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Is anyone else craving some rain at the moment?

 

 

 

By LUCY ORMONDE

Crave. Want. Desire. Is there anything you’re desperately missing right now? Something you’re hankering after? Dreaming about?

Alice Springs hasn’t seen rain in something like 150 days. That’s a record for the people of central Australia. It’s the longest period they’ve ever gone without rain. It’s  also unfortunate for the people who (like me) rely on the Weather Gods as a method to wash their cars.

When I was visiting my cousin in Dubai last year, we were trapped in traffic one day when it stared to rain.being from Melbourne, I thought nothing of it. My cousin however screamed, jumped out of the car and danced on the street. Apparently in the seven months since she’d arrived in the sandy desert, there had been no rain. Just lots of sun. And sand.

Note: Stay with me on this post. I promise it’s not all about the weather and the rain. It’s actually about the things you crave. The things you’ve been denied. The things you don’t even realise you’re missing, until you can’t have them.

Take my colleague Nat. She’s going through a different kind of dry spell at the moment. It’s been three months since she’s seen her boyfriend, who’s working overseas. “I just REALLY miss him,” she tells us. Every day. But that’s okay. Because we’re all missing something.

Mia wants a holiday (and she got one this week). It’s been weeks since the last episode of Offspring and Bec is desperately wanting it to come back. Mikki – who’s pregnant – just wants a ham sandwich (or maybe some sashimi). On the other side of the office there’s Nicky. Her little girl just turned one and to celebrate, Nicky would like a night out of the house with her husband. “I don’t even care if the food is shocking and the movie’s boring.”

Jamila desperately wants to go home to Canberra and grab a dose of her sister. I too could really use a coffee and debrief with my girlfriends in Melbourne. Our intern Kahla went back to Tamworth for the first time since February last weekend so she’s feeling satisfied. And Jam and I are not jealous AT ALL.

And then there’s Lana who is at home today celebrating Yom Kippur – part of which involves fasting. So we figure she’d just really like something to eat.

What are you missing/craving at the moment? How long will it be until you can satisfy that craving?

For the record – weather forecasters are predicting rain for Alice Springs in the next couple of days. Nat’s dry spell however, is predicted to last another couple of months.

 

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  1. Elyse

    Missing my gorgeous boyfriend desperately, am in Barcelona and loving the time with the girls but the heart want what it wants, sigh….

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  2. Haven Maven

    My old arse and thighs…..*sighs*

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    • Lulu

      Hah, same here.

      Well, not yours – that would be weird, because I don’t know you. Mine.

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  3. afw

    A proper slow and long kissing session (sweet kind, where you genuinely admire the other person, not just the ‘dirty’ kind) with someone I really, really like who really, really likes me back and thinks I am fantastic in every way. The kind where you know bedtime is hours away yet, you’re not in a hurry, so you just put on some music and chill together :)

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    • afw

      … oh, and a two-week-long all expenses paid holiday somewhere warmer than here with a plunge pool and a beautiful view and massages every day, if it’s not asking too much!

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      • Jess

        SECONDED. I’ve kinda half got the first one and working on the second one!!! Commmee onnn Phuket! haha

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    • Haven Maven

      Oh yes. This.

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  4. Inlovewithsteve

    I have been single for 18mths so really miss male company. I’m craving, desiring and wanting Steve, we met at work and have an unbelievable chemistry, and get along so well, but he’s taken. We don’t know what to do with how we feel about each other, but we can’t take it any further than friendship. He’s all I think about.
    Oh and I’m craving a day at the beach, to sit and watch the waves crashing in, at least I can satisfy this craving and will be there next week :)

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    • Anonymous

      Steve sounds like a douchebag. He’s taken, and he needs to treat you and his partner with some respect and conduct himself appropriately – that means not indulging you in his ‘feelings’. Remember, if you were the one with him, he’d be having ‘feelings’ for some other poor bird. Yep, he’s a douchebag!

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      • Jess

        I agree, what a douche!

