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250935010457032175 cL2loKrA c 380x506 The Best & Worst bits of the week.

Best and worst and everything else. How’s your week going?

By MIA FREEDMAN

So you guys. There have been a few comments and questions about why we’ve been mixing up the way we do this post for a while now. For the first few years, I wrote it personally (just like I wrote all the posts back then when it was just me and my laptop in my loungeroom) and when we established our small editorial team, we would often take turns writing it.

I know many of you like to hear from us personally and to get a sense of what’s going on in our lives. The thing though is that unlike you, we don’t have the option of being anonymous. So when we have to share the high and low points of our weeks, it’s all out there on display for the world, even when those highs and lows might actually be situations or emotions we’d prefer to keep private.

We all give a huge amount of ourselves on Mamamia and through MM’s social media channels willingly and with love. But I hope you can understand why we’ve collectively decided to pull back from individual team members writing this post and will now be publishing it from team and taking a more newsy approach.

Please don’t let that affect the way you wish to use this post – feel free to be as personal – or not – as you like and to use whatever form of identification or anonymity feels comfortable.

This post is about you guys anyway. We’ve always wanted to provide a place to vent, celebrate and commiserate and that hasn’t changed. If you have something you want to say that doesn’t fit into the ‘best’ or ‘worst’ of the week framework, that’s totally cool as well.

BEST: The Royal Commission into child abuse. This has been a long time in coming and may finally bring some peace and justice to the thousands of victims of institutionalised abuse.

WORST: As details emerge of individual cases that has prompted this Royal Commission, it’s impossible not to be horrified by the extent to which it’s now clear that child sexual abuse has been covered up, particularly in the church, for decades.

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176 Comments so far

  1. Kara.

    Best: had my article on Reclaim the Night published on Feminspire which was super dooper exciting. http://feminspire.com/reclaim-the-night-taking-blame-away-from-the-victim/

    worst: still unemployed… hopefully I find something soon! :)

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  2. Anon58

    Best: Finding a baby frog in my cos lettuce.
    Worst: Baby frog lost somewhere in the house.

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  3. Anonymous

    I am not on twitter. I thought Facebook was the biggest time waster, but looking at twitter I realise that is where the big time wasting is happening!

    I am surprised by the level of nastiness towards Mia to be honest. I understand that this site isn’t for everyone and it has become more fluff lately but there is still real people working there and I feel for them.

    I am all for social activism but I think it has to be done with respect. You don’t like this site and its editorial slant, then I think if you have time to tweet for hours about it, then maybe you should be writing your own pieces and publishing them.

    This is bullying. Sure there are lots worse things happening in the world, but don’t try to sugarcoat it.

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  4. H

    Best of the week: Won our first indoor hockey game on tuesday night 4-2, and I scored all 4 goals, definitely made me feel good :D

    Worst of the week: Not having any days off (my next day off is in 1.5 weeks) and working 2 jobs is making me a bit tired. I’m not overwhelmed, I just don’t seem to have any ‘me time’ anymore. I enjoy being busy though.

    OMM: Tomorrow will mark one month since i’ve been single. It’s weird, it feels like time’s gone quickly and slowly at the same time. Still seeing the ex, as we play hockey together, and we seem to be getting on pretty well when we see each other. It’s pretty good that theres no awkwardness between us.

    OMM 2: Had such a hard time deciding what to get my brother for his 15th bday on Sunday. All he wants is an iphone, and my parents aren’t even getting him that. Because he declined all my suggestions I wasn’t going to get him anything until I had my ‘eureka’ moment and bought him an ice cream maker!

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  5. Kathy W

    WORST: It’s school report time. I have 190 students – all of whom need comments on their reports and sadly, our school ‘comment bank’ doesn’t allow for ‘work-shirker/task-avoider,non-stop disrupter’. No. Everything has to be dressed up in positive clothing even though the kid was a nightmare all year, never handed in a single task and failed the final exam.

    BEST: Hey, this outweighs the above. Ticket to Rome paid for – am returning on Christmas Day for three weeks and….catching up with the gorgeous Italian man I met last month. You should see the emails he’s sending me….Seriously, single ladies of a certain age (i.e over 40) – get yourselves to Italy. I am invisible in this country but over there – attention all the time. Yes, I know it’s because I’m a foreigner and they see us as easy targets for their flattery but hey, I’m treating this as an amusement park ride – fun, exciting, delirious – but ultimately short and over quickly. And I can’t wait.

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    • Judie

      So that’s why my 17-yr-old’s report doesn’t state the truth! I’m sure those comments would apply to him. We just have to get him through Yr 12 …

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    • Haven Maven

      Woohoo Kathy you go girl!! I’m loving this. Have the time of your life, Shirley Valentine x

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  6. Anon

    Worst: my ex has booked another holiday to a different state to see another band, fourth in a year. But cannot find the time or money to visit his 4yo little girl in QLD.. So disheartening and my girl misses her daddy.

    Best: a lot of stuff, but I’m feeling kind of angry right now.

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  7. Liza

    Worst: Really, really struggling this week after losing an aunt and an uncle in the past month. So unexpected and so sad – tough on the whole family, but especially on my lovely cousins. We’re all in our 40s now but I can’t imagine what it’s like to suddenly lose both parents.

    Also struggling at work. Very anxious about big changes coming for next year and was in tears at work today because it looked like I was going to be given a terrible new job to do. I’m always so compliant but I said no, and now feel terrible about that!

    And yes, can’t stop thinking about beautiful baby Hamish. Rachel was so eloquent when describing the impossible. Big, extra hugs for my own boys. And Rachel, big hugs to you too. Keeping you and your family in my prayers xxx

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  8. Faybian

    Best: saw ophthalmologist this week and he couldn’t find any signs of eye disease, which is what the optometrist thought might be there. Yay!
    Worst: Christmas is approaching and I still haven’t finished my Christmas shopping. Gaaaarh!
    OMM: my 9 year old no longer believes in Santa. She came to the decision herself and we had a good talk about it. My baby’s growing up!

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    • Haven Maven

      Faybian I hear you. Miss 8 declared that she only believed in Santa now for fear of not getting any presents :(

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  9. melinka

    Best and Worst: My job. I try so so so hard at this postdoc but I’m not much good at it. I’m about to have 3 very long, very stressful weeks and I constantly feel like I want to puke. Or walk off a building.
    On the other hand, my contract has just been renewed. I brought it up with my boss and was frank about it, as I thought they might be considering letting me go. Turns out they weren’t, but due to my frankness I’ve been downgraded from a 2 year to a 1 year contract (and there is funding for 2 years). Other staff have had their contracts renewed for the 2 year period.
    So yeah, great. Go me.

