I’m a bit meh about shopping.
An embarrassing thing to admit in a forum like this, but it’s true. The idea of spending a Saturday browsing for shoes, for example, although it’s not quite my idea of hell, doesn’t fill me with the unbridled joy it brings to other women.
I’m not stingy, and I’m not a dag (I hope). If I need shoes, I’ll buy some, but normally it’s the first suitable pair I see. At the beginning of winter or summer I take a deep breath and head for the shops and in two hours will have bought everything I think I’ll need for the coming season – jeans, dresses, accessories, make-up. With a bit of luck it’ll all come from the one shop. Browsing is not my thing. My sisters think there’s something wrong with me.
Of course, there are types of shopping I quite like – stores I enjoy browsing.
Hardware. I like Bunnings, and not just for the sausage sizzle. We’re selling our house and a month ago a friend who was helping me swish it up for the photos said, ‘You know what would look great? An orange letterbox. Orange is so now.’
I Googled designer letterboxes and discovered ‘now’ coloured models cost upwards of $400. No way Jose. But, that same day I had to go to Bunnings for sugar soap and I thought, I wonder what the chances of finding an orange letterbox are and bingo. Only $109! I felt like I’d won the lottery.
After talking to the Bunnings man I reckoned I could have a crack at putting it up. I also found rust inhibitor paint, a selection of surprisingly funky storage boxes and some orange and green stripy cushions for the lawn furniture. I forgot the sugar soap but was happy to go back on Saturday because you know, sausage sizzle and all.
I’m not alone here. My friend Rachel sneaks off to Bunnings on weekday afternoons before school pickup and buys plants. When her partner notices them she says, ‘Oh that? Vietnamese basil? I potted that last September!’ I told her she needs some kind of support group. She told me she’s planning on going to a Bunnings ladies night. Apparently there’s no reason she can’t learn to hang a door.
Food. Not groceries so much, but I love a deli. The more exotic the better. A psychologist would have a field day with my attraction to dusty shop with smelly smallgoods dangling from the ceiling.
Books. I’m not alone here. I love our kindle, but a good bookshop can suck me in for hours. Even in other countries when the books aren’t even in English.
Sometimes it’s good to defy the conventions. You never know where you’ll end up or what you’ll find. With a bit of luck you’ll end up surprising yourself, possibly with a well hung door and an orange letterbox on your gate.
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You are a woman after my own heart!
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God I love Bunnings. And other Hardware stores!
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As a kid, I remembering groaning everytime my mother got a whiff of a bookstore … 30 odd years later, my children are doing the same to me!
Although I have the luxury of a little bit more money in my pocket than my mother (and significantly less children) so I send them off to find a book they like too.
I have a feeling their children may be doing some groaning in the future as well
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I’m terrible in Bunnings – I have to limit my visits because I always end up blowing my budget. I’ve just started fixing up the bathroom, and Bunnings has been my second home. I hate shopping malls though, they are loud and busy and bright and I can’t wait to get out of them once I enter – if I need something I will buy online, if I have to venture into the shops, I’ll go to the CBD where you can see the sky in between shops
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I love plant nurseries as well, which is odd as I really do not have a green thumb at all, quite the opposite
they are such nice quiet places to be!
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I too love a good bookshop, hardly normals for the sheer browsing (we do occasionally purchase on interest free- great if you stick to the payment schedule), spotlight and pillow talk. I often find an excuse to go to bunnings conveniently near lunch time=cheap lunch. Much cheaper than a food court anyway and the girls love the playground. I can also seethed through the window in the garden section. We need some new curtains, so I’ll be haunting spotlight et al a bit now. I do like a good kitchen store too.
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I just love buying stuff! It’s about the potential isn’t it? As a commenter below said, it’s about the life I could have, the food I could cook, the clothes I could wear, the renovations I could do!
It’s my way of fantasising.
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I completely agree – hate clothes shopping but love a hardware stores.
And I adore your new orange letterbox and will be adding it to my weekend list.
Clothes shopping is just a hassle to me and if I have to go I try and get a few things in one hit to avoid more trips. I’m also one of those people that will buy two of something i like in a bid to try and reduce shopping time…
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Forgot to mention I do love buying plants for garden.
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I can totally relate to your post. I always feel stressed at the end of clothes shopping. Especially in big shopping centers. Just way to much stimulation all at once for me. Much prefer on street shopping.
I can get lost in nurseries for hours…and always come out spending much more on plants that I planned on. Love weekend markets and farmers markets, I’d prefer to spend time there any day than go to a shopping center.
