Thirty-year-old Vanity Wonder – mother of two – has spent $15 000 on black market plastic surgery. For her bottom.
That’s right. Along with bigger boobs, smaller noses and plumper lips – the latest trend in plastic surgery is apparently boosting the size of your booty.
These photos made us wonder if the the world has gone completely mad.
The photos are shocking but at the same time, you can’t help looking. How is it possible to take the quest for a ‘perfect body’ so far and not realise when you’ve crossed the line from attractive to just plain weird?
Not only has this procedure severely distorted Vanity’s body but it has also put her life at risk. Black market plastic surgery is a growing industry in the United States, where the price of accessing a qualified doctor is out of reach for many women who are desperate to look a certain way.

Vanity Wonder after the injections.
In her new book ‘Shot Girls’, Vanity reveals how she became addicted to injection procedures that have substantially increased the size of her bottom and hips:
Even though I had kicked the drugs, that didn’t mean I was going to kick my appointment to get pumped. In my mind, the two were never connected. It’s not like I was high when I decided that I wanted them, and I saw no harm in getting them. I had always wanted a better body and on top of that, I liked the compliments that I’d got when I was a little thicker…
…I immediately wished it was someone else who was going to get shot with these needles. I mean, I freakin’ HATE needles. I have a hard time getting my blood drawn or getting vaccinated. I wished that someone else could take the pain but I would get the bigger butt. I gave [them] my $500 and took off my pants…
In an effort not to startle me with the initial poke, [the doctor] let me know that he was ready to start injecting. I would be getting 9 shots in a vertical direction on my butt. There would be 3 injection sites (top, middle and bottom) with three shots in each site. His hands were gentle as he stuck the needle in my left cheek for the first time. The poke hurt a little but it was nothing compared to the feeling of the liquid flooding into my butt... I’ve never been struck by lightning but I’m pretty sure that’s what this felt like. I had to breathe.
After he emptied that first, full syringe of liquid into my cheek, he unscrewed it from the needle so the needle would stay stuck in my butt… I was in pain.
… I was allowed to stand up and bend my knees because they were aching from the pain. I looked at my butt in the long mirror that was on the outside of the bathroom. It wasn’t a major improvement but I was happy with the results so far…Walking out of the hotel in that cold, November air made the pain that much worse… My butt wouldn’t stop burning. I was so uncomfortable.
I was ready to lie down so I hopped in my car and drove to a friend’s house. He knew what I’d gone to do so he didn’t mind the cotton circles super glued to my butt or the saran wrap. We weren’t in a relationship or anything, we were just real cool. He said that getting the shots was a good look and if I wanted to get more, that he would help me pay for them. I went to sleep feeling loved and happy.
Vanity was happy with the result, but soon decided that it wasn’t enough:
The next morning, I woke up and was more than ready to get the cotton and superglue off of my butt.
I followed the instructions and the cotton came off without incident. I was happy with the results and couldn’t wait to go to work so all the girls could see how good it turned out. When I got there they gave me good compliments and I was happy about the little attention I received. It felt good to get compliments that I never thought I would. But did I make more money at work? Did guys even notice that I had got it done? Did ANYONE that I hadn’t previously told, notice that I’d gotten it done? No. I was still a popular nobody.
I didn’t see anything wrong with that though. I didn’t see these shots as a way out of that. I had never been a guy magnet and didn’t think injections would make me one. I was perfectly happy being the Vanity that made everyone laugh and was cool with sitting in the back seat. I was motivated by having a better body, not by what others thought of me. Coming from what I had, I was just happy to be there. But yeah, I decided to get more…
Vanity finally stopped getting the butt injections once she began to fear that she would not be around to see her two children grow up. Her story makes you wonder what sort of influences are at play that have made Vanity feel like she needs to increase the size of her behind well beyond natural human proportions. And why didn’t she stop earlier?
Are plastic surgery options becoming too extreme? Can plastic surgery be addictive? What does it say about society, when women feel such pressure to look a certain way that they will resort to life threatening medical procedures?



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Buttock augmentation is becoming increasingly popular, especially amongst certain ethnic groups, which see a rounder, fuller and prominent bottom as a sign of beauty. Behinds like those of J-Lo are desirable for many men and sought after by many women too. We should not judge others ideals of beauty, because what is beautiful to one person may not be to another – cliched but true.
Having said that, I personally would not have filled Vanity’s bottom to that extreme, and if she had come to me requesting that, I would have tried to counsel her against it and referred her to other colleagues for second and third opinions.