    OMM: I really need to get over myself. Other people have far bigger issues than this.

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  10. Cat

    Worst: my husband and I have no job, no house (thank God for family) and now my car died and is costing $5000 to fix. It won’t be ready until mid next week. ARRGH!

    Best: my Dad turned 80 yesterday and we are having a big celebration for him this weekend. I can’t wait to give him our gift – I wrote a short biography of his life and included heaps of old photos etc – and see his reaction. We are staying with my parents at the moment and it’s lovely to watch them interacting with my darling 2.5 year old son.

    OMM: getting a job, finding a house, getting my car back.

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  11. A good week

    Best – Currently working at the UN, and about to deliver a judgement on a terrible, evil (alleged!) war criminal. This week the Presiding Judge in my case asked for my opinion on what sentence I thought the Accused should get. Even though the Judge will obviously make up his own mind, it was cool to be able to articulate what I thought the Accused should get and why. Hint: It rhymes with hife nymprisonment.

    Worst: My whole body is slowly falling apart with flu and cold symptoms…but even that isn’t really a ‘worst’ because it’s totally self-induced by partying and travelling too much.

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    • elle

      Oh wow what an incredible job you appear to have! I would love to hear more about it or a ‘day in your life’ type post!!

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  12. Chellebelle

    Best: swam 1.3km in 40 minutes today. Last week I did 1km in 37 min. I love seeing the improvement. I wish I could swim more often but it’s hard to fit in.

    Best: went to see Anh Do last weekend. So funny and poignant. Just loved it.

    Best/worst: have applied for 6 jobs in the last 7 days.

    Worst: am prone to anxiety about losing my I children and I can’t stop thinking about Rachel and Hamish. It has helped me to see though that I need to stop the job hunting I’m currently doing and focus on finding a way to get out of my toxic workplace but find part time work. All of the jobs I’ve been applying for have been full time. There don’t seem to be any part time jobs at my level (EL2) so I’m going to have to look for alternatives. Plenty to think about and have been loving my kids extra hard since reading Rachel’s story.

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  13. ozinuk

    BEST: monumentally successful week at work… have managed to engage and operate with a phenomenally wonderful team; which has resulted in some really good work being produced. It helps that there’s a few hotties floating about… and I can’t think of anything more fun than giving orders to one specific ex-army hottie. He’s not used to taking it from a girl. And he loves it. And I love doing it. Happy happy days.

    WORST: I found a new place which is amazing. But now I have to pack up and leave the home that I created with my ex. It breaks my heart. Breakups are a b*tch.

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  14. Jane

    Worst: Running my department at work at the moment. Two weeks in, two to go. Busy busy busy and not being paid extra for the stress and doesn’t really help my career because I’m studying. The real worst is that my boss is being transferred and in two weeks someone else starts. Let’s just say nobody is a fan of her from previous exposure. The store manager was aware of my feelings before she was appointed and said to me the other day when it was made official that he doesn’t want to lose me and will “help those who’ve helped him out”… so we’ll see what happens.

    Best: Free time. Finished uni for the year. Bliss. Starting the 12WBT next week to regain some fitness too.

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  15. Helen

    Worst: Too much sickness. My boy and I have had dreadful flus. So no preschool or fun activities. Stuck in the house all week being short tempered at Mr ‘No’ and wishing myself back to work not a SAHM. Yes, I know I’d still be having this horrible week at home but maybe I wouldn’t be running on empty. I need something more for myself. 3 years at home is too much for me. The walls are starting to close in and I’m so lonely.

    Best: My beautiful baby is so delightful. So happy and smiley and lovely. I love just lying on her rug looking at her.

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    • elle

      Sorry to hear you’re lonely Helen :( There must be many women in your position feeling the same way! Do you go to a mother’s group or another kind of hobby/group for yourself? x

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  16. chef

    Best & worst: I got a new job. But it’s big and scary. Watched friday lunch service today, and I officially have The Fear.

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    • melinka

      Good luck chef. I bet you’ll hit your stride in a few weeks and kick The Fear up the jacksie :)

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  17. Mum of 2 cheeky monkeys

    Best : My sister is pregnant and because her husband is out of town I got to go to her scan with her today. Lovely!

    Worst: Mike Tyson is in town which really gets my goolies. The man is a convicted rapist, among other things, severly beat his wifeon a regular basis , and bit a guy’s ear off. Why is he even allowed in the country? Other famous individuals, Snoop Dogg I think was one, have not been allowed to enter in the past. Why on earth do we take it so easy on this imbecile?What an absolutely appaulling example of a man he is to our kids, and why are people paying to go and see him speak live? What earth could he possibly say that is of any interest to anyone? It really makes me mad. You want a definition of mysogyny? This man is it.

    Sorry about the typos, for som reason I can’t see what I tyoe on the comments page!

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    • Faybian

      I’m glad I’m not the only one with a “thing” (and not a good one) about mike Tyson. I don’t need to say a thing about him, you’ve said it all.

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      • Mum of two cheeky monkeys

        Glad someone does. Everyone seems to have the “he’s done his time, made mistakes, let it go” attitude. He’s gross and inarticulate and arrogant. Nice to hear I’m not just a prude!

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    • elle

      I have the same anger about Mike Tyson!! Why the fuuuuck is he allowed into Australia and what idiots would pay to see him speak???!! If he wasn’t famous there is NO WAY he’d be let in. Disgusting man

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  18. Anonymous

    Worst. Have been on hold to Ikea Richmond store for nearly 45 mins (third try this week) trying to buy a couch and have it picked up. It’s really pissing me off that they don’t answer or even indicate how long they might be!

    Best. Got all the ironing done. Boring but satisfying.

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  19. pennypacker

    best : just bought the last two tickets to the Black Sabbath concert in April here in Brisbane. So happy.
    worst : mum’s told me she can’t make it down for Christmas, again. She doesn’t want me to go up with the kids either. No big surprise there. At least my brother’s going to spend the day with us. Yay! Hopefully, he won’t be so overwhelmed like he was last year.

