have it combed into the correct part-line. Section off, blast quickly with normal hairdryer to get most of the water out, then start at the bottom and be patient. Also, be prepared to get your hair tangled in it a few times until you work out how the hell it rotates. Once you get the hang of it, these things produce an almost-salon blow dry. Only on a few missed sections (back of my head) do I need to go over it with the GHD, but this is becoming less of an occurrence.
3. Wash, condition, add moisturising product (I buy cheapies mostly – Schwarzkopf serums work for me, mid-lengths to ends) then some mousse (Wella Flex is good), twirl sections to encourage curls to behave, then gently dry with a diffuser. If there are any cr*p looking pieces when it’s dry, tong them into ringlets (hello GHD, I love you more and more each day).
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I know I am about 2 weeks late on here, but I had to post, being a curly-haired lady with masses of the stuff.
My mum and I call my days as a pre-teen my “Before Product” days, which is when I got called ‘Boof’ at school.
My hair is layered, bra-strap length, coloured, and I have a fringe. Very thick and quite curly, though the curls are no longer ringlets, they are more like 2 minute noodles with a few nice curls and waves (Sometimes. When it chooses to behave.)
These days, I have three options:
1. Blow dry after washing/conditioning and using heaps of leave-in serum or argan oil type products. Blast the bejesus out of it, whilst brushing. Then section it off and use my beloved GHD to make brilliant waves and flicks. This lasts about 4 days (with a bit of dry shampoo on day 4)
2. Use my new Vidal Sassoon big round hairdryer brush thingo. When we moved to Europe in Feb I bought this for about $50AUD and learnt to use it. The trick with these things is to make sure there are NO knots in your hair, and have it combed into the correct part-line. Section off, blast quickly with normal hairdryer to get most of the water out, then start at the bottom and be patient. Also, be prepared to get your hair tangled in it a few times until you work out how the hell it rotates. Once you get the hang of it, these things produce an almost-salon blow dry. Only on a few missed sections (back of my head) do I need to go over it with the GHD, but this is becoming less of an occurrence.
3. Wash, condition, add moisturising product (I buy cheapies mostly – Schwarzkopf serums work for me, mid-lengths to ends) then some mousse (Wella Flex is good), twirl sections to encourage curls to behave, then gently dry with a diffuser. If there are any cr*p looking pieces when it’s dry, tong them into ringlets (hello GHD, I love you more and more each day).
And for anyone who’s asking, YES, I moved to Europe WITH my GHD, and I bought a new hairdryer and a rotating hairdryer brush… and I spend too much time on my hair!
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I have mid-length curly hair & never brush or comb. My tangles come out when i wash it about every 3-4 days. I wash & condition with Garnier Fructis Silky Waves. After washing I towel dry to get rid of the drips but it must remain wet all over. I then add a 1 – 1 1/2 tablespoons of Garnier Fructis Texturising Paste, Surf Hair. I hold my head upside down scrunching from the ends up. I never dry it unless it’s freezing cold weather & then only a few minutes with a diffuser. On day 2 I wet my hair in the shower & only add another 1/2 tablespoon of product. On day 3 I pull it back but only once it’s dry so it still looks curly all over rather than pulled back straight with curly ends out of the ponytail. Hope this helps. I’ve tried a lot of products over the years but have stuck with these for some time now.
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I can’t believe I’m going to say this Zoe, but I disagree with your advice. You mention combing product through wet hair. My golden rule for curls is NEVER comb or brush them, even when wet. I will detangle my hair under the shower with my fingers, but that is all.
I frequently get comments on my curls. I have thick curly hair which forms medium sized ringlets, and the only styling product I use is sculpting lotion. My current favourite is Joilotion by Joico. I previously used Sculpt It, but they changed the formula and now it is crap. I just tip my head upside down, apply probably a big tablespoon of the lotion (I have very thick and long curly hair) and then scrunch and leave to dry naturally, or dry on a diffuser.
I have tried about every product for curls and none of them work anywhere near as well as sculpting lotion. In my book creams are completely useless. Scultpting lotion is nice and silky to touch, not sticky at all, and will generally rinse out of hair with warm water, without leaving a yucky residue. And when my hair is dry if you touched it, you wouldn’t even know there was product in it – there’s no crunch or stickiness etc. Oh, and I sometimes also use a few drops of morroccan oil as an extra measure against frizz.