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    • bedizz

      You’ve just freaked out every girl with a partner called Steve! :)

      I’d be very cautious. If this is the way he respects his current partner it’s likely the way he’ll treat a future one. Not necessarily, but I’d be cautious…

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      • Inlovewithsteve

        Thanks everyone for your comments, I feel like a douche too. I will back off and concertrate on finding someone new that I can satisfy all my cravings with.
        Take care

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  5. Violet

    Bubble tea. The place is just too far to walk to, and i can’t be bothered. Someone bring me an earl grey bubble tea with tapioka (sp?) balls please.

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    • pennypacker

      I looove their drinks. My favourite is the taro milk with pearls. yum!

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  6. lizlemonmuppet

    Season 2 of Game of Thrones!!!!

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  7. Essie

    To have mornings when my alarm does not go off at 5:30 (which will happen next week thanks to school hols!)
    For my puppy to be completely toilet trained.
    To be living in a spotlessly clean house.
    To catch up with all my wonderful friends.
    To not be broke.
    For new eps of my favourite show to be released.
    To eat what I want without discomfort.
    To find a nice guy…

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  8. Lila

    I am craving a san churro hot chocolate. I’ve been going, accidentally, about once a week, and it’s just a touch of heaven…Yeah, chocolate is most usually my craving :)

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    • Sailorgirl

      omg yes! I tasted one for the first time a week ago (one just opened in Brissie) and they are amazing!!!

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  9. MaggieK

    I’m craving guilt free me time.
    I’m on a two week break (school teacher) but I’m spending my time a) procrastinating so I don’t have to face the huge workload waiting for me b) justifying that procrastination by doing things for other people.
    Wishing I could do something for myself and not feel one bit guilty about it.

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  10. Nat. A.

    I’m craving Vita Wheat, Milo, Jatz, and time with my family and friends (I just moved to Canada).

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    • Anonymous

      I understand! I spent 9 months in canada last year! Get yourself addicted to Tim Hortons! I miss it everyday :(

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  11. ashsmash

    Great article Lucy.
    Like others below I’m missing the companionship that I shared with a guy mate last week whilst away but cant realy be with now. I’m also missing my home town!
    I think when you have had these things recently (holidays, sex ;) ) you want them more than usual!!!

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  12. Alice A

    I’m craving pizza and there’s some in the fridge upstairs but I’m wearing a hideous turtle-neck that my mum made me put on because I’m sick and I don’t want my family to see me looking so ridiculous. So I guess not being laughed at > pizza. :(

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  13. Cinnamon

    This one is pretty easy for me, I’m craving spending even just one day with my family. After having not seen them for over a year THIS is all I crave!

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  14. MLC

    Living in London there are a whole lot of things I miss from home: Mint Slices, good cheap sushi, Farmer Wants a Wife (I am desperate to watch this season!) but most of all I miss my family and friends. Some days its just really tempting to chuck it all in for a hug from mum but I know when I do go back to Sydney there will be alot in London I miss even more: Europe being a stones throw away, the amazing friends I’ve made and Topshop!

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    • Jess

      This season of FWAW is sooo good! Hehe, just to let you know ;)

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  15. Shaezy

    I was craving weather warm enough to make the house all toasty, which we got today. Which was lovely except it also meant the first day of “Oh my god there’s a huntsman as big as my head on the wall!!!”

    Now I wish it was cold again.

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  16. Sallly

    Smoking a joint with my girlfriends and pissing our selves laughing over old stories

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  17. Sally

    I’ve never been to the movies on my own, never thought I could. I had my first child 8 months ago and for the last few weeks (since she started sleeping for longer stretches at night) I’ve been craving…………..
    going to the movies on my own!

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    • Alice A

      I sometimes go alone because no one else wants to see it/no one else could make it and it’s kind of uncomfortable. And then I realise – I don’t need a buddy to sit next to me quietly and watch the screen in front of us. I watch movies by myself at home all the freaking time haha.

      Congrats on your baby btw! I hope she keeps sleeping longer and longer. :D

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  18. Fi

    oh and chocolate & lattes & cheese. I am bfeeding my baby girl who is allergic to cow’s milk protein. Tell ya what, it’s a different kind of resolve… I don’t think I would have lasted half an hour if it had just been a diet. Ah well, at least I’ve discovered almond milk, which doesn’t suck… who knew?