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    • Faybian

      Family can be wonderful can’t they? Hope you and your brother (and kids) have a good Christmas regardless of your mum’s decision.

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      • pennypacker

        Thanks Faybian, I hope you have a great Christmas too. Your 9 yr old sounds like mine, he decided Santa wasn’t real either last year. He worked out the wrapping paper I buy in the after Christmas sales, is the same as the ones his presents are wrapped in! I should of hid the wrapping paper!!! :-)

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  20. kittykatkate

    BEST: I am now a married lady! :) Just got back from our honeymoon last night and it was so lovely just to stop and relax!

    WORST: My husband (hehe still sounds funny to even say that!) has had a very on/off relationship with his mum due to certain things she has done in the past, anyway this year we both decided the past is in the past and we need to move forward, which we had been doing. We didn’t see her very often but when we did it was civil and polite… anyway on our wedding day she did not come up to me once and congratulate me and then the next day when we were going through our wishing well we realised that she hadn’t even given us a card…. so benefit of doubt, he messaged her and asked what happened and she said she was in such a rush she forgot the card (even though she lives about 3 minutes from the reception place!) and then last night we got home and saw we had a card from her, which was all about her and then the PS at the bottom was- your present from me will be when you sell my second hand car for me… in January! WHAT??? So we have received NOTHING as a wedding gift from his mum…. I was so sad for him last night, I could see how hurt he was and all he said was I am disappointed but not at all surprised… I couldn’t sleep all night thinking about it, I just cannot understand how she could do that and then still think we would want to have anything to do with her? Is this just me overreacting? I don’t feel as if I can go on about it to the boy because it just makes him feel really upset about how crap his parents are….

    Sorry about the rant… I just needed to vent somewhere.

    Thanks
    xo

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    • Flickster

      I think you are totally justified in feeling angry about the card/present etc, you are not over reacting. I hope that it gets better

      I hope this helps, I speak from experience in a similar situation. I know it is hard, but perhaps you can, as you go forward in your relationship with her, drastically lower your expectations. If you push her, it sounds like she pushes back which makes your situation more annoying at escalates the situation. My e.g. would be – say its you hubbys birthday and she “forgets”, or turns up with another excuse. Your expectations could be very low going into the situation, i.e. that she would forget, or would not turn up at all. Once you lower your expectations of her it might help reduce your anxiety/frustration in regards to her. Its hard but it might help.

      I feel your pain!

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      • kittykatkate

        Thanks Flickster! I have learnt in the past not to expect much, but in the last 6 months she actually seemed to be getting better (as in got me a thoughtful present for my birthday) and now with the wedding it just seems like we are back to square one! Thanks again for the advice, much appreciated! :)

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    • Gabby

      What a shame that it all come down to the present. The money. All this angst over the present or lack there of. What a shame.

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      • kittykatkate

        Hmm Gabby,
        Not sure if you intended to have a go at me, but if you are that is totally up to you.

        It didn’t come down to the present- the fact was neither of his parents (separated) bothered to even give us a card on the day. We are certainly not hung up on the money (even though she so kindly promised numerous times to contribute to wedding costs WITHOUT being asked by us) We didn’t ask anyone for help with the wedding, we paid for everything ourselves- so it is a little bit like a slap in the face when you are continually offered money and then receive a card that says you have to do something to get your present, but hey you don’t know anything about the situation, so you are entitled to your uninformed opinion….

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  21. Kate

    Best: Being more proactive and standing up for myself, not letting people use crap excuses on me. Hopefully it pays off.

    Worst: Pulled something in my back/hip…back to the physio!

    Mixed: Had a job interview which would be a step up from what I do now, but they seemed a little suspicious over my over-qualification for the position. Love where I work now, but it’s not challenging enough and everyone is leaving at the end of the year…

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  22. Maree

    My best and worsts are all confused this week.
    The announcement of the Royal Commision was great but I’m feeling a bit overwhelmed by all the press. I’m a victim of abuse from the 70′s and I can’t help but read all the articles. I, and other victims, are in the process of trying to get our abuser back from OS to face charges and I’m pursuing VOC compensation. Lots going on and I don’t really want to be doing any of it. I just wish it were all over and done with and I could get back to my otherwise lovely life. I’ve spent years growing through the experience and resent the necessary re-visiting of events.

    Also, reading about baby Hamish during the week gave me a big wake up call. I can be mean to my kids. Outright childish and intolerant. Just not good enough. Thanks for your honest writing Rachel. I know my being a better parent isn’t the point of your writing but 3 times already I’ve stopped myself snapping and remembered baby Hamish.

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    • Vee

      Ive lost a baby too, and it is comments like this that keep me going. If there is one thing that make our babies’ very short lives worthwhile, it is knowing other mothers love and cherish their own children that bit more. Children are utterly precious.

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    • rachkln

      Thank you Maree. It’s so nice to know Hamish has helped parents be more tolerant. I wish it wasn’t my beautiful boy but if there is has to be a legacy, I’m happy that’s it. Rachel x

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      • Millie

        Rachel, I haven’t stopped thinking about you and Hamish since I read your article. I live on the Sunshine Coast too.
        I’ve been more patient with my little boy and have hugged him extra tight because of you. So thank you. I am so so sorry for the loss of beautiful Hamish (and how beautiful he was! Those photos were AMAZING). I hope it gets easier for you soon.

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  23. BlackSwan

    I’m going backwards this week-

    Worst: being told I may not have a job after christmas AND I may have to move out of my place all in the one day :/

    Best: having a wonderful boyfriend to calm me down, make new plans and make me feel better in general :)

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  24. Elise

    Best – going out tonight with my fiance and some of his friends. We have had lots of bills lately and are saving for our wedding in March, so the ‘activities’ money has been non-existent for a while. So excited to go out, possibly a bit more excited than is necessary for going out for a curry and then to the pub.

    Worst – going for a run at the park today and the dog getting herself trapped in the next paddock, with an electric wire fence that I could not pull up or down to free her. I had to jump the fence and try lift her to throw her over but was unable to. THANKS to the other dog-walkers and the man mowing the park lawns for ignoring me, clearly a woman walking up and down the fence line of a paddock trying to lift a medium-sized dog is normal behaviour!? Actual thanks to the other groundskeeper for driving his mower over and helping me by catching my dog when I lifted/threw her over the fence. Grrrrrrrrrrrr.