I know this will sound stupid, but discovering sculpting lotion for my hair has changed my life when it comes to hair. Every now and then I try something else, but always come back to it.
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Hey Zoe,
Is the Remington Keratin Therapy Tong out and actually for sale in Australia yet – if so where?
I am struggling to find it.
Thanks
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Help the straight & curly needy!
Zoe i have very thick, heavy hair and it is straight. I wouldn’t say dead straight but straight enough to have the want for curls !!!!
I don’t have time to curl my hair. i was wondering is there a perm ( forbiden word i know) that isn’t going to give me springy curls but long loose curls!
any ideas
thanks
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Looking through the gallery, if I towel dry, run a detangling comb through and leave to dry naturally, it will look like Natalie Portman’s or Nicole Kidman’s hair. I use a Pantene leave in conditioner, or maybe a tiny bit of oil, in the ends.
When I brush it the next day, all curl is gone and only waves are left.
What I want to know is how I can keep the separated curls for more than just one day!
I don’t have time or the inclination for using tons of product or dryers. The only thing I own is a straightener which I use only on the fringe and random strips on the top layer (keeps it smooth when I pull it back in a pony tail).
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We have very similar hair by the sounds of it… I do not brush my hair when it is dry EVER.
I only brush my hair when it’s wet. It holds separate curls. If it starts to go fluffy/frizzy like it needs a brush, I use some more hair moisture cream and tie it up for a little while to soak it in and it usually behaves again
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Do you comb then? Combing loses the curls as well alas unless I finger comb which separates them into thinner curls – like dreadlocks of various thickness. I love the look but so hard to keep!
I’d love to not comb or brush it – but then I’m sure I really would end up with dreadlocks.
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I don’t touch it while it’s dry, anything I’ve gained that’s good with product will be lost when I brush.
I roll with the dreads and I pull them apart by hand and fix them with curling tongs so they aren’t as feral.
I also cheat and straighten the top layer and let that mix back in with the curls and it seems to sit better.
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Sweet, thanks for the tip.
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The brush is the curly-headed person’s enemy!
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I don’t brush unless I’m about to wash it. But on non-hair-washing days, I can rake my fingers through to de-tangle, dampen my hair with a spray bottle and put product through again.
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I love L’Oreal’s curl memory up spray. Works for me with wet hair when styling and also the next day for a refresher.
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I sleep on a satin pillowcase, maintains my curls, no frizz! Best thing ever for my moderately curly, thick hair.
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I have naturally curly hair, which I love – I just don’t like how thick it is! It also gets horribly frizzy no matter what I do with it. I can’t really afford any specialised styling products, so I just use normal shampoo and conditioner on it. Occasionally I use a shampoo and conditioner for curly hair (I love Herbal Essences’ Tousle Me Softly), but it really depends on whether it’s on special or not. And whenever I have my hair cut, I always have it layered – both to bring out the curl, and so it doesn’t look like I’ve got an afro once my hair settles.
Generally what I do when I wash my hair is I shampoo it twice (it’s the only way I can get it clean because it’s so damn thick), and every second wash I comb through conditioner and leave it in for a few minutes while I shave, brush my teeth, wash my face, et cetera. I always let it dry naturally, which takes a few hours but it’s better than attacking it with a hairdryer. Right now I can get away with only washing my hair twice a week (as it’s longer than I usually keep it), but once I have my hair cut I’ll probably have to wash it once every couple of days. I’ll have to see how things go once I’ve had it cut.
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I’m not sure if you’re anything like me – but it does sound like your hair is fairly similar – in that when I was using supermarket shampoo/conditioner – my hair just did not behave. Plus I would easily use up a bottle of conditioner after 4 washes – no joke. (and only washing twice a week). Since I switched to salon products – the difference is amazing – both in how my hair looks, feels, is, as well as the much reduced amount of product I’m using – I’m actually saving money! I do think some supermarket prodz have improved these days – but I would def consider trying to splurge a bit more on conditioner at least. As someone with a whole lotta thick hair, I get compliments all the time – everyone wants thick hair – embrace it!
