By LUCY ORMONDE
I think there’s a me-shaped dent in my couch. For the past week, any time I’m not a work, I’m in front of the TV and hogging the remote. I might have even slept there some nights… No judging, please.
Welcome to best and worst of the week. It’s time to tell us about you and what’s been happening in your life. Imagine you’re sitting down with your family for dinner or catching up with your friends. Everything is on the table, nothing’s off limits. We’re a supportive bunch here.
I’ve been a bit Olympics obsessed over the past couple of weeks. The thing I’ve loved most about the London Games has been the social media and the power of internet and the way it’s let us share and talk about the best and worst and laugh-out-loud moments. Can you remember an Olympics before where a picture of a rower with (or without) a boner has gone viral? Or when an unfortunate dive becomes a world-wide hit? (Pun intended.)
There’s nothing like watching an event with the rest of the world on Twitter. Pole vaulting heats become hilarious when a few thousand people are simultaneously staring at their TV screens and wondering why the athletes look so bored.
It’s been so much fun, although now I’m finding myself in that strange frame of mind where I want the Olympics to be over so I can move on with my life, but at the same time I’m already depressed that it’s almost finished and we have to wait four years for the next. Serious question: Does anyone remember what we did at night before the Olympics? I do not.
What’s also on my mind this week is visas, travel insurance, exchanging money and what to wear on the plane. I’m going to the US soon for a couple of weeks and if there’s a gold medal for the most disorganised traveller ever, it’s mine. You know those people who think about what kinds of comfortable walking shoes they should pre-purchase before a trip? I’m more throw the pretty-but-impractical shoes in the suitcase the night before and cross the blister bridge once you arrive. I’ve done nothing to prepare.
But while I’m away, I am going to miss the office and everyone here. Here’s a glimpse of what goes on behind the scenes:

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Your turn. How’s your week been?







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Best :- My daughter made her debantue and she looked amazing – had a fabulous night.
Worst: The ex made a absolute embrassment of himself – p** as a fart!! Wonders why I left him – rehab is calling.
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Best: my wonderful wife, Mon (who is a regular reader of this website), is doing a wonderful job with our 3 month old baby boy and is still as supportive and caring for me as ever! I wanted to post this just so she would know how much I appreciate her for everything she does for our little family.
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Best: My husband mowed a “heart of grass” for me. 18 years and he’s still romantic. I’m a lucky girl.
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Mine is just a best this week, no worst! I’ve been traveling for the past month and was supposed to be traveling by myself, but have met so many fantastic girls that I haven’t been by myself once! I am having a ball.
I’m also so in love with my beautiful ex, who I met up with over here. We had the most wonderful, happy time together and we’re getting back together when I get home. It’s so wonderful having him back in my life. Yay!!
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Best: currently at my parents place and spending time with them and watching them play with my kids. We have played bubbles, drawn pictures, found Wally and played Connect 4. Family is wonderful.
Worst: father in law died a few weeks ago and my mother in law is being horrible to my husband and his sister. Why can’t she be more supportive of them when they are trying to grieve? I know she is grieving too but she is saying such hurtful things to them both, I’m finding it hard to remain sympathetic. I just
Worst 2 (and i know this is a first world problem in comparison) My iPhone fell in the toilet 2 days ago and is not showing any signs if recovery.I have already tried putting it in rice.
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I sympathise with you Blair, it’s very hard for all when a loved one is lost but if i could just offer something to think about.
When my mother died my dad was very distant and mentally absent and my eldest sister reminded him that she was and we were all grieving the loss too but he said something to her that has stuck. He told her that he understood her grief as he knew how it felt to lose a mother as he had lost his own mother but he then said that he had lost a wife and his grief was very different and he hoped that she never has to go through because it was heartbraking and so painful. I guess until we are in that situation we don’t know how we would handle it. Perhaps this is how your mother in law feels?
I have not lost a partner but i can only imagine how different it is to losing a parent.
I hope you don’t mind me offering this to you and sending lots of hugs your way x
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Best: Got my VCE results and realised I got an A for Chem.. YAY! Thought I got a LOT worse.
Also, had one of those giggly days yesterday, where if an one said anything I would just burst out laughing. Hormones maybe? But, it made for such a great day!
Worst: Because of lack of sleep, I just need to sit down and I will fall asleep. Seriously. So I didn’t get to study for a SAC today in the way I would have like to.
Because of giggly day,when a man stepped on another man’s foot in the train I couldn’t stop laughing. I am sooo sorry if you are out there. I probably ruined your day and I should have stopped. So sorry:(
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Congrats on your Chem result, that’s awesome!