    OMM – wedding season. We have four to go to from Jan-April next year (ours is March), and I am fairly certain that all four brides are having lace dresses and keen on grey suits and white flowers. Seeing on Pinterest that my recently engaged friend has pinned exactly the same dress styles, decorations and flowers as me…. uh oh!

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  25. MikeyMike

    Best : We have solved our rat problem

    Worst: Mrs MM has been made redundant. She has received a decent payout considering she had been an her job for just 12 months, but still ….
    This means that any plans we had for next year are now on indefinite hold. We were about to book flights to Europe last weekend; just as well we didn’t.

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    • picardie.girl

      Your worst really sucks MikeyMike. I feel for you and your wife. We’ve had three redundancies between me and my partner in the last 3 years and it’s pretty hard.

      Sending best wishes.

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  26. Haven Maven

    Hey MMers – happy Friday.

    You know – I started writing all about the ongoing drama of breaking up with kareoke man and the ensuing confrontation on Wed night, but fuck it. Its done, it means nothing now.

    I read Rachel’s post about losing Hamish, and I honestly kicked my own arse about the self indulgent bullshit I’d been allowing myself to wallow in.

    And my best guy mate who luckily for me is a comedian has been my life-saver. Calling or texting every day to make sure I’m not being a dick, ‘forcing’ me to get out and walk my pooch, and generally being my sounding board. He came over Sat night and we ate Thai and watch Jesus Christ Superstar and sang along like our bloody lives depended on it lol.

    So – my best was realising what really is important in my life and focussing on that.

    My worst – realising who I can and can’t trust. But you know, its not all bad. And in the grand scheme of things, I have much to be thankful for.

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    • gypsy

      Hi Haven Maven,
      Have been thinking of you this week, wondering how things were going.
      Your attitude rocks! :)

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      • Haven Maven

        Naww thanks gyps. You’ve been on my mind too. I replied to your post x

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    • erinsy

      Holy crap Haven!
      so sorry to hear about karaoke man, that sounded like it was a winning couple :(
      great to hear you have such a supportive mate.
      I watched JC superstar at the movies tuesday. It was a recording of the stage show in london with Ben Forster as Jesus, Tim Minchin ( sexy!) as Judas and Mel C as Mary.
      so. freaking. amazing!!!
      definitely worth seeing. hope you feel better soon x

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  27. phoodietweets

    BEST:

    Pulled off a much anticipated baking challenge this week! (Chocolate ‘Lasagne’)

    WORST:

    Trolls.

    This is at a first world level, for me, in that I find them annoying and at times distracting, but what scares me is that not everyone takes it as a first world level. Some people don’t have thick skins, some people might be having a bad day and take things more to heart than me, some people have low self-esteem and what anonymous cowards say online may actually really upset them.

    So Trolls, DISAPPEAR would ya!? I genuinely wonder what these sad and isolated folk did before the internet!

    And now for some eye candy…..

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    • LellaK

      Phoodie i have just come back from a 7 week european ‘eat and drink-athon’ and have just finished my first week back in training and eating well.
      I do not need to see photos of chocolate lasagne that nearly made me lick my computer screen in front of my work collegues.

      Thanks :)

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    • Lolly

      On behalf of everyone I’d just like to say ‘om nom nom’.

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    • Chocaholic

      OMG WHERE do I find the recipe for THAT?!?

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      • gypsy

        Go to Phoodie’s website but be warned you’ll never visit taste.com.au again.

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        • phoodietweets

          I LOVE taste.com.au – adore it! Thanks so much for the wonderful spirit-lifting comparison!!!! You are too kind!

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      • phoodietweets

        Coming soon – promise – like hopefully tonight!

        http://www.phoodie.wordpress.com

        :)

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    • Petal

      Oh, Phoodie, you are a cooking legend.

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      • phoodietweets

        Mum is that you?!!?

        hehehe!

        Thanks so much Petal!

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    • pennypacker

      Pooodie, that looks scrum – diddly – umptious !!! :-)

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  28. ameliastclair

    Best: I’ve finally left WA behind. I have spent the most amazing week in Sydney before I head on home to Brisbane to spend some quality time with my family, friends and their families – which I haven’t been able to do in the past 2 years. I also finished my Masters degree (!!!!) and am just waiting on marks – big big best there! I’ve had time to read, begin some writing, explore Sydney and generally just have time to myself to think and plan the next chapter. I’m also pretty hell-bent on moving to Sydney now, this city is just the best. Who knows where I’ll end up but it’ll be fun finding out!

    Worst: I’ve finally left WA behind. This was a really hard leap for me – to leave behind the boy I moved to WA for and to move back to QLD for at least a few months. I’m sure I’ll be on a bit of a rollercoaster of emotions for quite some time but at least I’ll be surrounded by my amazing family :)

    Love to anyone who is doing it tough this week xxx

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    • Elise

      Congrats on finishing your Masters, what a fabulous achievement!

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    • afw

      Congratulations! What was your Masters in ?

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  29. Snow

    I have been quite anxious all week. I keep expecting all these pregnancy symptoms to hit me, now that I’m in the 5th week, and so far I’ve had nothing! No morning sickness, sore bbs, nothing! I actually WANT to be bent over the toilet vomiting so at least I know I’m pregnant. Then last night I saw the hint of pink blood in my undies and today I am FREAKING out. I really don’t want to go through another miscarriage. I’m getting my blood tests done today but won’t hear back from my doc until Tue :( I wish there was a quicker way of knowing if everything is ok or not.

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    • vegas

      Fingers crossed for you Snow – I hope it works out well xx

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    • Helen

      I think often the pregnancy symptoms don’t start til 6 weeks. Fingers crossed for you.

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    • gypsy

      Thinking of you xxxx

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    • SoMuchSerenity

      My morning sickness hit me at exactly 6 weeks with both of my pregnancies. I hope everything goes okay for you x

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    • distracted

      Thinking of you too xox

      All three of my pregnancies I had no symptoms at all. I also had the pink streaks, doctor said they were breakthrough bleeds, common and meant nothing about the viability of the pregnancy. My second ‘born’ baby I had a bit more serious bleeding at 8 weeks but all fine … I’m really hoping it’s the case for you too.

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    • kiribilli

      most people don’t experience any symptoms at five weeks – most won’t even know they’re pregnant. Enjoy the calm before the morning sickness storm!