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I can’t afford salon products, unfortunately – I’m on an extremely strict budget and I don’t have a lot of spare cash at the best of times. :/ Supermarket shampoo/conditioner is usually the best I can hope for. I have had some luck with Aldi’s knockoff of Pantene, though. Perhaps if I have some spare cash when I get my hair cut, I’ll ask the hairdresser if they have any products they can recommend for my hair.
I actually end up using up all my shampoo before I even come close to using up all my conditioner – it generally takes me a month or two to get through a normal-sized bottle of it. It doesn’t help that my hair’s long at the moment – when it’s short I don’t use nearly as much.
And I’ve never had any compliments on how thick my hair is (other than hairdressers making the odd comment) – I get complimented on the colour occasionally, though. It’s a very dark brown, nearly black, and it’s all natural – the sooner I can get it dyed the better though, because I’ve been getting grey hairs for the last ten years and with my hair as dark as it is, they tend to be very noticeable…
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Hmm not quite the same as mine then – my conditioner usage always outweighs my shampoo usage! It can be worthwhile keeping your eye on strawberrynet for specials on salon products – otherwise you could try other remedies like pure coconut oil as a treatment instead
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I’m sure I’ve mentioned it here before but I’ve been engaged in a battle with my hair for decades. The hair is winning. When I was a little girl it grew in tight curls. After that it had a bit of a kink in it (or kinky hair as my late grandmother called it) for about 12 years. Then when I was 19 it went out of control and it’s been there ever since.
I have a good head of hair, it’s thick, strong and there’s lots of it. My current hairdresser says she’s never seen so much hair on one head! I wash it once a week, this week I’ve gone 8 days and it looks the same as it did 4 days ago. I don’t know where my hairdryer is, it’s been at least 4 years since I used it last. After I’ve washed it I comb it through then use Moroccan oil curly styling cream in it, wrap it in a towel and leave it alone. It looks good on the 2nd and 3rd day, any other time and it just does what the hell it wants. I whack in the styling cream every double of days or so.
Every now and then I use some coconut oil in it when it’s dry. Not a lot, just enough to calm it down. It doesn’t look greasy when I do this. I never comb or brush it inbetween times but I do run my fingers through to take away the hairs that fall out. I do lose a lot of hair every day which worries me sometimes but my hairdresser says it’s normal.
Every now and then I get a blow dry and I feel like a princess. I love that my hair does that swish thing. Curly hair doesn’t swish.
I can’t believe I get away with washing it so infrequently but I do. It doesn’t even smell until about day 8. Maybe I should have washed it tonight…….
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I hear you on the swishing. I always wanted hair that swishes too, but I’d look awful with straight hair.
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Sound like we have very similar hair!
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Just saw a great documentary that Chris Rock did a few years back called Good Hair. Amazing how huge the African American hair industry is!
Also very scary how dangerous the chemical straighteners are and which celebrity has a weave etc. I thought my curly hair was bad!
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Isn’t it a great film? Fascinating, funny and at times, heartbreaking. Good on Chris Rock for making it.
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Had all my pingies & toes crossed for this type of story Zoe! Totally agree with previous comments about finding a hairdresser who specialises in curly hair. For Sydney based girls I cannot recommend Orla Quinnlan’s in
Surry Hills highly enough!
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I have curls that look a lot like a bad 80s spiral perm so go for the chemical straightening option. I have had it straightened once a year for 18 years (yes seriously). It is the dead straight option, just a ‘relaxer’ so if I don’t blow dry it out it still has some wavieness.
When I see photos like the above gallery I often think I should live with the curls, but curls are o much more high maintenance for me. So the straightener wins out. And means I don’t have to wash every day.
Love curls on others though – just not me!
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Curls are high-maintenance? Really? I find they’re easy-peasy. I love that about them! And I love that I don’t have to wash every day! Not to diss what you’re saying. Just surprised/shocked cos the things you don’t like about them are exactly what I love!!