I hope you get some sleep tonight
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Worst: Monday 9am
Best: Friday 6pm
I need a new job, obviously.
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Lol
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Best: A week’s leave to myself! Recently single so plenty time to reflect, catch up with new friends, walk & coffee & paper everyday at my bestest eatery
Worst: Sorting school issues with my son in year 12. BTW what idiot designed the school system that kids all turn 18 AND buy their first car in year 12?
OMM: The work that awaits me on Monday morning
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i didn’t turn 18 until after i finished yr 12 and therefore got my licence the year after
take responsibilty for your own problems
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In Queensland the kids finish year 12 at 17, in Victoria 90% of the kids turn 18 in year 12. This whole year has been about 18th birthday parties
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Meg, It’s harsh comments like this that are turning people away from this community …
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Your second sentence is unneccessary and rude, Meg.
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BTW what idiot designed the school system that kids all turn 18 AND buy their first car in year 12?
You’re the parent, you don’t have to allow your son to have driving lessons or buy a car while he is in year 12.. You can always say “NO”.
Neither of my kids learnt to drive until they had finished high school.
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Best: I’ve had a bad cough and cold for a month now and it’s lingered ever since I got back from overseas. Working full time, by the end of the day I haven’t always felt up to doing uni work.. and so I got a bit behind. Fully intended to push through and hand in the assignment due today, until I decided to email my lecturer and see if there was a possibility of an extension of a couple of days. She gave me an extra week – such a load off my mind.
Worst: Feeling like I’m just whiling away the days waiting for real life to start. Working in a job I am completely bored in but studying something I love. Wish I was able to work in that field now but slightly anxious about how I will get my foot in the door.
OMM: Need to start my ‘get fit for summer’ regime pronto. Thinking about signing up for a few races next year… even though I can barely run 5 minutes at the moment, haha!
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Please get your cold? checked out. Thats a long time to be sick
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Best – seeing one of my favourite singers perform last weekend. Spending the week with my partner and enjoying each others company.
Worst – coming back to work yesterday for a week of night shifts, it never gets any easier. Plus becoming incredibly hungry over the past week – like can’t be satisfied hungry… and my boobs are sore and I am really tired (trying to stop the thoughts in my head saying maybe pregnant??
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Time for a pregnancy test maybe? I was exhausted for the first trimester. I couldn’t understand why I was so tired! But the boobs were the giveaway for me. I knew I was pregnant because of their shape & weight rather than soreness. Small-breasted women who suddenly have rounder, fuller boobs will know what I mean.
Good luck if you are & it’s what you want LouEm!
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I think you may be right! My partner and I would be nothing but thrilled if I was, we have always planned on children, but had mid 2014 in mind. If we are blessed with one earlier then we will make it work
Thanks for your kind words hellopetal
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Best: Curiosity landed on Mars. Perfectly.
Crystal clear pictures beamed back to Earth over 240 million kilometres away. Curiosity travelled 570 million kilometres to get there.
Worst: So little in the media about this amazing amazing amazing event.
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Best – Caught up with an old friend who has been travelling and working abroad the last few years. Even though our lives are both totally different now, it’s nice to know that when we catch up it feels like nothing’s changed.
Worst – two sick kids for most of the week, although I think they might finally be on the mend.
OMM – one of my besties is pregnant with twins!! She already has a little boy, so is obviously nervous about it all. I want to show support and be helpful, but not sure what to do as its still early days…
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Worst: the whole family has been ill for over a week. Thought I had got away with it until I got the flu! It’s so debilitating. I feel so weak and almost embarrassed at how weak and tired I feel. Not to mention I have missed a week of work after only working there for 2 weeks. Felt so embarrassed at having to call in each day. I hope they don’t think they made a mistake hiring me.
OMM: my 2 year old daughter has been sick on an off the whole of winter. I realise that this is what child care can do, but I hate seeing my usually very happy and spirited little girl look so tired and sorry for herself. I hope this builds up her immunity for years to come!
Best: hubby been home sick has been kind of nice and very helpful!
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Nothing much best or worst happening my end this week, everything is sort of plodding along as usual…
But, I did want to mention that the whole idea of “best and worst” is a fantastic way to get my daughter to tell me about her school day. Instead of the usual “what did you do to day?”, “umm nothing”.. I get really interesting answers when I ask “what was the best thing that happened today?” and “what was the worst?”. So thanks for the great idea MM.
Also, congratulations on reaching over 25k facebook likes! When I started reading this site it was more like a small town, these days it’s more like a big city.. and as a Sydney lover I can’t complain.
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Best: had an ultrasound today on our surprise baby. After 2 beautiful boys we are going to be having a little girl. Both boys excited and Dad has already declared our house a pink free zone!
