Growing up in the 80s I wore a lot of weird things in my hair. Shoelace ribbons! Scrunchies! Banana clips! Alice bands! Fergie bows (Remember Fergie bows? Do not even try to tell me that I’m the only person who wore a Fergie bow …) And then there was the Hairdini Magic Styling Wand that I bought off a late night advertorial. It was meant to help twist my hair into a French roll. It was meant to make me look sophisticated (you know, to counter-act the braces and the A-ha t-shirt I loved to wear). It did none of those things. As my brother cruelly pointed out it made me look like Klinger from MASH. And yet that still wasn’t my hair-accessory low point. That occurred in 1985 when I spent much of the year wearing a gigantic black lace bow in my hair in an attempt to look like Madonna (circa Desperately Seeking Susan). Add a huge crucifix, a boob tube and a mini skirt and I looked less like Madonna and more like a slightly slutty nun with bad shoes (thank you Dunlop Volleys).
In recent years I’ve steered clear of hair accessories (although Lana and Nat’s hair feathers do look cute). But this month I’m throwing caution to the wind and putting all my hair accessory failures behind me for a good cause. I intend to wear a bandanna for CanTeen.
Most of you would know that CanTeen is that not-for-profit organisation that supports 12-24 year olds who are living with cancer. Maybe they have it. Maybe it’s one of their siblings. Maybe it’s their mum or dad or aunt or uncle or another family member.
Here’s the thing. Cancer affects all of us. ALL OF US. Everybody I know has someone in their family or their tribe of friends who has been impacted. And what that means is that there is a hell of a lot of young people dealing with really big issues. Issues that kids and young people shouldn’t have to deal with.
I don’t know about you but when I was fourteen I got to spend all my spare time pretending to study while I was really trying to figure out how to make Vinnie Del Tito fro Young Talent Time fall in love with me. I can’t imagine what it would be like to spend your teenage years having to think about your mum’s next round of chemo. Or watching your brother or sister endure procedure after procedure in hospital. Or – God forbid – having to confront your own mortality.
So. We need to show these kids that we’re thinking about them. That we all care.
National Bandanna Day is CanTeen’s major annual fundraising event and takes place on Friday 28th October 2011. The money raised on National Bandanna Day, helps CanTeen provide programs, services and resources to help Australia’s young people deal with the emotional, physical and practical issues of living with cancer, so they can take back control of their lives.
So here’s what we want you to do. Buy a bandanna this month. It’s $4. You can afford $4. And then wear it. In your hair. Around your neck. Your wrist. Tie it to your handbag. Just have it on display so that those kids know we’re standing with them. (The bandannas are on-sale at Woolworths , Woolworths Petrol, Spotlight, Anaconda, Super Cheap Auto, BCF, Goldcross, Ray’s Outdoors, Newslink, Wendys and Eckersleys)
You can find more information about CanTeen’s National Bandanna Day here. To get involved, register now at here or email nbd@canteen.org.au or call 1800 226 833
And if you’re on Facebook (and I know you are) “like” the National Bandanna Day page on Facebook.
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What is your favourite hair accessory? What’s the weirdest thing you’ve worn?








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I was lucky to have worked for CanTeen and love the work they do.
Remember what it was like to be a teenager and then think about adding cancer into the mix. It’s a tough time and CanTeen provides a peer support system so it’s young people taliking to young people about their experiences.
Please stop and buy a Bandanna (or a Bandanna pin if you are not they Bandanna wearing type), as someone mentioned below the money raised on this day sets the budgets for the following years programs and events.
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In the early 80s new romantic days, it was trendy to wear a head band made of shiny/sparkly braiding etc. You wore it around you head like a sweat band with dangly bits hanging artfully by one ear. You also had a lady/princess di do and a puffy sleeved dress/top too. Lovely
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i will always support bandanna day….my dad died of cancer when i was 8… the cancer was very aggressive….a brain tumour and in an inoperable position…he lost control of all his bodily functions..including speech…and died 10 weeks after diagnosis…so i realised my mortality at a very young age, when all my friends were playing with barbies and blissfully unaware….
i cant remember how old i was but i was obsessed with my topsy tail, far out i used that thing like every day…. prettty sure i strutted when i had it done too cos i was so confident of my coolness lol…
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oops…was meant to be anna sparkle not anna sparkly…step away from the wine lol
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I wanted to be like Madonna so wore a lot of lace in my hair in the 80′s too Bec. There are way too many photos to remind me as well. My husband looks at photos of me back then and says ‘Oooh… awkward times babe, awkward times…’
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Cordeline, you ALWAYS make me laugh!!!!!!!
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This is a caricature of me in the 80s my husband drew for my 40th birthday…note the bow holding back the frizzy ‘triangle’ permed hair. Nice.
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I had a horrible metallic mauve banana clip! Thankfully I didn’t wear it often as having really thick hair meant it used to pop open.
And yes e etyone, get behind Can-Teen bandanas. I buy one for my dog every year so she has the full range in her collection.
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Remember those zig-zaggy plastic headbands that used to scratch the crap out of your face as you tried to get it from around your neck to into your hair and behind your ears?? Painful but I loved mine – so chic!
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Done deal! Has anyone asked Pete Fitz which colour he’ll be buying yet?