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Further to the idea of using a soft t-shirt to dry your hair – I read online somewhere recently that a good idea to get soft curls is to wash your hair at night, squeeze as much water out of it as you can, then do one of these things to prepare for sleep overnight –
(a) drag your hair upside down through the neck of the t-shirt so that the collar part is now like a sort of hairband around your forehead and the rest of the t-shirt is draped down your back, enclosing all your wet hair inside the t-shirt – it will dry overnight with a handtowel over your pillow to save your pillow going yucky and because it has no friction, it won’t be frizzy in the morning, but will be soft curls
OR
(b) make a hair “plop” – as in this article http://www.wikihow.com/Plop-Your-Hair which has the same effect
I tried the first and it worked brilliantly. I have thick, coarse, uber-curly/frizzy hair.
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I’m so trying this tomorrow!
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Guys I also forgot to say: consider a hairdresser who will dry cut. I found it much much better for my curls. (Otherwise your hair is wet when they cut it, and becomes a lot shorter and different than when it was wet. But you know that already, I’m guessing.)
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Zoe, any news on when the Remington Keratin tong will be on sale? I had a look last week but seems its not available yet.
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Oh, it’s definitely March, they said, so hang in there!
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Can’t believe no one’s mentioned the book ‘Curly Girl” by Lorraine Massey.
That’s like, the hair BIBLE for a lot of curly haired girls, and a lot of the ‘long hair” community (peeps dedicated to growing long hair).
Her approach is kind of the opposite to Ms Foster’s though – be totally carefully with your product! GO NATURAL. Say goodbye to SLS (sodium lauryl sulfate and sodium laureth sulfate) and silicones in your shampoos. Say no to blow dryers, unless they have a diffuser, and only use them cool.
Then you CAN have gorgeous Disney princess hair most days
Might sound drastic, but I know a lot of women with long, LONG, gorgeous, healthy curls (and straights) who swear by teh Curly Girl Method
(I’m *almost* one of them… I’m still trying to throw out my SLS silicone laden shampoo and conditioner, but I’ll get there one day…
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Zoe, I roolly roolly miss your videos. Did i miss something? Are you going to do anymore? I just love your simple fun vids.
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I think Mia said in another post that Zoe prefers to write and videos take a lot of time to prepare..
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I used to hate my curls so much, I pretty much wore my hair in a bun every day from yr 7 to yr10, and I dreaded the hairdresser because they always made me feel like cutting my hair was such a chore (I even had one hairdresser that straightened it before she cut it!)
These days I’ve learned to embrace and love the curl, and I wouldn’t trade it for anything. I’ve even found a hairdresser that loves my curly hair and insists I always go to him. I’ve found what works best for me is only washing it once a week with Morrocanoil Moisture Repare shampoo & conditioner, using a treatment once a week, only combing it when it’s wet and has conditioner in and using a leave in cream every second day. Oh, and I never blow dry it – always makes it frizz :/
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Great article Zoe! I have fine, curly hair (not ringlets) with an oily scalp and I’m always looking for product recommendations. I have tried heaps of different products but can’t really pinpoint a good one as the vast majority are just too rich and heavy for my hair. I’m going to try the Living Proof range for starters
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I have the same sort of hair as you Red, I find using a lightweight shampoo like sexy hair light and a quick condition followed by drying my hair off by squeezing it (my hd’s recommendation) and then lightly applying morrocan oil light and then an old but a goodie called revitafoam. This works for me as I can add the moisture to my hair where I need it..the mid to end lengths and I don’t end up with a greasy scalp but lovely soft defined curls…ohhh..once my hair is almost dry I then apply the tiniest amount of muk curl defining creme to my hair.
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I have curly which needs to be blow dried to get it dry. All this talk of letting it dry naturally is a bit unrealistic, especially with trying to get out the door each morning. (My hair is no good once it has been slept on and us too short to tie back.) Unless of course, you want to look like a drowned rat until mid morning.
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I love love love sun silk curl boost no frizz balm. $8 from Priceline and amazing. I was and condition using redlining fresh curls every day (comb my conditioner through with a thick comb) then apply the redkin fresh curl leave in conditioner goop. Then brush gently. Then scrunch using my best friend the sunsilk curl boost no frizz balm and Leave to dry naturally. Have the whole process down to about 7 minutes in the morning! I have chunky thick ringlets. Think Taylor swift (when it’s behaving)
Ps. You can get The redkin fresh curls in 1l bottles on strawberry not. So much more economical!