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  19. iamevilcupcake

    I am craving companionship of the male variety. And sex. It’s been way too long.

    I am craving a job I adore.

    I am craving a relaxing holiday. Somewhere beautiful, where I can sleep, and smile and know I’m alive.

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    • jo

      Ditto to all three of your cravings cupcake –
      Hope your cravings are satisfied soon!

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  20. Fi

    Sleep! Started anti depressants 2 weeks ago (12 years since I last took them…) and my insomnia has actually gotten worse so feeling very flat and blah. Please, some sleep!

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  21. Alice

    Sex. It gets to a point when you stop counting how long its been….

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  22. Cath

    Water. I don’t think I’ve been in a pair of swimmers for about 8 years. Actually, make that 9. The last time must have been on my honeymoon in the Whitsundays. I miss floating and pretending I’m a dolphin.

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    • Lottie

      Why don’t you swim anymore Cath?

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  23. LisaF

    A lot!

    Husband and sons are sea kayaking around Kadavu for the school holidays. I’m craving my family.

    I also decided this would be a good time to do a detox! So craving food, chocolate, caffeine, alcohol, sugar, panadol…….

    But these things will come back to me over the next fortnight.

    I mostly crave my friend Whitey who died last year. Not a day goes by that I dont think about him.

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  24. Anonymous

    Sex!!! Or even just having someone on my radar I want to have sex with. Sigh.

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  25. Freja

    Honestly, what I need right now is some garlic bread to go with this fabulous pasta I am eating.

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  26. Laura

    Im craving a little time to myself. 30 minutes is all I need. Off site!! Either tat or sleep. My teething 1 year old and 5am riser 3 year old ave rendered me slep deprived. Really sleep deprived. Perhaps if I managed time to myself, I could deal better with the tiredness…or if I got some sleep I might not be craving time to myself. Anyways, onwards and upwards.

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  27. Anonymous for this...

    I am desperately craving certainty and clarity in my relationship. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years, he told me he wanted to get engaged this year but then confessed last week he would rather spend the money on other things and he “wasn’t ready”.
    I then shamefully read “he’s just not that into you” only to realise he probably doesn’t want to get engaged to me.
    I also crave not having to be that sad pathetic girl wanting her boyfriend to propose, ugh!

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    • elle

      You’re not sad OR pathetic lady!! Why don’t you sit down and have an honest discussion with him? Tell him how much it means to you to get engaged?

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    • Anonymous

      I don’t think you’re sad and pathetic at all. I actually think what he told you is a big red flag. He’d rather spend money on other things rather than making a life long committment to you, not a good sign.

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    • afw

      4 and a half years? If he doesn’t feel ready by now…
      Well, let’s just say I know someone who listened to the same reasons exactly for double that time. She ended up single and deeply hurt at the end.

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    • Touche

      You MUST have some serious conversations with him, especially if your biological clock is ticking.

      4 1/2 years is plenty of time to decide whether or not you see a future with someone. It’s quite possible he’s just putting off an inevitable break-up (men have a tendency to do this). Wouldn’t you prefer to know NOW so you can get on with your life?

      It might also be worth seeking some professional advice. You don’t want to end a perfectly good relationship, but you also don’t want to wait around forever for someone who’s not, and never will be, on the same page as you.

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  28. Bel

    Home…I’ve been in hospital with my son for 6 weeks. He was in isolation for 5 weeks and he just wanted to smell the air and feel the wind on his face. He has done that now and loved every minute of it! On the home stretch now.

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  29. pixie

    Craving the absolutely DELICIOUS man that makes my coffee. We’ve been flirting for a few weeks and he’s gone on holidays…

    Probably just as well, I may jump his bones….

    Am taking out all my frustrations by exercising which cannot be all bad!

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  30. pixie

    The absolutely delicious man that makes my coffee in the morning! We’ve been flirting for a few weeks and he’s gone on holidays…. ggrrr

    I’m taking my frustrations out on exercise which cannot be all bad!

