By LUCY ORMONDE
Please don’t judge me for what I’m about to tell you.
Over Christmas, my car ran out of petrol on the ramp of a shopping centre car park. The petrol light had been on for a few hours (or was it days?) and it was only when I started ascending the multi-level car park that I realised where I was heading. And it wasn’t the shops. It was hell.
On level three, the car started to struggle. Somewhere between level four and level five she carked it completely. No amount of pounding the accelerator was going to get that baby any further up the hill.
At this point I want to tell you there were approximately 99,000,000 cars banked up behind me, (in reality there were probably 12). Still, it was enough to have me f*cking terrified about how the next few minutes would play out.
I briefly considering bolting. Dumping the car and making a run for it.
I headed to the window of the car first in line. I explained the situation – I opted for the white lie of “broke down” over the mortifying truth of “ran out of petrol” – and when the driver of car number one started to reverse, the rest of the line reluctantly followed.
(There’s a point to this story beyond shame and embarrassment, I promise. Stay with me.)
Once I was at the bottom of the ramp, I call roadside assist. “Would you say you’re parked in a dangerous position?” Well, yes.
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I had a similar experience in one of the busiest intersections in Melbourne. Mine was a major mechanical failure that I couldn't have predicted (car had only recently been serviced).
My hazards were immediately activated, but just in case I stuck my head out of the window to the man in the car behind me who proceeded to yell "what the f*&k are you doing" to which I replied "my car has broken down". He pulled around and up next to me and yelled "you f&*king stupid b*tch" before skidding off.
Similar horn blaring and abuse continued from dozens of people while I waited for the RACV. After about half an hour, my random knight (who was not much taller than me) arrived and stopped the traffic long enough to help move my car to a safe area) while he also was tooted at and abused.
Basically I have lost all faith in 99% of the human race, but thank goodness a 1%er was passing by at the time...
It's interesting who extends the chivalry and who doesn't. Headed down stairs to a train platform with a pram going bump on every step, no train due on that platform for more than 5 minutes - no one will miss their train by stopping to help. Several able-bodied young adults go by with heads bowed / buried in mobiles / whatever, but the guy with the walking stick, who stopped for a break on the landing half-way, grabs the pram from the front and carries it the rest of the way, shrugging off the thanks.
And then you've got the funny moment at a family wedding the other day. Wearing a post-natal nursing dress so I can breastfeed my 7 month old discreetly. As such dresses do, it allows for a post-partum belly. However, he's a hungry tyke, and we're introducing solids very slowly and cautiously because of well-founded allergy concerns. So that hunger is pretty much 100% satisfied by breastmilk. Certainly weren't going to give him new and unfamiliar foods while on holiday, so had been mostly breastfeeding for the last few days. Bub's huge, so I'm struggling to keep weight *on*, having to eat extra meals every 2-3 days or so to maintain a healthy weight and milk supply. I can safely say that, if I'm not wearing clothes with a built-in post-partum allowance, I look like I couldn't possibly have been pregnant twice. And yet, a lovely grandmotherly woman stands up, passes me her chair and grabs another one, and tells me, "Here, you shouldn't be standing dear." I had *no* idea what to say to that!
Of course, any assistance with a heavy pram or running toddler (I seriously don't mind if you grab her at the edge of a road and stand still while I catch up from 10 metres away, although I also understand why people feel bad about this) is much appreciated, and *all* help from chivalrous bystanders was wonderful when I was heavily pregnant. But there can be instances of chivalry that leave you wanting to cringe, laugh or roll your eyes. All adds to the fun, really.