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Oh yes! That Sunsilk balm IS great! I forgot him.
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I use that product too! Its seriously the best & I have fine hair.I also love how cheap it is, especially since I wash my hair everyday.
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Yep – been the mainstay of my hair prods for years. And my alternative is Marc Daniels Rapid Curl, which is about the same price and has the same effect (but it’s got a creamier texture).
I also use John Frieda Frizz Ease Spiral Style Curl Defining Spray Gel (had to check the name of it!). It’s great for the second day – spray water on to dampen hair and then spray on and give hair a quick scrunch. Done.
And NEVER, EVER brush hair, unless you’re about to wash it or put it up. On day two you can Rake your hands through to de-dreadlock, then do the water spray, Spray Gel and scrunch routine though.
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I love love love sun silk curl boost no frizz balm. $8 from Priceline and amazing. I was and condition using redlining fresh curls every day (comb my conditioner through with a thick comb) then apply the Teflon fresh curl leave in conditioner goop. Then brush gently. Then scrunch using my best friend the sunsilk curl boost no frizz balm and Leave to dry naturally. Have the whole process down to about 7 minutes in the morning! I have chunky thick ringlets. Think Taylor swift (when it’s behaving)
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Ooh, my hair is naturally wavy but I’m still not brave enough to let it free! I’ve come to realise it’s a control thing. When I have nice straight hair, I feel so much neater and polished!
I really need to just let it go, don’t I!?
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I can relate to this. I find if I straighten my hair I can always predict the outcome, foolproof formula, nice & polished look. When I embrace the curl the outcome is sometimes far from ideal, other times brilliant. Cannot seem to get a formula right for my curls. Must try some of these tips!
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Totally not relevant to hair – but has anyone tried ‘Youngblood’ cosmetics mineral powder?
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I’ve been using youngblood for over a year, I like it. Good, polished coverage, but not particularly long lasting, I’ve found.
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Thanks Jules! I liked the way it looked after she put it on, but it’s fairly expensive. And she said you’re supposed to use one of those fancy brushes too.
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Love the Redken Wool Shake, but advise the ‘gently, gently’ approach. It’s easy too use too much!
Really, really have to disagree with the Living Proof recommendation though. Found it to be (very) expensive and (very) useless. Would suggest buying the smaller sizes first before dropping $$ on the full-size ones. Horses for courses though
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Has anyone tried argan oil or products for curly hair?
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I’ve tried the oil but it was too rich for my hair, avoid it if you have fine, curly hair. I think it’s best for drier, coarser curls.
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I have fine hair and can use the moroccan oil light…but just the tiniest amount and I always start at the back of the head and work my way forward.
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Oh Zoe I love your advice -and amazing face is just that amazing!
I must say however that I will probably read this post again it just seems too hard…. I do have curly, thick, wavy, frizzy hair and I wish I knew how to control it but I don’t even know where to start. I have been straightening since the good ol ‘muster’ days-and those who are serial straighteners will know what I mean.
It’s never encouraging when when even my hairdresser agrees it is easier for me to straighten my hair.
I do want to embrace the curls just don’t want to spend a whole lot of money working it out. One step at a time maybe….and perhaps print this blog out and stick it on the mirror!!
Love your work!!
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I had a Muster and I loved the damn thing until I discovered GHD.
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Annoymous – please go find a hairdresser that understands your hair! I have heaps of very thick, coarse, wavy hair, and I’ve been to hairdressers in the past who just couldn’t handle it – didn’t understand it. Finding a hairdresser who understands your hair – and you – is invaluable. These days I love my hair, and get complimented on it so, so often. It can get exxy trying to work out what prodz work for you – but if you find yourself a Redken salon for example (seeing as Zoe recommended several Redken prodz) – they can give you samples of the products so you can see what suits your hair before purchasing. Good luck!
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Just wandering what hairdresser you go to? Are you in Sydney?