Worst: ummmm,nope,can’t think of one!
Have a great weekend all. I’ll be little girl shopping
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Beautiful!! Congratulations. You need a bit of oestrogen around to balance it all out.
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Congratulations!!!
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Best: Have lost 6kgs so far. It’s such a nice feeling when the number is a bit less on the scales! It’s all been done with minimal effort so just gotta step it up a bit I think.
Best 2: Just feeling better about stuff in general. Life is not great yet but it seems to be on the up
Worst: I know this seems to be a common thought today but…waaahhhhh! I need warm weather! I feel like winter in Melbourne this year has been unusually cruel.
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Best – Cruisey week at work without my b*tch of a boss. She is seriously erratic and yells at everyone. Everyone seems more relaxed and happy to be at work. I think after this week it’s time to find a new job!
Worst – Knowing she is back next week
Nah… not really much of a worst this week. I’m just not looking forward to telling her I’m looking for a new job, hate to know what she would do.
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Really only experiencing worsts at the moment. Have been diagnosed with pcos. And my most recent smear has shown abnormal results, followed by a biopsy now to be followed by a letz procedure (getting rid of the bad cells!). Over it and can’t wait to stop whipping my knickers off for various doctors and nurses!
If I had a best it would be having kept up with regular smears and hence catching the above before it got too serious. Ladies keep up with regular smears!!
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OMM Where can i find those coverplast hydrocolloid blemish dots in Melbourne? Please help as i have my university graduation on Monday!
Otherwise have a lovely weekend!
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i want to know that too??
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My job as a primary teacher starting to really drain me & do my head in leaving me stressed, and depressed! Fantasizing about leaving the profession but where to from here?? Everyone tells us ‘you have so many skills you take to other jobs’ (which we certainly do!) but who’s going to give you a chance if you have no direct experience in that field. I also have a Commerce/Arts degree but not a specific accounting or I.T qualification so all a bit vague….. Would love dome advice from ex-teachers as to where you can go from here?? I need to know there is an exit available and then I might not feel so trapped in the job…..
Thanks
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I felt the same! I was so drained, so very exhausted from my long hours and the stress of teaching a prep/1 class. I was very pleased when I became pregnant, and now I do family day care which I love more than anything. Hang in there.
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Is it teaching that is draining you or something else, I found the paper work was just over the top, so I stopped.
I did everything on the computer so I could just change a date and print it out, yes people in positions “above ” me tried to insist on more and more paperwork I gave the copy.
If you don’t like working with children then remember as a teacher you have a lot of positive qualities. : can quick study, can keep to a time schedule, can organise yourself. I was once told by a person who hired at a big industry that if he was given the choice of an ex teacher or a person who had some skills he needed, he took the teacher since he could always teach them the skills needed, he valued their skills that made them a teacher.
Teaching is becoming more and more difficult because of the lack of support for discipline, the downgrading of teachers by the government and thus the general public (following media comments) and the fact that we seem to be in an era of children being the centre of their home world and wondering why they are not that important at school.
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Thanks guys. Unfortunately I am single so babies are not on the near horizon – that seems to be the way lots of teachers manage to escape! : (
I don’t mind the teaching, in fact I have a great grade this year – it’s the rest of the crap. The demands and responsibilities for teachers seem to be increasinf by the week – put on us by parents, society, out of touch management and the Govt. You are so right kateb, this generation of kids and their parents is really something else!The kids are So precious with very little resilience and the parents are always on the child’s side and don’t ever back the teacher – soooo different from our days.
We’re now even being told we need to make school more fun and engaging for this overstimulated generation – I think my time in this profession is limited…..
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Best 1 yr th old has slept in til at least 6 everyday
Seeing my 3 yr old more sociable at playgroups
Worst-some big trouble for my inlaws- I feel helpless
Omm-bought x box kinect so I can zumba to skinniness-dreamed last night that I had a kick ass body!!!
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BEST 1: finally upgraded to an iphone 4s. i never spend exurberant amounts of money on things, so i was very happy with new purchase! also bought a new dress for my engagement party next saturday night.
BEST 2: friday night footy, go manly!
WORST: this sydney weather atm.. crazy, freezing winds, fallen tree branches, and hearing sirens, not good =(
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This week I turned to Twitter and got my Olympic mojo back.
http://mum-abulous.com/2012/08/07/getting-my-olympic-mojo-back/
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Worst- my 6 year old is having a friend over for a sleep over- They have deafened me in one ear fro squealing. Seriously. I am seriously thinkking of packing the girl home if she squeals one more time( I have threatened but the noise hasn’t stopped)
My son is having his friend over also- they are 4 and 5 and so much easier. Girls – they do my head in.
