I’m not in favour of freedom of speech. Not completely. I’ll never defend anyone’s right to be a bigot or a racist or to vilify a minority group. I don’t believe you should be able to wear a swastika on your t-shirt or burn someone else’s religious book with impunity. What should happen to those who do? Well, probably not jail. But there should certainly be consequences.
Today, however, I’m not going to focus on hate-mongers because it’s the weekend and I don’t want to. Instead, let’s sip lattes and discuss the more palatable side of this subject: when offensive words are used unintentionally.
There have been a couple of significant blips on the pop culture radar recently and it’s been fascinating to watch everyone assume polarised positions. Yes, I’m talking about gay kookaburras and faggots. In truth, I feel uncomfortable even writing that word let alone saying it but I’m not here to demonise Stephanie Rice (who used it in on Twitter – you can read about that and see her apology here) because it’s more interesting to look at the issue instead of the individual.
To many people, the word faggot is offensive. To others, sticks and stones. And your sexuality doesn’t necessarily dictate your view. So while many gay people condemned the use of the word, others yawned. Trying to ascribe a single opinion to the entire gay community is like trying to speak on behalf of all white people or all female people. Impossible. As one gay man wrote to the newspaper in defense of ‘faggot’:
“It embarasses me that the public could believe our skins are so thin we can’t take a joke…..if we want equality, if we want the freedom to imply, say, that young men from the western suburbs with a penchant for flannelette shirts are bogans, we are obliged to take our places on the receiving end of seemingly derogatory, yet harmless, language.”
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New word I don't like: Loose. Like "loose women". *shudder*
sometimes people find others 'freedom of speech' politically incorrect or not aligned with their views therefore they become uncomfortable and offended.
we can't go around afraid to communicate incase our view is seem as 'extreme' by someone else.
That being said, respectfulness goes a very long way. if you have something to say, do so respectfully.