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I have a friend with very curly hair. I can tell by her hair whether she finds something important or not as much. When she rocks up all straight haired it is a very important appointment!!
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I have very curly hair (think ringlets). I use a different range of products. The one I found that works for me is the Tigi Catwalk Curlesque range. I changed to it from the Redken Fresh Curls, and the difference for my hair is amazing. I use the shampoo, conditioner, leave-in conditioner and curl amplifier. My curls look best the day after I wash them.
Things I found are best for curly hair:
- wash hair as little as possible (once a week if you can manage it)
- do not comb or brush dry hair – your hands are all you need
- do not rub wet hair, just blot
- my hair is frizzier when I use a blowdryer, so I let my hair dry naturally
- find a good hairdresser, and follow them when they go elsewhere!
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Totally agree – I’ve been using Catwalk Curls Rock for almost 10yrs and would never use anything else. It changed my life that and my brother marrying my hairdresser!
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I can’t recommend the Aveda Be Curly range highly enough. I have tried most products over the years but now will only use these ones. I use all of the Be Curly products (but mainly because I picked them up 1/2 the price you pay in Aus in the US). The shampoo and conditioner work a treat in reducing the fuzz, but the best things are the Curl Enhancer and Style prep, which I continue to buy in Australia. The style prep is awesome for getting rid of the extra frizz and also makes your curls look even better after you have slept with them on day 2! If you are looking for an organic shampoo conditioner mix I found the Trilogy products in the pink bottle to be great as well!
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Goodness, yes! And I even HAVE the Be Curly enhancer! Found it a wee bit thick for my fine mop, though.
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I tried the Aveda range and they did nothing for me
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Oh how I wish I had curly hair. Always want what you cant have!
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Coconut oil is the go. It’s a dry oil not an oily oil and hair loves it.
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I straightened my curls out until I moved to Australia and I got a $600 quote to do the same thing I get done in Asia for 85% less. Um, no. So I embraced the curls, and six years later I love my hair and would never ever go back!
I have thick hair which is now cut into a choppy bob-ish thing that hits around my chin. I have a really short undercut on my nape which is great because I have so much less hair to deal with! Love. I have a very round face. So first tip: FIND A GOOD HAIRDRESSER WHO WORKS WITH CURLY HAIR. If you’re in Melbourne, Kristianna from Shibui is fantastic as is Marcelle who comes to your house! So convenient. Call 0412 230 516 for appointments. I used to go to Hailey at Cast North Fitzroy but she went back to the UK
My new discovery is the Mixed Chicks range, which I found in the States while on holidays last year. The leave-in conditioner is life-changing. You can order online!!! http://www.mixedchicks.net/ I use the whole range.
So – I shampoo every two or three days but condition every single day (i.e. wet my hair in the shower, pop conditioner on, done). I don’t own a comb so just work it through with my fingers. Try not to be so rough when working it in so you don’t break up the curls. Wrap in towel, no rubbing, just wrapping. I only put it in for two minutes because my hair plays with products better when wet. I put one pump of Kerastase Elixir Ultime through the ends http://www.kerastase-usa.com/_en/_us/conso/products/elixirultime/index.aspx – bought for $40 at Cast in May 2011, I use everyday but still have 1/3 of the bottle left. Then I mix Mixed Curls leave-in conditioner (20 cent size) with a little bit of KMS Curl Up Control Creme (5 cent size) in my finger and apply to hair. Fluff a bit, leave to dry (no hairdryer!) and when dry, break up curls. Easy as. You can get KMS at strawberrynet.com!
Go curly hair!!!
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Trina – I used to see Hailey at Cast as well! So disappointed she has left, it’s not really any consolation but perhaps we may be able to get her to cut our hair one day again as she’s still in Australia but just taking the time to travel around. Hailey suggested seeing Alicia who’s also at Cast, I haven’t tried her out yet but I will sometime in the nearish future. Fingers crossed – I agree, a good hairdresser who understands curls is paramount!
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I straightened my curls out until I moved to Australia and I got a $600 quote to do the same thing I get done in Asia for 85% less. Um, no. So I embraced the curls, and six years later I love my hair and would never ever go back!