Best- I have a fun weekend planned in Sydney next wekend- I need a break from the grind.
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Best: finishing the working week on Thursday and looking fwd to spending Friday off with my gorgeous 3 year old.
Worst: Thursday night finding out my licence expired 2 weeks ago so no going out with my girl on Friday, boring day at home.
Day improved: a friend popped by with her little girl so they could have a play and I no longer felt guilty that I couldn’t take her out anywhere. Plus I had a nice catchup and coffee too.
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Best 1: turned 44 thru the week and had the most beautiful card from my husband saying how much he loves me, etc, which was gorgeous because he knows & I know he’s crap at saying it for himself. So I treasure my birthday cards from him. Shame they only come once a year, eh?! I should pull them out and read them when I’m in doubt.
Best 2: family get-together last Sunday, a combined birthday gathering for my Dad’s partner and I. I just love being around my siblings and they love it too. My birthday cake was a tower of chocolate truffles. Needless to say they didn’t last long. So yum!
Best #3: my local Aldi sells acohol now!
Worst 1: both of my teenage sons are a worry. One is really depressed because everything is going wrong for him at once (like it can do), his car, job, girlfriend, etc. The other one got a car from his grandfather for his 17th birthday when he got his P’s and because he has no respect for anything he’s already siezed the engine and it’s only good for scrap now. After only 8 weeks. Such a waste. Now he’s got no car & with pitiful public transport in our area he’s got way less chance of getting a job. Through his own stupidity. FF 10 years and I hope they’ve both gotten over the hump.
OMM1: my wonderful strong sister is about to leave her husband after 20-odd years together, and we have no idea how he’ll take the news, but I doubt it’ll be good. She knows we’re all here for her, though.
OMM2: where can I get one of those tops that the woman in the Smooth FM ad is wearing? Anyone?? Peach coloured, sleeveless, pleated down the front. Gorgeous.
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Best: confirmation that my hubby is getting his deviated septum fixed next week and will finally be able to BREATHE!!!! One side is completely closed over, so this is going to be such a huge improvement for hi!
Best #2: surgeon is also taking the bottom off his epiglotis to reduce his snoring (added bonus for ME!)
Worst: Mr 2 has a chest infection and is pretty ratty…
OMM: Thinking that I might finally have to bite the bullet and quit work. Stress is making me tired and miserable, plus the kids are suffering from serious lack-of attention. The feeling that I will be letting my wonderful boss down is not one I’m looking forward to at all.
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Ah, the joys of being able to breathe! I’ve had surgery to fix my deviated septum but need to have it done again as the first op didn’t help much. Good luck to your husband!
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Best: I had a mole removed for testing & the test results came back fine. Playgroup of one this morning but my daughter had a ball. Dinner out tomorrow night.
Worst: Said daughter had been under the weather & is such a pain when she’s not well & it coincides with me being less than 100% too. I have a wound on my shoulder where they cut out the mole & it’s been really sore so I’m a bit tetchy. And she’s been so contrary – 20mins of not deciding what top she’ll wear to playgroup! We were 25mins late. The only reason it didn’t matter was that it’s such a cold windy day that the other kids didn’t show up! I love her dearly but some days her & I just lock heads.
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Update: my worst for the week now is that I need a new car. My 2003 Holden Cruze has spent about 20% of the last year in the shop for either repairs from car two accidents (got ploughed by a drunk driver at an intersection and rammed up the back at the lights by a 91 year old man who was driving for the first time since his stroke six months before), having the gear box replaced (for the second time, and at a cost to me of $4,000) or further repairs on the gear box. Now the drive shafts are gone. Mechanic said to me, ‘If you were my best friend I’d advise getting the drive shafts done and selling it for as much as you can. Or just drive it into a tree and write the whole thing off.’
This car has been nothing but trouble from this year and every time I tell a mechanic that I have one they laugh in commiseration.
Looks like I won’t be able to save any of the money I got from my tax return, I now have to spend it all, as well as the rest of my savings, on a car. So. Not. Happy.
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Best: spending a fabulous long weekend with my little family. It was so great to have quality time together and get away from “life” even if it was only for a short time.
Worst: Saw a friend this morning for the first time in a few weeks, and it was lovely having a chat until she dropped “I feel really sorry for you, staying at home on your own every day”. What the? Don’t pity me because I choose to be a full time SAHM. Don’t pity me because I choose not to put my son in daycare so I can have ME time. Just don’t pity me at all, for anything, full stop. I don’t judge your choices, don’t judge mine. I’ve spent the afternoon alternating between anger and sadness and self doubt.
