By MIA FREEDMAN
So you guys. There have been a few comments and questions about why we’ve been mixing up the way we do this post for a while now. For the first few years, I wrote it personally (just like I wrote all the posts back then when it was just me and my laptop in my loungeroom) and when we established our small editorial team, we would often take turns writing it.
I know many of you like to hear from us personally and to get a sense of what’s going on in our lives. The thing though is that unlike you, we don’t have the option of being anonymous. So when we have to share the high and low points of our weeks, it’s all out there on display for the world, even when those highs and lows might actually be situations or emotions we’d prefer to keep private.
We all give a huge amount of ourselves on Mamamia and through MM’s social media channels willingly and with love. But I hope you can understand why we’ve collectively decided to pull back from individual team members writing this post and will now be publishing it from team and taking a more newsy approach.
Please don’t let that affect the way you wish to use this post – feel free to be as personal – or not – as you like and to use whatever form of identification or anonymity feels comfortable.
This post is about you guys anyway. We’ve always wanted to provide a place to vent, celebrate and commiserate and that hasn’t changed. If you have something you want to say that doesn’t fit into the ‘best’ or ‘worst’ of the week framework, that’s totally cool as well.
BEST: The Royal Commission into child abuse. This has been a long time in coming and may finally bring some peace and justice to the thousands of victims of institutionalised abuse.
WORST: As details emerge of individual cases that has prompted this Royal Commission, it’s impossible not to be horrified by the extent to which it’s now clear that child sexual abuse has been covered up, particularly in the church, for decades.







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Best #1
Pumpernickel is performing in her very first dance concert tonight and I’ve even managed to master putting liquid eyeliner on a 6 year old!
Best #2
I can eat real food! After a week of the tummy bug from hell the relief to finally be over it is all consuming
Worst
The aforementioned tummy bug. It went through the entire family, leaving me till last, and left a trail of destruction (and a mountain of laundry) in its path. The doc took one look at me and handed me a medical certificate for a week.
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you sound alot like me this week haha…. My three year old has her first ever dance concert on Sunday, very exciting! She adores makeup but I don’t really let her have real stuff, just pretend. So for the concert I am letting her have some lipgloss and tiny bit of blush, she is more excited about the makeup than the concert, haha.
And I have been sick this week too, mountains of laundry in my house as it has been raining all week as well
It is getting to the point where I will have to wear my towel out to do the groceries I think..haha
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Best: I’ve started a new blog! It’s called The Google Year and chronicles my mission to find adventure, happiness, love and the perfect wardrobe in 365.242 days (what Google defines as a year). I’m still finding my writing feet but I love it – and hope other people do too. Check it out if you’d like lovely Mamamia readers.
http://thegoogleyear.blogspot.com.au/
ps. love and understand what you’re doing with the Best and Worst posts but would still love to see the galleries of what you’re all up to in the office! Where else will we get outfit inspiration from?!
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Bit off topic but – I really wish I had been reading mammamia when it was just you & a laptop Mia! Actually I had always meant to but never for some reason did. I have followed your work sporadically in the past & always admired your early & on-going success. Having just started following mammamia recently on Facebook I am not sure I exactly ‘get’ it…it would do well to still have more of an editorial presence from you in my opinion – in the same way that a publication has the editor’s letter. Something to help draw everything together for followers…perhaps fortnightly or monthly?
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Best: We had people over on the weekend – not that unusual – but my partner organised it, invited the people, decided what we should eat etc. He is quite shy so I love seeing that he is so happy and proud of our home that he really enjoys having people around.
Best 2: A close friend got engaged. They have 2 kids, a house, etc and are perfect for each other and she has been wanting to get married for ages. He always said he would wait till gays and lesbians could also get married. I’m not sure what changed his mind but I’m thrilled for my friend.
Best 3: Made some super delicious and easy little pies for dinner last night. I will blog the recipe when I’ve done a second batch to check the quantities.
Worst: I’ve been achy all week. No reason why, I’m doing the same exercise etc as usual. It has made it difficult to sleep and I’m not good without my sleep!
OMM: I’ve definitely got that end of year loss of mojo thing going on. I am finding it very hard to get motivated. I can’t wait for a break but what I really wish was that something unexpectedly good would happen to break the routine.
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What type of pies!?!? I LOVE pies!
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Are you guys going to still share a gallery of what is happening in the MM office? I have only recently started looking at them but have really noticed their absence this week – I love seeing the fab clothes you girls wear, the tweets of the week and the general fun in them!
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Hey Kat!
Great question. We’re mixing it up and experimenting with a few new ideas at the moment.
Like Mia said above, it can be hard to have your life on show all the time. We’re not all fashionistas (expect for Jas) and I know I’m wearing Converse and jeans 90% of the time. But you can always follow us on Instagram (@Mamamiaaus), we’re uploading photos there every day.
So I promise the gallery will be back, it might just be a bit more sporadic.
Thanks for the feedback, we really appreciate it.
Lucy
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I love the use of sporatic… reminds me of clueless
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“Sporadic means once in a while. Try using it in a sentence.”
GOLD.
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Be seein’ ya
I hope not sporadically
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I preferred the non-fashion photos anyway. I would always flick through the wednesday open post eagerly (my favourite post) and skip the clothing posts for the other photos that were more focused around random happenings in the office
… like “Look, we had cupcakes for lunch on Monday” or “Here’s a photo of all of us watching Julia Gillard’s kick-arse speech!”. The clothing photos were lost on me anyway!