I have thick hair which is now cut into a choppy bob-ish thing that hits above my cheeks. I have a really short undercut on my nape which is great because I have so much less hair to deal with! Love. I have a very round face. So first tip: FIND A GOOD HAIRDRESSER WHO WORKS WITH CURLY HAIR. If you’re in Melbourne, Kristianna from Shibui is fantastic as is Marcelle who comes to your house! So convenient. Call 0412 230 516 for appointments. I used to go to Hailey at Cast North Fitzroy but she went back to the UK
My new discovery is the Mixed Chicks range, which I found in the States while on holidays last year. The leave-in conditioner is life-changing. You can order online!!! http://www.mixedchicks.net/ I use the whole range.
So – I shampoo every two or three days but condition every single day (i.e. wet my hair in the shower, pop conditioner on, done). I don’t own a comb so just work it through with my fingers. Try not to be so rough when working it in so you don’t break up the curls. Wrap in towel, no rubbing, just wrapping. I only put it in for two minutes because my hair plays with products better when wet. I put one pump of Kerastase Elixir Ultime through the ends http://www.kerastase-usa.com/_en/_us/conso/products/elixirultime/index.aspx – bought for $40 at Cast in May 2011, I use everyday but still have 1/3 of the bottle left. Then I mix Mixed Curls leave-in conditioner (20 cent size) with a little bit of KMS Curl Up Control Creme (5 cent size) in my finger and apply to hair. Fluff a bit, leave to dry (no hairdryer!) and when dry, break up curls. Easy as. You can get KMS at strawberrynet.com!
Go curly hair!!!
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I always find that washing my hair and going to bed with it a little damp (no hair dryers here!) gives me the best curls. If I let it air dry during the day I get über frizz! Will be trying the wool product for sure xx
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I do the same! I twist the curls with some KMS curl cream and put a beanie on when I go to sleep – not exactly a ‘come hither’ look, but they dry really well for the next day!
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YES! Works well for me too. I pop in some moisturiser, blow dry smoothish til 80% dry, then sleep. Fabulous bedheady curls in the am. And if they’re loopy, I just pull them up high, with terrific volume and bounce.
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Oh thank you Zoe!!!!! My 12 year old stunning daughter has thick ringlets but at the hairline it is just total frizz, akin to sheeps wool:( I want her to be able to style her own hair now she is all grown up lol but honestly, although some products do help, even temporarily “relaxing” her curls, sort of a reverse perm didn’t get rid of the frizz. She is currently trying Juice hairdresser stuff which is better than most but if anyone knows of any miracle cure to turn frizz to curl, that is safe and appropriate for a 12 year old and won’t require me to take out a second mortgage I would be eternally grateful. Moroccan Oil etc is good but just flattens the frizz, it doesn’t curl it, so not the answer either. The Redken product might be the go. My darling girl is a dead ringer for Nicole Kidman so I get disappointed when she straightens her hair as it sends the message that curls are tuck lol. What does had use huh? And wouldn’t you know, my youngest daughter has straight hair. Arguments? Oh no lol. Of course they argue! Help!
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Revitafoam (mousse in the light blue container) is lovely for curls – really appropriate for little girls – smells lovely and really smooths down & encourages a lovely curl. I think you can only buy it from hairdressers or suppliers such as Petra (so a little more expensive than supermarket stuff, bur worth it). Been around for years but hard to beat.
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Thank you, I might give it a try!
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I’ve been using this product on myself and my daughters for years. Great product and easy for the youngsters to use.
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My hair is like your daughters so I feel her pain! I’ve got the added annoyance of shorter clumps growing back where my beautiful thick pregnant hair fell out post childbirth! I know you said Moroccan oil was no good but did you try the Intense curl cream or the oil? I’ve just started using the intense curl cream and it gave me lovely soft shiny ringlets, even up the top where the worst oft frizz is. I do use the oil when I’m straightening though, works better than serum for me. Got both quite cheaply on eBay.
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I had the same problem with Morrocanoil, it mostly just flattened the frizz. Have you tried the Morrocanoil Intense Curl Cream though? I love it!