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Cant relate. I love all kinds of shopping. Food, hardware, clothes, shoes, clothes for the family, gifts, appliances, electronics. I love bricks and mortar stores and online.
I love big malls and small specialty stores. My dream day is just wandering around stores, taking it all in and not buying. I especially love window shopping when the stores are closed.
I would pretty much be Gerry Harvey’s dream date….except that I never buy on credit.
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I hate hate HATE grocery shopping…with one exception. I love shopping for cleaning products. I could trawl the cleaning aisle for hours – I love having a different specific product for each purpose, and I love examining the products and smells. This extends to laundry products and (shame) even brooms and bin liners. Part of me wonders if it’s the same idea behind buying snazzy gym gear — if you love buying it all, it may motivate you. I also just love a good clean house, and the cleaning aisle just reeks of potential! My dream house is one that smells of lemony, pine-y, Omo goodness.
I hate Bunnings with a passion (except for the cleaning section obviously). One poster said that Bunnings just inevitably leads to fights with her hubby, and we are the same. We both hate it.
Love Kmart, Target, and most junk shops. I love a bargain and I really love how at Kmart and Target, often an item will be dramatically reduced when you get to the checkout! Win!!
Also add me to the list of people who adore chemists. Chemist Warehouse even more so. I loooove waiting for a script! It gives me a chance to browse not only the skin and body care (which I don’t buy because I prefer professional quality – but I love to look!), but also the vitamins and first aid! I always leave not only with my prescription but also calamine lotion, tea tree oil, and Savlon cream. Don’t mind a cheap bottle of perfume too if it’s on offer!
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I loathe clothes shopping, I only go when it is a necessity, and I too am not a dag. I love hardware and homeware shopping though, I can’t wait to go to one of those new masters shops, they sound like my idea of heaven.
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Masters is awesome!!! It has more than Bunnings and has air con! The trolleys are like racing cars which my kids love! We have spent hours there! The one near us even has a McCafe in it!
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For me, hardware store shopping is all about potential. I live alone so I have no bloke to fix stuff. I’ve learned to DIY.
I like that there are women working at bunnings so I never feel like a dick if I have to ask a dumb question.
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My son is hardware OBSESSED. We go to Bunnings instead of the playground.
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Ha ha mine too, and he is only 4!
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My husband takes our very gregarious 2 year old to Bunnings all the time. She has a lovely time making new friends with anyone shopping or working there and he comes home with a thousand new projects to half finish. But it gives me a couple of hours to myself on a Saturday arvo, so I call it a win!
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yes! mine too! I have 3 boys and we have a star chart for good behaviour and if they get enough stars they get to choose an outing.
Without fail, all three boys choose to go to Bunnings.
I don’t mind – it’s cheaper entertainment than the movies or the toy shop! lol
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Hate grocery store shopping, LOVE Asian grocery store shopping! I think it’s the combo of cheap things and unusual things.
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Usually I do too. I went in one that had a skylight one morning when I was hung over. The combination of warm sun and the exotic smells drove me outside to hurl. Lesson learned.
There’s a suburb near us with a heavily Asian population, lots of cool restaurants and Asian grocery stores and a shop that does roast duck, red pork etc as well as selling uncooked cuts. I buy the red pork for fried rice, but to prevent myself eating it on the way home, I now buy some Chinese sausage too.
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Another stationary tragic here. Love officeworks, smiggle, typo (helps to have a preteen). Even the stationary aisle at Coles makes me happy, especially their smiggle rip offs (much cheaper than the real stuff.
Spent an hour at officeworks yesterday. Only bought a new toy (PowerPoint presentation clicker which is beyond awesome) but a lot of browsing for my dream office set up *drool*
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IT could have been my post, up until i retired.
A few friends asked me to come shopping with them and then lunch, well lunch sounded good but shopping? I have since discovered the joy of wandering around gossiping, i still cant enjoy shopping to buy , but i do like trying things on that i will never wear, seeing what is around that was around 20 years ago.
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i don’t think i will ever become a real shopper, but i have made a start. well maybe once a fortnight .
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I generally dislike grocery shopping. But if I’m alone and am not in a rush, I love a great fruit and vegie market/shop. All the colourful fresh food looking so inviting and healthy. Just waiting for people to take home and cook a delicious meal.
If I have to take the kids with me to the market I bloody hate it. They want to help, they take the apple from the bottom of the pile and then dozens go rolling on the floor. They get under my feet and I can’t get all flustered and can’t focus. And I definitely can’t look at what’s on offer and conjur up a feast in my mind!
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I love pharmacies. Priceline in Australia, Boots and Superdrug in the UK, Watson’s and Guardian in Singapore and China.