Indeed there are many options available in plastic surgery but it does not mean that we offer the “extreme” to everyone or to anyone for that matter. Good plastic cosmetic surgery is about safely achieving aesthetically pleasing and natural looking results where factors such as balance, proportion, subtle (or not overly dramatic) changes (less is more) are key.
There is immense pressure in society to look younger than we are, be more beautiful, have the amazing body that celebrities have etc etc etc.
For some people, they become fixated on this pursuit to be any or all of the above that they go to extremes and become addicted to plastic surgery. I think it is even more concerning that some people dislike how they look so much or desire a change so much that they would risk their own health and life by seeking budget cosmetic surgery in non-accredited sites by non-accredited surgeons.
It is also dangerous when patients seek plastic surgery for the wrong reasons – to please others, thinking it will solve their problems, hoping it will attract a partner and having unrealistic expectations.
However, I do understand that many people who seek plastic surgery, do so because they may feel self-conscious about how they look or lack confidence and seek an improvement in how they look. And plastic surgery can transform some people’s lives, giving them more confidence, boost their self-esteem and improve their quality of life too.
Not everyone who has plastic surgery or contemplates cosmetic surgery is like Vanity, seeking an extreme result – and by that, I mean an outcome that others would judge as excessive, unnatural and “stupid”. As a plastic surgeon, it is my responsibility to assess patients for their suitability for surgery (healthy, have realistic expectations, understand what they are having done, the risks, implications and alternatives) and to advise on what is safe and physically achievable, taking into consideration what a patient wants.
Vanity’s case highlights the concerns that we have as plastic surgeons, patients
- wanting plastic surgery for the wrong reasons
- desiring a result that “pushes the envelope” in terms of what the tissues and body can handle
- not being well informed
- having an invasive procedure performed on “the black market”
It is encouraging that stories like Vanity’s are told to better inform the public of the dangers of extreme cosmetic surgery and to provide a forum to discuss these issues.
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How much would custom made clothes be costing her after that?!
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Personally, I think it’s certifiable and I imagine that she will have health problems down the track.
It does highlight that the world is made up of all sorts and isn’t that great. It gives a chance for some to feel superior to others.
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she needs help. she should see a psychiatrist
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That does not look comfortable, how on earth does she sit on the toilet?
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Dear Mamamia
Maybe better to not give oxygen to this kind of tripe. Kind of like taking the mickey out of mental illness, which this woman may be suffering some form of.
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“I was motivated by having a better body, not by what others thought of me”
I would expect that sentence from someone who wants to loose weight, not actually put on some.
I do believe that plastic surgery is addictive(see all the celebrities, who look like 30, but are 60 years old).
To me it not only says a lot about that whole pressure to look a certain way, or better said to look different than yourself or normal, it also says that these days people are prepared to spend a ridiculous amount of money on they way they want their body to look.
I discovered recently that an overseas friend of mine did some plastic surgery, I saw some photos on Facebook. I always thought that she was beautiful, of the two of us, she was the boys magnet, yet it looks like she wasn’t as confident as I believed. She is the same age as me(almost 30) and works as a beautician(meaning she’s not really earning lots of money to be able to afford plastic surgery). This may all sound judgemental. But I was just so surprised when looking at her photos, and I also thought that she looked better before, she kind of doesn’t look like herself anymore.
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Where are the moderators on this post? Every second comment is saying she looks horrible and ugly! What happened to the “imagine she is reading this” rule?
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AND noone is actually addressing the topic posed by MM:
“Are plastic surgery options becoming too extreme? Can plastic surgery be addictive? What does it say about society, when women feel such pressure to look a certain way that they will resort to life threatening medical procedures?”
Frustrates me.
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I absolutely agree with this. I am shocked at the ugliness of some of these posts and would hope that the MM moderators actually do something about it.
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I imagined the people making nasty comments on this post sitting on a train giggling amongst themselves while they make fun of this woman. None of us can know why she has taken this path – even from her blog post. She could have body dysmorphia. She could be a part of a culture that has different standards for what is considered attractive. It could be a combination of these factors.
It’s disappointing that a more complex discussion didn’t take place. Moderators could have steered the conversation in a different direction. Even if it was just so comments responded to the actual questions posed, as Martini said.
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I totally agree with you. To the people who are saying she looks ridiculous – there is a culture that exists where the most beautiful trait a woman can have is HUGE hips and butt with a skinny waist. Think Nicki Minaj. Just because it looks stupid to some people does not mean that people involved in another culture think the same way. It really horrifies me that after all the body positive talk on Mamamia and the concern for people with poor self esteem about the way they look, that anyone could turn around and speak in such a mean way about someone who obviously has some issues with body image.