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    • daisychain

      Best: Finding out I am pregnant again. After recently losing a baby at 6 months into the pregnancy, I feel like I have hope in my life again and am so happy to get another chance!

      Worst: Hearing that my good friend’s mum’s cancer has almost beaten her, and that this Christmas will most certainly be her last. Unsure how I can be there for her…

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    • neola

      I completely relate. I’m 7 weeks and still no morning sickness, and am counting my blessings while wondering if it’s normal. Fingers crossed for you that all is fine, if it’s not a full period, try not to stress as it may be nothing (but I know that’s easier said than done!) Best of luck x

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  30. Rach the Muso

    Best: Thanksgiving break starts tomorrow! It has been a LONG time coming. The US could learn a lot from the Aussie education system about breaking things up a little more evenly! Three months of summer and a 16 week semester with 1 week off near the end?? Anyway, glad its finally here!

    Worst: Not really one this week.

    OMM: Husband has FINALLY seen the light and has conceded that we just can’t stay for further study. He’s a little bitter, but I am gradually encouraging him to look outside the box and find the opportunities for himself when we get back. And I spoke to one of our best friends, who is from Perth but coincidentally studying the same course at another university in the US. He is doing his best to echo my thoughts back to him without prompting from me. Husband knows this guy is ridiculously smart and doesn’t have a hidden agenda (unlike me) so we are hoping that will help him deal with the end of the post-grad road.

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  31. jamilarizvi

    I am having such a lovely week, so no worsts!

    Best: Mamamia just feels like it is absolutely buzzing at the moment. I love seeing the vibrant discussion on posts that we’ve put so much effort into. There isn’t another website in the country that has such engaged and informed debate amongst readers. I never fail to learn something when I read the comments. We be the best y’all.

    Best (again): Saw my dad last night when he was in Sydney and am seeing my baby sister tonight. Living away from family is something I still haven’t gotten used to, despite it being more than 2 years now. It’s like Christmas seeing both of them in one week.

    Love to everyone. xx

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  32. laurenrae

    Best: My partner arrived home from nearly 2 months overseas. Seeing as I only got back from a three month volunteer trip in September, we have spent about three weeks together in the past five months. So happy to have him home – no-one is going anywhere for a while!

    Worst: I could mention several small ‘first-world’ worsts of my own, but I’m going to say Rachel’s story about Hamish. I lost my mum very suddenly a year ago now, and as painful as that was I’m sure it can’t compare to the pain of losing a child. Reading through Rachael’s blog I recognised a glimmer of the feelings she expressed. I wish her and her family all the possible comfort and support.

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  33. Anonymous

    Best: I went to the Coldplay concert Tuesday night and it was awesome. It is up there as one of the best concerts I have been to.
    Worst: Still nothing on the job front. I have had interviews but no one ever gets back to me, it’s rather depressing. I guess though apart from that life is still good. I just have to stay positive!

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  34. maggie

    Best #1: 3 year anniversary dinner tonight! Going to Fraisers in Kings Park, liek we have for the last two years. I feel very blessed to have this guy in my life.

    Best #2: I am getting kittens tomorrow morning! 2 little fluff ball sisters! I really think they will make the house feel that extra homey!

    Worst #1: As I said last week on B&W, work is draining me.I have no love for the place and my performance is slipping because of it. (Thanks also to the supportive comments from the lovely MM readers!)

    Worst #2: My bootcamp training buddy is going away for 6 months and I am rather sad about it. She is really good at keeping me going! We have our last session together tomorrow morning. Being over emotional, I think I may cry and try to hug her!
    I don’t know her THAT well and don’t want to freak her out! :p But I will really miss her. She is pretty cool.

    OMM: Its Friday, I finish early and have taken Monday off the play with kittens. Life isn’t SO bad.

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      Oh i love Frasers. Then going down and staring at the beautiful view after :)

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    • Anonymous

      Oh YAY to your kitties, how exciting! :)

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    • afw

      Congrats on the little kittens! So excited for you.

      Can I recommend you look at pet insurance? A colleague just had to fork out loads for her chihuahua puppy who broke her leg – it cost thousands. Now pet owners in my office are buying pet insurance (you can get just accident or accident + illness coverage).

      Woolworths pet insurance is very good value (best I’ve seen so far) and Bow Wow Meow is another good one.

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      • maggie

        Thanks heaps AFW, I have been thinking of that. I have a Woolies credit card, so I didn’t know they did pet insurance.

        I will look into it :)

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  35. Applejack

    Best 1:  not long until I jet off on holidays, I have not been away in a really long time and I need (and deserve) some ‘me’ time
    Best 2: I met a guy on the weekend. He was so lovely and cute and we had a bit of a pash

    Worst: why must males be so confusing ! I woke up to two messages from him  on Sunday. One asking me to dinner if I felt up to it which I responded positively too. Then later in the day I receive another one asking how my day had been, but since i replied NOTHING. What is up ? 3 messages in 24 hours then nothing for a week. I feel like a teenage girl trying to figure it out. Do I just put it down to a nice weekend and stop thinking about it and move on? 

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    • Haven Maven

      Boys are weird x

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    • Jess

      “Do I just put it down to a nice weekend and stop thinking about it and move on?”

      Yes! One thing I can say for certain is when you meet the right one, he won’t have you staring at your phone wrecking your brain wondering where he is.

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      • Anon

        So true Jess! I wish I had realised that many many years ago.

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    • jillibilli

      Apple, he is probably in a relationship and if he isn’t why would you want to place yourself in a situation where you are always wondering where this person is!
      Apple, you deserve to be with a guy who wants to be with you and doesn’t play games.

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  36. J

    Totally agree Mia – you guys need to have some sort of privacy! You give so much for the website, it’s fair for you guys to pull back.

    Best: Uni is finished for the year! Woo!
    Worst: The weird, unmotivated feeling I’m getting in the morning when I should be really happy that I have free days now… Why?? Very annoying.

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      You probably need to do nothing for a while… enjoy it! Nothing wrong with feeling unmotivated after putting in a hell of an effort.

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  37. Sneet

    Not sure yet if this a a Best or Worse!!

    My SIL has convinced me to have a spray tan next week (we are going to a wedding), and I’ve never had one before…

    I’m quite pale skinned, so am planning of going the lightest colour possible…..but I’m a bit confused as to what I should wear to get it done.

    MMers advice would be greatly appreciated as I am working my way up to cancelling in my panic about it all!!