And I’ve never met a Big W, K-Mart or Target that I couldn’t peruse in for hours!
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Oh Boots!
We are going to London for a month in May. I will be visiting a few Boots store me thinks.
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An Organiser colleague of mine in Adelaide has set herself a radical, but brilliant challenge/New Year’s resolution.
She decided it was time not to shop for clothes for a year. I think it’s a fantastic idea. Personally , I don’t think I could do it, and I hate cloth shopping, but I might not have enough clothes to get me through a year (don’t ask about shoes, though!!). However, a lot of people do have enough clothes to last them a lifetime! Or bed linen, or towels, or…shoes! And it doesn’t have to be a whole year. What about using lent (that actually started 2 weeks and goes until Easter Sunday) to commit to your own little mini challenge.
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I’m super broke… and I have a serious excess of clothing… maybe I should give up shopping for a period of time. this is a very good idea. also giving up new clothes for a period of time is a good thing too. I love digging through charity shops. Most of the time it eventuates in nothing but sometimes you find absolute treasures… and even if you don’t wear things you buy/ you change your mind/ you lost interest very soon… it doesn’t matter because you’ve donated money to a charity, you didn’t spend very much and you’ve given clothes a second chance… so there’s no guilt involved. its a win-win.
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Bunnings stuff can be very dicey. Low prices can sometimes mean very low quality. Like the shade house I bought for the garden that wasn’t uva treated and feel straight apart, the Chinese electrics that are dead out of the box etc. the plants with poorly developed root systems. Then outrageously rude sales staff trying to discourage returns. BUYER BEWARE. – If you do have trouble returning things, persist and insist on speaking to a manager or call head office, works a treat.
Should be be concerned about all these poor quality goods that are very soon going to end up in landfill?
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I love love love Bunnings. I love any store that just offers me the possibility of something pretty. I adore nurserys even though I know I couldn’t manage that many nice plants.
On a side note: I need clothes. What are some good online stores people’s? Frocks? Shorts? Shirts? Fashionable yet at a discount please
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why don’t you sign up to brands exclusive brands have online sales, some great buys to be hand.
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Ozsale are pretty good too…. a bit random, but lots of good stuff comes through.
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Try asos or modcloth.
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We had Masters open up down the road a few weeks ago and i was impressed with the level of service(hope it stays that way), Bunnings have definately fallen down in that department.
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I’m simple. I hate shopping with the kids.
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Where’s the story “My husband was arrested for having child porn”
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Sorry, what?
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We posted it before it was ready to go up and we have had to take it down.
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Yeah I was interested in reading that one too.
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I read it before it went down. It was a legal minefield.
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I thought the censors had got to it.
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I’ll be interested to read it again once it goes back up.
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I was looking everywhere for it too, thought I was going crazy. I am very intrigued to read it.
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I’m with you Kate. Clothes shopping never ends well. I either end up with something that never gets worn because it was a desperation purchase or I end up in a black mood because NOTHING is in my size. (And I am a fairly average size.) But give me a Bunnings gift voucher or a day in a book shop with a credit card and I am one happy little bunny. Love a good deli but there aren’t any in my area.:(
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I just love any shopping but was always obsessed with beautiful stationery….so i opened a boutique of it and now I have to stop myself from taking everything home every day!
I also love chemists….I just want products…like everything, sunscreen is a huge hit, and body lotions and anything chemist related….the bigger the chemist the better!
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I’m jealous you have your boutique
What is it called and where is it, so that I can try and visit (and purchase something)?
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I LOVE CARS!!! I did my school work experience in a garage & didn’t wanna go back to school lol… After school I did mech ehgeneering for a year but it didn’t grab me so I ended up doing an Automotive Spray Painting apprenticeship & left 6 years later to have my son. I’m itching to do a mechanics apprenticeship, which I dreamed of in school along with the painting
I’m waiting until my boy is in school, which is a few years off still. As you’ve guessed I’m a “tom boy” but I still have a nice collection of dresses & stilettos. I don’t like the girly style shopping, but I’m all for a browse trip to Bunnings, Autobarn, Super cheap Auto & Officeworks of course
I sometimes walk up to our local Officeworks with my son & do laps of the isles just to see what’s new & pass some time lol he loves to help by holding my photo paper or whatever, I should probably add that he’s almost 15 months so extended shopping trips aren’t that much fun these days anyway lol…
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I used to work at bunnings: best place to work, shit pay though. (and the most intense recruitment process ever!!)
Now ‘Masters’ is opening, its going to be interesting to see how that plays out.
I’ll always be a Bunnings girl at heart!!