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  31. Albie

    Normality. This boyfriend living away for 6 months thing really sucks. Also my house and my own bed – I’m also away for work at the moment.

    On a more superficial level, gluten! Maltesers, lollies, BREAD!, chicken schnitzels, mint slices, eating anything you want when you can!

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  32. Moi

    his companionship. i miss just sitting next to him, watching zombie tv, which he knows I don’t like, and hearing him try not to laugh as he watches me squirm.

    oh and summer. Melbourne keeps teasing us with these lovely spring days but i want MORE

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  33. Lucy Ormonde

    I’m going add one more. The snow. I haven’t been on a mountain in about 4 years and it kills me every winter….

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  34. Bo

    I am craving food! I am on a diet at the moment and desperately want to eat all the food that I am not allowed to eat! I refuse to give in!!!

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  35. freckles

    I’m craving being able to breathe through my nose again. I’ve had a cold for like 3 days but it feels like eternity!!!

    And I just want to taste food again…….and then I’ll want wine and cheese

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  36. caffeinated_blonde

    Happiness….
    I forget what that’s like.

    I’ll get there

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  37. TLS

    Being 4.5 months pregnant, there are a lot of things i miss:

    Ham, cheese & tomato sandwich
    Prosciutto in a crusty baguette
    Chicken meat and tomato sauce sandwich
    Oysters, cold prawns etc
    Runny eggs
    Being able to sleep on my belly
    My normal poos (gross i know but nobody told me that about pregnancy…)

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    • florally

      Granted my kids are 6 and 4 so some things may have changed since I was pregnant, but I am spun out by all of the pregnant women cutting out so much. Surely fabulous fresh ham from a reputable deli or chicken well cooked freshly at home and placed into a sandwich is OK? Taking risks is silly, and I would never suggest wolfing down on a manky sandwich from a servo or something, but I just suspect that expectant Mums ability to apply common sense is being diminished. It’s a time of life when women should be growing in confidence to trust their instincts and it saddens me to see such a bombardment of restrictive rules. It seems unfair to let fear dictate something quite so soul bolsteringly good for you as a sandwich. As I work around the food industry I am constantly surprised by customer’s lack of understanding of pasteurisation and what is safe and what is risky. Maybe this could be an interesting post, here I have even got a title all sorted for you…Listeria Hysteria!

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      • Faybian

        This is modern antenatal advice.
        No deli meat, shellfish, soft cheese, raw egg and keep away from the kitty litter. The chicken should be ok, provided its properly cooked, still hot or col from the fridge. Some say not to drink at all as well.

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      • Jacky

        People who were pregnant before current listeria guidelines talk about listeria hysteria and granted it’s rare but the two times I have been pregnant other women have miscarried due to listeria. It may be unlikely but it’s real and only for 9 months

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    • cherry

      I am not a health professional, but my understanding of microbiology is that the live Listeria monocytogenes bacterium itself is the concern, rather than a toxin it produces. So therefore if you heat food thoroughly to a high temperature, the bacteria is destroyed and it poses no risk. So, this is what I did. I made a judgment call. For example, something like fetta cheese (a soft white cheese on the danger list) thoroughly cooked in a cheese and spinach pie would be ok. Similarly, cooking ham/bacon/salami slices eg in a frypan and then making a sandwich with the hot ingredients was ok too. I am interested to hear what any health professionals think of this…it seemed a no-go area whenever I asked about it during my own pregnancies and the responses were always of the standard “do not eat” variety.

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      • Anonymous

        My OB and GP both said hot ham / deli meat is fine – so it’s ok in toasted sandwiches or pasta, but not on it’s own.

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    • TLS

      By chicken meat i don’t mean actual meat from a chicken, i mean the processed stuff from the deli! I live in the middle of nowhere with no “fresh” deli or anything like it, so i wouldn’t risk it. If i could get fresh ham etc here I would definately still eat it……

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    • TLS

      Oh and I know I can heat things like ham up, but that’s not what i’m craving, I want it COLD on a fresh bread sandwich!

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  38. little jojo

    I’m craving warm weather and sunny days! As well as university holidays :)

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  39. Touche

    Love! Romantic love, that is.