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Come now girls, this is self inflicted sillyness of the highest order. A bit different from having a go at someone for their natural god given looks or sledging someone for an opinion on here.
This lady is obviously looking for attention at any cost – well she got what she wanted.
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Huge bum, small brain.
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Oh the irony of the fact her name is Vanity….
Her butt looks completely and comically ridiculous.
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That just looks so uncomfortable.. I’m imagining it being hard and lumpy, not soft like natural buttocks.
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Next time any of you ladies wanna try this PLEASE CALL ME!!!
You can have mine injected into yours and you are GUARANTEED to outdo Vanity Wonder!
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I was just thinking she could my bum for free
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I know there are people who do crazy things to their body everywhere…but my experience with the US health system thus far means it is that much easier to get sucked in…
Health care is expensive. Insurance is even worse. There are black market online pharmacies everywhere. Quality of genuine care (that I have seen so far in public/teaching hospitals) is awful. I hate to think what ‘procedures’ are going on out there.
To sum up…wow. No more words.
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I wonder what that will look like in 10 years time… what about in 30…
*shudder*
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There should be no black market options and education provided to these woman. That will prevent the medical system and their future health to be weighed down. AND HOW IS THAT HOT?
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She looks bloody ridiculous.
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Her idea of a hot arse is my idea of a deformity. Dixie cups, superglue and alcohol soaked cotton pads How sterile! As for being pumped full of unknown substances – yes Vanity you are right – you are stupid, and no gorgeous big butt will ever fix that.
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The gallary isn’t working I don’t think guys… am getting the circle of doom
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Turns out Vanity is a good name for her…..
I am somewhat lacking in the butt area. I will be one of those old ladies with a totally flat backside that looks horrendo in jeans. I would prefer that than the bubble butt look she has gone for here! How does she find clothes that fit?
I agree with Mumbos below. Stuff like this makes me feel so fabulously normal.
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I must admit when I clicked the link to this, I was wondering who in their right mind would do such a thing to themselves – then I read her name and it alllll made sense……
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So interesting how other cultures have different ideals of beauty. Quite fascinating really.
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She looks like a centaur.
I’m waiting for the pendulum to swing back… when people no longer are willing to risk looking like bizarre plastic aliens, all in the name of VANITY. This hyper sexualised society we live in has got to end sometime soon. Surely?
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The body shape actually reminds me of ancient fertility idols.
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The money would’ve been better spent on her children’s education. How ridiculous.
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Oh come on. Glad that you’re a perfect mother so can criticise her. Do you spend money on your own clothes, make up etc? Should you feel guilty about that because you could be spending it on your children instead? Ditto any money you spend on holidays, books, eating out, etc? Just because she has children doesn’t mean she should never spend money on herself.
We don’t know her financial situation – that might be peanuts to her, and her kids education well taken care of.
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Yeah, but a $90 hair cut once every blue moon or a new top every now and then, or some new mascara when the old one dries out and you start getting conjunctivitis is a little bit different to getting fat injected into your arse. I guess it’s not so much the fact that the kids might be missing out as a result, but more the fact of the sheer embarrassment of having a mother of gargantuan arse proportions dropping the poor little tykes off at school. :p
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Haha true!!
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No one begrudges a mother her little treats – a nice top, makeup etc, however this woman purposely put her life on the line in the name of vanity (no pun intended) despite having two children to look after.
I completely agree with Anon, she should have put that money towards her children’s education. Even if she used it for something less honourable, such as clothes or a new car, it would have been better than what she did.
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Yay! Finally, I naturally have the booty people dream of.
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Who in their right mind would want an arse that big?
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Wow. It looks kind of cool…if you think of it as art. Deranged, permenant, surgically produced art.
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I love stuff like this – it makes my average life and regular hangups seem absolutely normal. But surely the clever people at Mamamia can use their powers for good?
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This needs a warning if you are sitting here eating lunch!
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Is this a joke?
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Oh Dear God!
She took the lyrics to “Baby got back” literally!
There should be laws against this sort of abuse to the bum area.
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It almost gives the toilet paper time to decompose between the wipe and the time the paper hits the bowl. Just sayin.
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And Vanity Wonder? lmao. Sounds like a bathroom cleaning product.
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LMAO – not something old Vanity could do too easily……
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Shoulda gone the lobotomy…
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Worst thing I’ve ever read. Maybe she should have spent that money on further education.
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It looks ridiculous.
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EWWWW!
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This woman obviously has deep issues. As I was reading this, I just kept of her 2 poor little girls.
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Well she sure as hell need deep tissues!
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Stop the planet, I want to get off.
Lets hope she doesnt stand too close to the heater with a butt full of oil and all.
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What. An. Idiot.
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