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Oh my goodness, bananas clips! I loved them and thought they were the height of fashion. Do they still sell them?
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The ultimate hair accessory for any month of the year, not to make light of the great work that CanTeen does, is hair !
Oh, my shiny, shiny scalp !
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I was always happy if I could get my crimper to put crimps in my thick hair … and now I see girls walking around with crimped hair … OMG put those girls in converse socks, high top joggers a hyercolour t-shirt and some satin adidas trackies …
I was a super awesome scrunchie maker and would whip them up to match outfits.
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Not ot mention all the ‘product’ I used to wear- so much mousse, lacquer and gel in my hair that it was flammable! Yes. Cue one hangover, one zippo lighter, one cigarette I missed = inverse mohawk & smell of burning hair for 2 days!
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I am so excited to see this article during my daily Mamamia fix!
My Sister works for Canteen. She works directly with the ‘members’ (young people with cancer or affected by cancer through a family member diagnosis) and organises some amazing events for them to just get away from it all and enjoy a weekend with people going through similar issues. They play fun games outside, they talk to each other and they act like kids, if only for a few days! They also have some serious times when my sister’s training as a psychologist comes into play.
I’ve just forward this link to her. She’ll be so excited! Bandanna day is their BIGGEST event and really makes up for a large portion of their funds for the coming year. Whatever they raise will determine the extent of their activities, member days and camps. And it is expensive. They need to have medical officers on camp at all times and make specific arrangements for food etc for starters.
And another great thing worth mentioning is that the Bandanna’s are actually awesome! I have one designed by Industrie which is a vintage/floral print and I love it. I’m pretty sure Alex Perry has designed some over the years as well.
P.s: she’s amazing and I could go on and on about the good that Canteen does.
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We’ve got a great collection of Canteen bandanas at our house. We try to buy at least one every year. My oldest son uses them under his cricket helmet to absorb the sweat (eeewww). Must top up the collection this year.
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hairdini – is that the knitting needle thingy with the loop on the end? You pulled your ponytail back through behind the lacky band with it?
I. FREAKIN’. LOVED. THAT. THING!!
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No! What the hell is that thing? It sounds AWESOME!! The Hairdini was like this thing that helped you do a French roll. Quite lame, really. Here’s a link http://www.hairdini.com/hairdini2.html
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Hmm, I had one, don’t know where it’s gone. Might do the pipe cleaner one, still doing young girls hair, still!!!
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yeah! i loved that thing. it made your ponytail look ace
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OMG I SOO wanted one of those – instead I had to settle for making a pony tail, pulling the lacker down a bit, poking a hole in my hair and trying to re-thread my entire 12 inch thick pony tail back through itself … that knitting needle thing would had made is SOO much easier … but my mum never thought so …
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What are you girls TALKING about? I need a picture! A link! Something to explain this ponytail thingy ….
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I always wanted one, too. Now, my daughter and I use one made out of pipe cleaners
Looks really swish on a little girl and totally easy.
Description:
http://www.ehow.com/list_6739568_topsy-turvy-hairstyles.html
Tool picture:
http://www.trademe.co.nz/health-beauty/hair-care-products/styling-products/other/auction-409168404.htm
Photo:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/53641086@N07/4975989597/
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I wanted one, too. Now, my daughter and I use a home-made one, made out of a pipecleaner!
Looks really sleek on a little girl, and very easy for mum
Photo of do:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/53641086@N07/4975989597/
Photo of tool:
http://www.ebay.com.au/itm/Topsy-Tail-Hair-Styling-Tools-Set-Ponytail-Braid-Maker-/110658772567
Description of style:
http://www.ehow.com/list_6739568_topsy-turvy-hairstyles.html
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a topsy tail Bec!! they were AWESOME!!!
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Is it bad that I want one????
And for the record, I am getting a bandanna this weekend. And I may even tie it around my dog’s neck as a cravat!
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That’s called a topsy tail as I learnt looking at this mom do her girl’s hair http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xIuACR3ogwo&noredirect=1. Crazy but yes, cute!
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topsy tail…..was AWESOME!!!
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Usually attached to the top part of the hair with the perm..it was such the look!
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Oh dear, this brought back memories of me once drawing blood on a man’s face with a massive butterfly clip (less subtle than a hairdini Bec but did hold my hair in a French roll). We were standing on a crowded bus and it stopped suddenly and he collided with my gorgeous plastic hair accessory! They should come with a warning.
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How could I have forgotten butterfly clips?????
You’re right – all this stuff should come with a warning: You will not get a date if you wear these things in your hair.
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Yes! My aunty made me Fergie bows to match my outfits. I love the 80′s!
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Bec I wore Fergie bows in my hair too. I have a pale pink padded tafeta one..
You are not alone xxpt
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THANK YOU!!! I have been sitting here thinking “Okay, NOBODY even knows what I was talking about!” They were big (literally) in about 1986!
Thank you PT!
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I had a black satin one…
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OMG!
I was obsessed with Fergie bows!! I’m also a Ranga so I was practically Fergie’s twin and don’t even get me started on Vinnie Del Tito. 13 years old wearing a Vinnie sweatshirt and pale pink ski pants with a matching Fergie now, fluro socks, chunky plastic bangles and jelly shoes that matched my jelly bag. I loved the 80′s!!
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