    Thanks, in advance…..!!

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    • gypsy

      Wear something loose fitting and preferrably a darker colour. Spray tan does wash out of your clothes but I always wearing a loose fitting black summer dress. It’s commonly referred to as my “spray tan frock”.

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    • vivacious

      I generally just wear a g-string. I figure they see everything all day, every day.

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      • Sneet

        Thanks…..I think I am freaking out even more now!!!
        I have to say – it is up there with “pap smear” at the moment on the “confronting” meter.

        Sorry, another question – how long does it take, and how long until I can put some clothes back on afterwards?

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        • gypsy

          The spray tan will be a breeze and definitely not worth putting in the same basket as a “pap smear”. You might even become converted and have them regularly.
          Takes 10-15 minutes and usually you have to wait for a few minutes before putting clothes once (make sure it’s something loose fitting and dark). Depending on the type of tan you can either wash it off in a couple of hours or have to leave it longer to develop but this will be explained to you.

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          • Sneet

            Thank you so much :)

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    • laurenrae

      Do you mean wear while you get it done?

      If so, it’s totally up to you. Some people go for a bikini, or old bra and underwear. Others just a g-string – they have disposable ones at most spray tanning salons. Others just wear their birthday suit. I bring my own black g-string as the disposable ones can sometimes be a bit bulky I find. Most beauticians are really easy-going and make you feel comfortable – so don’t stress! I’m sure you will be so happy with the result and feel super confident and gorgeous for the wedding.

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      • Sneet

        Oh, thanks, that helps!!
        I was thinking I had to be nude……
        I might dig out an old bra and knickers then.
        Thanks heaps!!

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        • alex86

          If you’re comfortable doing so, you’re better off not wearing a bra during or after as the straps will leave marks, as will the underwire. Generally I will throw an old, loose black dress on and scuttle to my car afterward braless. Don’t stress, when I have got mine I tend to find them pretty funny – it’s a pretty unusual thing for someone to decide to do to themselves, regardless of how good it looks after!

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          • Sneet

            Ok…..
            Thank you so much for all of the advice!
            Bra Strap marks are not overly as issue, as the dress I am wearing is sleeveless but not strappy.

            lol..I just found out that the girl doing the spray tan is a possible guest at the wedding we are going to…..oh dear!!!

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            • lealea

              Try not to stress, spray tanners are like waxers, they see naked bodies everyday and it just part of the job. My friend used to do it and she said that they aren’t looking at your bits, they are concentrating on getting the colour even and doing a great job for you. I just wear an old pair of knickers.

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  38. Anna S

    worst :crazy week emotionally.
    while gearing up to start another round of fertility treatment after my early miscarriage a few weeks back, on sat i found a lump in my breast. it was like the straw that broke the camels back, i completely fell apart. couldnt get into my doc till wed so it was an agonising wait while all the worst thoughts ran through my head, of not being around to watch my son grow up, of never being able to give him a little brother or sister. i broke my promise to myself and dr googled, which of course made it even worse.

    i had to step away from facebook altogether as pregnancy announcements and ultrasound pics were appearing fast and furious and i just couldnt deal.

    Finally wed arrived and i couldnt find anyone to watch my son as husband had to work, so i had to take him with me, he hadnt been feeling well the night before, and sure enough, driving to the docs BLLLUUURRRRRRRGGGHHHHH!!! he started throwing up everywhere, he was coated as was his seat and the floor mats.
    so i had to turn the car around and take the poor little man home to get him cleaned up and re-schedule my appointment.

    Bests :the doc felt it and said it felt more like fatty tissue than an actual lump to be concerned about, but sent me for an ultrasound just to be sure…which confirmed it was all ok. So i had myself worked up in a real state all week over some fatty tissue!! needless to say, i was so relieved.

    my son seems to be on the mend, hes more like his happy self again today and very talkative.

    my husband lovingly dealing with my meltdown this week, bringing me back from the brink of hysteria.

    finally, I love christmas time and cant wait to put the tree up and all the decorations!!

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  39. gypsy

    Best and worst – all rambled in together. Another IVF cycle has become and I have egg pick up next week for one maybe two eggs. Happy to take the risk “it only takes one” and my doctor is hopeful. Had a massive massive meltdown in the car on the way to work and told finally brought up the possibility of using donor eggs with my husband. He is somewhat hesitant but knows how badly I need him to consider this as a very viable option. Kind of feels like a relief that I can continue on this journey with my own eggs but start the process of getting a donor. Wishing at this point I lived in the States where the process (of donors) is so easy.
    But… it’s the weekend and I’m going to do my best to stay positive and focus on being the “one egg wonder girl”. In the meantime, might need to go to Sass & Bide to cheer myself up.

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    • laurenrae

      Hoping it all works out for you Gypsy, and you have a lovely, positive weekend. And a bit of Sass & Bide never hurt anyone, unless you are a credit card of course :)

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    • Haven Maven

      Oh gyps. Crossing my fingers and toes for you. If you ever want someone to chat to re the donor program, I was a donor about 14 years ago and would be more than happy to talk to you bout it.

      Ill stay positive with you xx

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    • Suzie

      Best of luck with the IVF – after many IVF cycles we never, ever got more than three eggs a cycle, and would be lucky if more than one fertilised. I just didn’t ‘do’ eggs well. But we did have luck in the end. All the best.

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      • gypsy

        Really? Wow, I just hear stories of other women getting so many eggs. You just gave me a glimmer of hope. thanks so much x
        Loving the mm community

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        • Chellebelle

          Same for us, we had 4 goes and egg numbers were 0, 3, 1, 5. On the 2nd and 4th attempts we only had 1 and 3 eggs fertilize but they resulted in 2 beautiful boys who are currently snuggled into my sides as we watch Penguins of Madagascar. Best of luck to you!

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        • Anon

          Stay positive. I have only ever got two eggs or one per cycle and fallen pregnant. Quality not quantity! All the best. xxx

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        • neola

          I’ve been dying to tell you and the other kind IVF-ers on here that we have FINALLY had success! And it was with a pick up of a single, solitary egg! I was so disheartened and mad that I’d gone through SO MANY NEEDLES again only to produce one, but this time one was all it took. Hang in there, Gypsy, and all of you running the bloody IVF gantlet. I was close to giving up, but I’m so glad I didn’t.