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Why was the best place then? Just curious
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The atmosphere, the coworkers. I remember various times having water fights, Xmas parties, closing the til whenever I wanted to go somewhere. It was just a fun place to work. Awful in summer though: hot and dirty and gross!!
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I love stationery shops too, but not like Officeworks, rather the shops which store beautiful and unique cards, diaries, writing paper, sheets of beautiful wrapping paper, ribbons etc. I wish I was the owner of one!
I enjoy grocery shopping – it’s ‘my time’. I enjoy picking out fresh fruit and veg and all that. I also enjoy clothes shopping – it’s tricky buying things online as I often get the size wrong. Love book shopping too.
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I like Bunnings even though I’m really lousy at DIY.
I am the kind of person who will go half-way across town to shop at an interesting deli or bakery. Not kidding. I love lovel ove bread, particularly rye bread.
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oh, I do that with the deli/good baker too. absolutely worth every cent for a good bread
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absolutely LOVE shopping at stores that sell organisation and storage solutions ( store, harvey’s storage world, IKEA of course, etc). I feel like in heaven there, and dream of having my entire house organised with all the storage solutions and things that come with it. Of course I never leave empty handed, but I try to not spend too much in one go.
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Hmmmm.. a trip to Bunnings isn’t for me.. A trip to Bunnings pretty much means a fight with my hubby. He hates and I hate it. And IKEA – we also avoid IKEA. The problem is there’s a huge range of products at both these places and we think that we should be able to find what it is we want.. yet we never can!.
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Whether it’s Sass & Bide, Ikea, Bunnings, or Officeworks … I don’t discriminate, I LOVE to shop! : P
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I hate going to Bunnings but really don’t mind food shopping. I particularly like it if I can do it at a strip of shops – go to the deli, the butcher, the green grocer, fishmonger etc. I also really like shopping in asian grocery stores. Man they have some wild stuff! And I could shop for stationary all day long.
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Love stationery shops! Can easily spend hours in Office Works. Also love bookshops
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I love bunnings. I don’t ‘do’ DIY, but it doesn’t seem to matter. AND, our local bunnings has a kids playground INSIDE! How cool is that??
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I love grocery shopping, I love going to a suburb I haven’t been to before and browsing the grocery shop. I hate clothes shopping.
And I sure do love Bunnings, went there a little too much over the past couple of years due to renovations, but never tire of it.
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Christy, you are my twin…right up until Bunnings was mentioned. I love food shopping & visit every aisle. And exotic delis. And books. Detest clothes shopping.
Oh but I do enjoy shopping for something after I have purchased it. Can’t help checking out prices & colours etc. Like after I bought a new tv you couldn’t stop me popping into stores to price them…despite owning one. Hmm, crazy much ??
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I’m am absolute self-confessed shopaholic, and will happily shop for just about anything…. Not even necessarily for myself. I just love to shop.
(and I’m an olympic-level of a bargain hunter!)
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Kate you are my twinnie except the idea of browsing at a Westfield on a Saturday makes me break into a cold sweat. No kidding.
However, stick me in Bunnings or Officeworks and I could stay there for years.
Everything else I buy online.
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My husband goes to Bunnings for his “quiet time”. It then becomes my quiet time too. I like that
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Stationery. Love it. Could spend hours at Office Works.
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I used to love going to Bunnings when I was a kid because I’d get one of those little MDF figures or boxes to paint.
I love grocery shopping when it’s quiet. I know it’s a FWP but I hate shopping when there are lots of little kids around as it’s so much harder to have a quick enjoyable shopping experience.
I miss bookshops. So much. While the book depository is great and cheap, nothing beats perusing the aisles of a bookshop and finding new books you’ve never heard of.
I also really enjoy shopping for homewares and anything in IKEA. Bottom line, I love shopping when I have money to spend!
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My husband loves Bunnings. I love Bunnings because it’s the only time we can shop together for more than 15 minutes without him getting antsy (yes, I am the spender in the relationship).
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I also love Bunnings but not on a Saturday morning – too busy.
I also love Nursery’s, could wander for hours and look at plants, pots and whatever…so relaxing.
Books – gosh I miss Borders.
Grocery shopping – on line.
Clothes and housie stuff – on line – Ezibuy are great, esp when they offer free delivery and have sales.
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Masters! Now that’s a store I could spend all day in. Bunnings… Not so much.
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The service is so terrible in Bunnings that if you want something at a level past what you can reach you need a good hour to find a willing person to assist!
Cant wait for Masters to open near me!
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I always feel like bunnings is crawling with staff!
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The ones I go to are crawling with staff, but they are generally too busy chatting amongst themselves to help!
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