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Thank you so much ladies! I am going to give the Moraccan cream a try I think, she has good shampoo etc, doesn’t brush it or thrash it dry when it’s wet but does have to have it pulled back every day for school (although loosely), will happily give it all a try, Curls rule LOL!!!
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I had the same when I was younger. I think it has mainly come good from looking after my hair better. most of my frizz halo came from the front hairs being shorter. So being careful not to brush the hair too much, careful when pulling hair back into a pony tail don’t pull to tight and break those front hairs. Use a mask, (I usually only get around to it once a month.) I have used a good shampoo but I think the herbal essences range was good too. It takes a while but those front hairs get longer then they just smooth into the rest of the hair. Hope this helps
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I have curls – big and bouncy… Over the last few years I know these things are to be true:
-Get a good haircut for your curl type – mine is short (just under my ears) and long jaggered layers so it looks good curly or straight and most importantly when it grows
-Use a diffuser to dry your hair (sorry Zo but I think so) so your hair has a nice bounce and body
-Find a good product for your type of curl.. and stick to it. Mine is Muk curl amplifier (there is a new curl amplifier – not that one, the original gangster one) it keeps my curls big and beautiful without the friz, but still soft and natural looking (and feeling).
Embrace the curl – give it a whirl (sorry – I couldnt help myself)
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Zoe can you recommend the best brand of tongs to buy for loose curls?
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Oooh thanks so much for this info! So hard to have curly hair when the whole world wrongly assumes you’d prefer to have straight hair.
My mum trained me from a very young age to comb my curls out. And I did this faithfully forever, until I moved to country town nearly 3 years ago and my new hairdresser also has curly hair, and suddenly, wow, I don’t comb my hair any more! My mum hates my hair now.. but ha, it’s mine not hers, and i love it. So easy.
After my shower I just flop my hair over and scrunch it with a towel. That’s it. Wash it once a week and put moisteuriser product in it once or twice a week. That’s it. No other products, no blow dry.
So curly haired people… I think we’re on to something!
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Excellent! Have been trying to embrace my natural curls for about six months but almost always end up failing and reaching for the ghd. Will try these suggestions!
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Zoe: I think I love you. I got curls (like really tight corkscrew ringlets) after I had chemo in 2010, and I just don’t know what to do with them. I should say I didn’t know what to do with them until now. Will be buying some of these products asap! Thanks.
Oh and keep up the good work – and if you ever want to run a promotion and give someone (me) a makeover, I would be down with that!
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Thanks Zoe, this is brilliant. I’m going to try the Redken wool thing.
My curl routine is: wash every day with herbal essences, use Toni and Guy curl creme, dry naturally, scrunch. It doesn’t look great until dry though. Aveda also do a great curl creme.
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I don’t even have curly hair but read this anyway!! (possibly developing a Zoe Foster stalking problem!!)
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Thanks Zoe! Your a little hair gem!
I have the not so curly not so straight hair; and so thick! Im so sick of straightening as my go too style so im prepared to see how “oh naturaaal” I can go and let the prodz do the work.
Im going try the light prodz to see how they go as I do find even with thick hair the heavy ones just weigh it down so I lose all the shape and that natural bounce…wish me luck and thanks again xxx
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I NEVER brush or comb my curly hair……
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Me neither! I pat it dry a little with a towel, then put product in it while it’s wet, and let it dry naturally. No way could I put a hairdryer near it….it would ruin the curl.
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THANK YOU!!! us curly girls have been waiting for this incredible post, and it was well worth the wait.
i use ‘PURE – Sensual Curls’ which give a nice soft but defined curl (no crunch). my hair is fine, but i have a lot of it. i like to try different products, and will check out the ones you’ve mentioned. i’m in need of a new shampoo/conditioner so this post is perfect timing!
for your next curly hair piece, could you please do hot hair-do’s/trends for curly hair? thanks!
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Thank-you, my hair is a straggly, frizzy mess, going to investigate these products now. Zoe, are you able to do a post on the ‘grey-market’ of counterfeit beauty products, I have read a few articles recently about some websites selling counterfeit or expired beauty products, how do we know if a product is counterfeit?
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I too have curls, but big boofy afro like curls.
Suggestions?
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