    This is the most single I’ve ever been. Technically, I’ve been single most of my life, but I usually have one or two ‘casuals’ on the go to keep me in kisses, cuddles, companionship… and more. But ain’t nobody on the radar screen at the moment. I’m completely focused on work and moving overseas next year. I think I’m just going to have to wait it out. Once I make my OS move, I plan to start dating again. A distraction between now and then would be nice, though. :-(

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    • Floss

      Wow, that could have been my exact post! It sucks but may be worth waiting until I move to America and try the ‘US’ dating scene…

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  40. becsparrow

    I’m also missing sugar.

    I recently decided to stop having sugar in my tea and oh-my-God I miss it.

    Tea was the thing I drank for comfort. And now the enjoyment has gone.

    :(

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    • Kellie

      It gets better! I did this a few years ago and now I really dislike sugar in my tea :)

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    • Lucy Ormonde

      Milky tea with sugar = best thing ever. I keep trying to tell myself that tea without sugar is just as good…. It’s not.

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      • Xanthe

        I put condensed milk in my tea – it delivers the right amount of milk and sugar (more when you feel like more!) and you don’t run out of milk at awkward times…
        Deee-licious!

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    • elle

      I think you will get used to it and it will be comforting again! That’s what happened to me :)

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    • Tea Lover

      Try putting a little natural honey in it…yum

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    • thisbee_plath

      add honey! delicious :)

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  41. vivacious

    Certainty. So life is never certain, but generally you have some idea where things are going. Right now about a thousand really important things are up in the air and I have no idea where or how they are going to land. I can’t make any kind of plans, a lot of the time I feel like I’m perpetually holding my breath.

    I crave some kind of normality and certainty in my life again.

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  42. Anonymous

    Sleep. I have a five month old baby and I haven’t slept the whole night through since I was six months pregnant. You really have no idea the lengths I’d go to for 8 solid hours of sleep.

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    • megs

      It gets better!! I was you this time last year and I honestly felt like I would never get a good night’s sleep again… Now little one sleeps 10-12 hours a night and I’ve forgotten what broken sleep was like.

      It gets better!!!!!

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  43. chachi

    Friends and family who happen to be spread all around the country.
    I have no family in the same state as me and my little sister, who I love dearly and is my best friend, likes something like a million kilometres away (maybe exaggerating slightly).
    I never get to see my parents or my school friends. It can be hard being so far away, but I feel like it’s quite common in Australia. Most of my friends live in different states from their families.

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    • Lucypie

      Ditto! Friends and family!! Moving up to a fairly isolated town in the Pilbara and hoping that I can make some really good friendships!!

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  44. Bella

    Havent seen my mum for six months… Still got 6 weeks to to :(

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    • Anonymous

      funny, I am craving a little space from mine!

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  45. Teal

    Chocolate – my sister – best friend – and a holiday.

    But after all this talk of white bread and ham that is all I can think of …. with tomato and mustard …… pepper ….

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  46. Jane

    Hot chips.

    To be satisfied at the pub in exactly three hours.

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  47. MissKate

    really really missing hubby who is overseas for 3 weeks…now only 2 1/2 and counting down the days.

    I’m pregnant so I’m really missing blue cheese, goats cheese and brie cheese ..oh and bocconcini.

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    • Louise

      You can’t have bocconcini while you’re pregnant? I guess I’ll be missing that one day too…

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  48. jennie

    A friend. Or time to develop close friendships. Life consists of work, looking after family (kids, hubby and parents), and keeping the house in reasonable clean order. Can’t remember the last time I had a girly chat.

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  49. Tea Bag

    I’m really, really craving some more high quality, fictional, free to air TV content.

    Reinstatement of the Sunday night movies as an institution would be a good fricken’ start.

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    • vivacious

      Are you watching the ABC? Tomorrow night is Rake – brilliant Australian show (and apparently pretty much all based on real people I’ve been reliably told by a Sydney barrister) and Call the Midwives on Sunday. I love those shows.

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  50. Lauren

    I want to ovulate so I can have a baby!!!!!
    ARGHHH 5 months and no eggs

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