Would really love to see the open post stay in tact, with photos from the Mamamia office… but do completely understand that I would probably find it irritating if I was constantly being photographed working, with the excuse of “It’s for the website!” haha.
Much love MMers
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Great approach Mia and team. You do all give so much of yourselves publicly and I admire the steps you’re taking to give this section a more collective, outward focused approach. Even though my blog is so small compared to MM, I’m always surprised at how much friends and strangers know about me simply from what I post on my blog.
Best: got some great feedback from the very head of the organisation I work for. It was good to hear I’m doing ok in his eyes.
Worst: I am really sore and can’t shake this skin infection so I’m in hospital having wet dressings, antibiotics and painkillers. I’ll be ok soon. My mum and some friends are coming to see me today.
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I agree Carly, MM team you need to have your lives to yourselves as well!
Hope you get better as quickly as possible Carly.
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Sending you heaps of Get Well vibes so you can get back to dinking on that bike with that boy
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Thinking of you Carly!
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Best: Back at the gym this morning after a week off – it is simply amazing the difference it makes to my sense of well being.
Worst: Hearing of the loss of Hamish (Rachel’s baby) on Mamamia a few days ago. I don’t know Rachel but her story hit a nerve as I know it did with many others and I have been thinking of Rachel and Hamish all week. How I wish there was something I could do to ease her family’s pain.
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Best 1: Seeing my Dad and realising that for the first time in about 20 years he is truly happy.
Best 2: Alone time with my Bestie. Doesn’t happen often and I treasure it when it does.
Best 3: Cuddles with my baby nieces
Best 4: Haven’t had a drink in almost a week.
Worst: I am the biggest I have eveer been 106 kg. Makes me feel sick.
OMM: Why oh why do I do this to myself?
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Hi Buggles, I’m not 106kg but am at my heaviest I’ve been myself (mostly size 14).
I have about 13 to 15 kgs I want to lose before I feel like “myself” again.
Mostly for health and confidence. It is NOT easy!
What I do want to suggest – that I find helpful and achievable – is incidental exercise. E.g. if you are waiting for a tram or train, pace the platform and burn some kilojoules. Walk to the nearby shops (or gym!), don’t drive. Park further out in a parking complex at the shopping mall so you make yourself walk further. You will also find a parking space much more quickly as a bonus.
Try and you will barely notice you are doing it after a while. Also don’t eat a large or late dinner.
We can do this! We can. Wishing you all the best.
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Hi Buggles & afw,
awf – great tips!
I’ve managed to loose 10kg this year and successfully keep it off, which is something I’ve been trying half-heartedly for years now. I did one round of Michelle Bridges 12 Week Body Transformation which I only completed about 8 weeks of but managed to lose 6 kg with, and then the rest and maintenance I’ve done on my own. I’m not saying you HAVE to do a program like the 12wbt, but for me it provided me with structure, support and a goal which works well! It gave me great tips (such as investing in a heart rate monitor and committing to working out till I burn 500 calories 5 days a week, one day of 1000 and one day off) as well as many low calorie highly nutritious and yummy recipe ideas. Most of all I think it gave me the tools to be able to lose weight on my own.
Now I’ve managed to maintain my weight loss I’m ready to lose the last 6 or so kg. I know I need to set myself goals that are not just about weight, but around fitness. I know I need to reward myself at mile stones with non-food related treats, I know I need to tell the people around me (mostly work colleages and boyfriend) so I have accountability, I know I need to use my online apps to keep me in check (such as Target Weight and weekly weigh ins so I can see my progress, and myfitness pal to count calories and record the exercise I do).
These things may not all work for you, but they help me. I feel happier, healthier and more confident. I’m finding the weight loss is a nice to have bonus, but the way I feel in my own skin is the real motivation!
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Im in the same boat after a wonderful holiday o/s – if you have an iphone download the myfitnesspal app – you can use it online too http://www.myfitnesspal.com. Ive found it so handy to track what im eating and how many calories I’ve burnt etc. It made me realise just how much i was putting in my body
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I agree it is great about the Royal Commission but what I have found out this week is that some of the boys that I was in Year 11 & 12 with were abused by a notorious priest from Year 7 to 10. The priest would apparently prey on boys who were vulnerable and perhaps had family problems. The stronger more academic boys were left alone. I have heard of 3 – 5 boys from my year who were victims of abuse – and they are just the ones that are known about and also just on one year. What other horrors occurred through the 60s, 70s, 80s… I shudder to think. It makes me feel so sad for lives that have been completely ruined because of this. The worst part is that the priests were in a position of trust. Like a lay teacher they were supposed be there to help and guide the children. It is disgusting and so tragic.
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Louise – so sorry to read about your school friends.
Similarly, with the announcement of the royal commission, a good friend of mine publicly stated she was abused by a family member and the catholic church did nothing to help her, instead they supported her family member. I had no idea. Such a terrible situation. So proud of her courage for coming out with her story, but so sad for her too.
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Just this week I’ve heard of a family where the 13 year old son who has been acting out confided in his Mum that “something” had happened with a teacher at school 2 years ago. And the mother refuses believe him.
My Mum is friends with his Aunt and she says he is displaying all the classic symptoms of abuse, but the family is more worried about how it will reflect on them if it gets out. I think the Aunt is going to step in and take over thank goodness, but it does my head in that people don’t believe it in these situations.
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The disbelief is heartbreaking and I think many pedophiels depend on it.
Malcolm Gladwell’s writeup of Jerry Sandusky was very enlightening, as a parent. Disturbing, but I think it has made my kids safer. http://www.newyorker.com/arts/critics/atlarge/2012/09/24/120924crat_atlarge_gladwell
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