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    • Oopsyboops

      Hang in there Gypsy. Remember, it is quality, not quantity. I had a total of about 55 eggs collected (in 4 fresh cycles) and yet only two ever became babies. One cycle I got 16 eggs, which became 5 embryos, and by transfer became 0. It only takes one good one! Will be thinking of you.

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      • Anon

        Good luck to all those using IVF/ICSI. First egg collection netted 33 eggs. 23 fertilized. In the end, only one of those took. We had a much wanted & loved baby girl. Gees, it was a hard slog…

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  40. Louise

    Best: have a baby shower this weekend with lots of women I haven’t seen for ages. Looking forward to rekindling old friendships and making new ones!

    Worst: Have realised that almost every night I dream about my ex and his kids. I feel quite good during the day but it is all undone by my dreams at night. Not fair.

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  41. Alright, so in order to make myself confront my crazy behaviour, I am sharing on here and everyone can feel free to CRINGE at me and tell me how BAD my behaviour was.

    So my worst. Well, I went 15 days without speaking with Ex Mr W. WAS DOING SO WELL!! However, I deleted him from FB but had been doing some stalking as to what I could actually see on his profile (not much). Saw a photo change and saw his female personal trainer “liked” it. So automatically in my head “He’s SLEEPING WITH HER ALREADY MOVED ON FROM MEEEEEEEEE”. So I texted and phoned and made these wild allegations in a moment of craziness. Yes. I did. Undignified. We spoke for quite some time and he was quite dismissive of me, which shocked me a bit, because when I had crazy moments when we were together he was always quite calming and reassuring. Obviously, he doesn’t have to put up with that anymore and shouldn’t have to put up with me phoning in a fit of anger making up insane stories in my head about him. We ended up resolving it and spoke for about 3 hours and ended off the conversation ok.

    HOWEVER, this week has been really flat for me because I feel like such a doofus for doing it in my cray moment. Plus I had kind of hoped he was still a bit of a mess but he didn’t seem to be. I am having really bad anxiety about work and stuff like that too, so it doesn’t help.

    BEST? Hmmmmmm. My new housemates. They are rad. Very grateful for them!

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    • Anonymous

      Oh Whippersnapper don’t be so hard on yourself!!! Ringing Ex Mr W is perfectly understandable under the circumstances. God knows most women have made a crazy phone call once (or twice) in their life and though it might feel undignified at the moment – remember “this too shall pass”. I’m sure Ex Mr W deep down understands where you were coming from.

      In the meantime…. maybe… just maybe… step away from his FaceBook profile. No good will come from it and FaceBook is only the highlight reel of someone’s life.

      Be kind to yourself :)

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    • chef

      Whippersnapper, don’t beat yourself up. If this is the worst thing you do during this period you are doing ok. Really. Hang in there.x

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    • Amelie

      Whippersnapper, saw your post on the Sex and the City topic too and just want to say don’t worry I’ve behaved equally as crazy in past break up. It’s ok, you are still working through things. Most important piece of advice I can give start loving yourself as a single, once I did that and put myself back on the dating scene I felt like I could tell who was right and who wasn’t rather then letting the I’ll be single forever fear talk me into sticking with the wrong guy, and I did eventually find the right one.

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    • Bea

      Oh Whippersnapper I hear you. If it makes you feel better I did exactly the same thing with my ex last week. I stalked him on facebook (defriended by me but still friended by my darling friend for the sole purpose of stalking…possibly not the most clever move now that I think about it?). I saw that he’d caught up with his ex from when he was 17 and, based on one picture of them standing side by side not even touching, decided that they were clearly in love, getting married and having a baby. Obviously.

      Cue meltdown. Over skype. Which means that he saw me do the ugly cry. THE UGLY CRY!! There goes the illusion of me as the cool, aloof and dignified ice queen….

      In summary you are not a doofus. Or, if you are, you’re in good company.

      http://thegoogleyear.blogspot.com.au/

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      • Sydgel

        Oh Bea that is terrible, I really feel for you and hope you’re ok. xxxx

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    • gypsy

      Oh that anonymous advice is me :) Logged myself out.

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      • I definitely have decided to not look at his Facebook now. My friend suggested I email or text him and ask him to block me so I can’t stand him but I was like “No way, I’m not letting him think I’m that weak!!”.

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    • Haven Maven

      Ahh Whipps. We’ve all been there, cherub. Sucks when they aren’t losing their tiny mind pining hey. So – onwards and upwards from here, hey? And we can plot their untimely demises in our heads over wine x

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    • ash

      Don’t beat yourself up too much whippersnapper. Guys often have a way of keeping their ‘craziness’ inside. I’m sure he’s feeling it much more than he’s letting on.

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    • Kate

      We all have weak moments. Chalk it up to experience and move on. Who cares what he thinks of your “crazy moment”, he’s no longer your problem. Do something positive just for you :-)

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    • hannahfromsa

      Don’t beat yourself up, whipper. Lots of love!

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    • afw

      Yes, W/S… we have all ALL done things such as this, often more than once! In fact, it would be a bit crazy if you didn’t do something such as this at least once. Don’t be hard on yourself. Do try not to worry what he thinks. Be more concerned with how you feel about having done that. Focus on you. It is better not to look back because that is not the direction you are going in (if you can try and remember this).

      Is there any way you can distract yourself and keep busy? Not just the usual day to day work, study, see friends and family… but take up an actual hobby after hours with other people – no matter how daggy?!
      Try something out of your usual zone… Basket weaving? Belly dancing? Making your own Christmas cards?

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  42. HAPPY

    Worst – nerve wracking wait to see if I get the marks for one of my uni units – im usually a pretty good student, but with full time work and full time study and a new boyfriend im ashamed to say I neglected this one unit.

    Best – Uni over for the year, now to get work back on track, I might even get to enjoy my evenings and weekends more now.

    Best #2 – New boyfriend is amazing, its been a long time coming but I think he might be the right guy for me :)

    Best #3 – 1 week til I got to Tassie with the new boy and catch up with an old friend!

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  43. buggles

    Sorry but I just need to rant.

    I am an engineer and I have been emailing people all week to try and get some quotes. Sign off with my normal work signature which is just my name.

    Every single response has come back with Dear Mr. Buggles.

    Seriously. I want to respond to all of them with an email saying “It may come as a surprise to you that I am a woman. While I understand that my lack of a penis is putting me at a distinct disadvantage when it comes to doing math and understanding science, and these damn female hormones can make me unstable at times I do feel that I manage to do the title of engineer proud when I’m not applying make-up and crying in the bathroom stall”.

    Humph. Rant over.

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    • Neeks

      That would piss me off too!

      I have heard that engineering can be a bit of a boys club, is that true?

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    • Haven Maven

      Babe – smile in the knowledge that, in all reality, you will have bigger balls than most of them anyway :P

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  44. peppy

    Worst: Saw less of the boyfriend this week… and even though I really, really do love some time to chill out alone… I have finished an entire cycle of America’s Next Top Model in three nights, and I’m not sure how much more I can watch before I overdose on Tyra Banks!

    Best: So much Ben and Jerry’s ice cream has been eaten, while watching ANTM. See above ;)

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  45. feelingdefeated

    Worst: massive sense of deja vu hitting home….. Mum having more tx soon for breast cancer. Hate the thought that one day I’ll lose her :( . My little one is only four months old and hate seeing Mum struggle around xmas. (my eldest was the same age when she was first diagnosed and I was struggling to deal with shocking PND – just before xmas 2009) Hate feeling that the dark clouds are starting to gather…

    Best: being lucky to have an amazing husband who let’s me unload all my thoughts and feelings on him at the end of each day. We’re both determined to do the best we can to leave those dark days behind us. Our sweet little boys are worth every bump in the road (and then some) :)

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  46. Neeks

    Worst- BRAS!!!!! I can’t find any that fit all of a sudden. In my draw I have a 12C, lots of 10D, 10DD, 12D and one 12DD. I seem to have the problem that I have wide boobs. The breast tissue seems to extend quite a way under my arm so I need a wide underwire. It’s like they take up a large surface area over my rib cage but don’t project outwards so much. I can’t seem to wear really full cup bras because they either cut in or I have to get a rediculous size with cups that end up under my chin. It seems to be a shape issue not that my boobs are actually that large.

    Does anybody else have the same thing? Has anybody found any brands that suit? I went to Bras and Things and tried on twenty bras the other day but they all sucked.

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    • distracted

      Did you get the attendants to fit you? I always find it weird but worthwhile!

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      • Neeks

        Yep. None of the bras fit properly!

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        • distracted

          Bummer! Sorry but I usually just put up with with uncomfy bras too :(

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        • Anonymous

          Get fitted at Myer. I have been in there a few times (normally crying and cursing my giant weird boobs) and the ladies always help me find something and give me a little cuddle.

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    • JJMidwest

      Get Pleasure State to fit you! They are in major Myer stores and are amazing!

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    • Anonymous

      I really recommend intimo. They do party plan but are awesomely comfortable and are designed for people with larger boobies

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      • Anonymous

        I think I read somewhere once that ‘minimiser’ style bras are good for people with wide boobs.

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    • afw

      Go see the trained Berlei bra fitters in Myer asap – I did and it has changed me and my bras for good!

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      • Neeks

        From these suggestions it sounds like Myer is definitely the way to go. Thanks everyone.

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    • bedizz

      I used to fit bras. I’d recommend a balconette style, they tend to be wider but not always, might need to try a few… Good luck!

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  47. girly

    Best: Decided Monday night I wanted to walk to work to get fit. I started Tuesday and still going! Didn’t even let this mornings bad weather stop me. Got a little ahead of myself and took photos 3 days apart expecting to see results, haha. I always do that, then get discouraged and give up.

    I bought some protein powder last night and decided to do a 7 day shape up plan to drop the weight. My brother said he’d help me because he does body building as a sport. I don’t want to be muscly but I do want to be fit and get rid of this spare tire!

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  48. JB

    Personally I just can’t stop thinking about Rachel and her little boy Hamish from this mamamia post:
    http://www.mamamia.com.au/parenting/my-son-is-gone-i-am-a-shell-of-a-woman/
    Her writing is so powerful, raw and beautiful. She has put into words how my brother and sister in law felt when they lost their precious toddler a couple of years ago. My heart is aching for her. I haven’t been able to post a comment yet as every time I try I can barely see through my tears. What a special woman and mother she is to share her thoughts and memories of her darling boy.

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    • rachkln

      No need to post my love. I just heard you. Thank you. With love from me and my darling boy. Rachel x

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      • Anonymous

        Hi Rachel. I too can’t stop thinking of your post. I have a one year old and what you are going through is just unimaginably devastating. Your story is certainly making me kiss and cuddle and appreciate my son more and I gave him a few extra cuddles today for Hamish. A legacy is not something you should have to be thinking about for your gorgeous baby but I think thousands of us who read your words will be cuddling our babies more in memory of little Hamish. He sounded so wonderful. You must really miss him. I hope your family starts to see some sunlight soon. Xxx

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  49. Lolly

    Best – I’ve lost 10% of my bodyweight in 11 weeks and my ‘skinny’ work pants and dresses are all starting to fit again! And I am running intervals like a machine! Still a little way to go, continuting on with the next round of the 12WBT and shall hopefully be where I want to be by January.

    Worst – Partner has been getting up at 4am for work this week – have not been enjoying that alarm going off. But it’s good he still has work for a little while so I can not complain. Santa, we would like him to have a new job for Christmas please :-)

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  50. Cinnamon

    Bestest Best = I saw a photo of my grandfather for the first time in my life last week on Facebook of all places! My dad lost his father at a young age and he never had a photo of him, I guess they’re all somewhere in Iran. I’ve only ever seen one photo of mum’s dad who also passed away when she was very young. Anyway I had given up hope of ever seeing his photo until a distant relative on my dad’s side found us on FB and some other person (not sure if he is related to us) had posted a photo of my grandfather asking this guy if he knew where my dad and aunts were. I took one look at the photo and knew that it was my granddad since I could see my dad in him so much. I cried so much after seeing his photo and I’ve saved it and hopefully I can get it printed out and framed. It’s weird to think this is probably the only photo I’ll ever have of him!

    Best: It’s my birthday tomorrow… well it’s my birthday today in Australia but tomorrow over here. Already getting txt and FB msgs sent to me. I guess this could also be my worst in that no family around but at least I have my husband who’s birthday is 2 days after me! So we are going out Saturday night for dinner to celebrate our birthdays and I’ll make us a cake :)

    OMM: What happened to the Open Post? Did I miss something?

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