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Try not to let it eat you up. The unsaid part is that your friend personally couldn’t do it so she’s projecting her imagined loneliness onto you. Being a SAHM is a personal choice & if it works for you & your family, that’s all that matters.
Having said that, Anon today, & being a SAHM too, I could gladly have throttled mine a number of times yesterday & today. I’ll be a better mum when the weekend comes this particular week! As long as you get the chance to refresh when you need to, there’s no right way to be a mum.
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Thanks hellopetal. This whole parenting gig keeps throwing up challenges, but I’ll keep on doing what I’m doing, working 4/5 days works for her, staying home works for me and my family.
And don’t get me wrong, like you, I love my kidlet but by golly I’m looking forward to daddy having some quality bonding time with him tomorrow, toddlers are challenging!!!
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Best #1: Loving the ages that my kids are at the moment! Yes, yes, I have enjoyed little moments along the way AT ALL AGES but I’m just loving their current ages a little bit more……
Best #2: My blog is going BANANAS! More and more and more and more hits every day and lots of comments, Facebook messages, phone calls, texts and emails from people EVERYWHERE around the world saying that they have cooked this or that from Phoodie and their Mum / son / daughter / best friend / aunt LOVED IT! It makes me SO happy when I hear this!
Worst: Some upsetting news regarding the health of a close family friend just now. Life is SO SHORT and SO PRECIOUS. I feel like i have just received ANOTHER reminder of how important it is to make each moment count, not to wait for another day, another week, another moment to tell someone you love them, laugh with a friend, spend more than you should on shoes, take a family holiday you can’t reallllly afford (but you kind of can)….. LIFE IS TOO SHORT. We MUST live our moments. Each one of them.
OMM/In other news: I always adore what Nicky wears – love her coat in the gallery above and also LOVE Jamila’s jeans from Glebe markets!
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Hi, what’s your blog? Would love to read
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Great!!!
http://www.phoodie.com.au
Let me know how go!
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Nicky has been rocking it in the fashion stakes this week. She has raised the bar in the office. We’ve all got some work to do, to catch up!
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Best: My 12 week old son has slept through the night for the past 4 nights. I feel like myself again after getting some uninterrupted sleep and proud of my little boy for learning the difference between night and day.
OMM: Why am I still waking up every hour or two to check if he’s ok…? And how long is it going to last?
Worst: I hate that I’m about 10kgs overweight at the moment. I’ve been trying to lose the baby weight and it’s just not budging. I’m on lite and easy (for convenience as well as weight loss), exercising most days and it’s still not going anywhere. I just want to fit back into my pre-pregnancy clothes.
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Mrs L it takes 9 months to put it on, give yourself at least 9 months to get it off. I know that seems like FOREVER right now … but even give it another couple of months before you stress about it
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Thanks Liz! I know I shouldn’t be so hard on myself. I just imagined that it’d start coming off sooner. I miss my wardrobe
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Hi MrsL,
HUGE congrats on your little guy sleeping through!!! That’s awesome! It’s great for him as bubbas need their sleep but its also marvellous for you as you get a chance to “catch up” on what you’ve badly missed!
I also used to wake up 24/7 to check my daughter once she started sleeping through…. I think it’s “normal” to do that… I mean, I’m pretty sure lots of people do it (and I’m sure some don’t too) but don’t beat yourself up over it. You’ll stop when YOU feel ready!
Re: the bubba weight. After my first it tool me 9 months exactly to lose it and with my 2nd it’s been 10 months and I’ve still got a long way to go. I TOTALLY feel your frustration on this one too…..I’ve got STACKS of amazing clothes bursting out of my wardrobe yet I dress like a dag 24/7 ’cause nothing fits……. oh well! I’ll get there….and so will you!
Have a good weekend!
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Worst: Snowing here in Canberra, but nothing ski-able
Best: Spending weekend with family in fabulously warm Sydney. Taking my two daughters to see the musical, South Pacific at the Opera House and then (husband’s choice) AFL game at Olympic Park on Saturday night. Hoping that the girls will sit still and behave themselves at these cultural events! Ha ha!
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Your weekend sounds divine!
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Unfortunatley it is freezing down her with a wind chill of 5 degrees and gale forec winds. But no snow at least!
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Worst: I posted on Wednesday that my sister had been hit by her husband. I was having a bit of a rant, I was a bit angry, a bit devastated, a bit frustrated … and I got a bit of love from MM, so thank you! Well, she’s home at our M&Ds and she’s shattered. Its so sad to see her like that (despite the fact her husband is a complete tool). And she’s already saying stuff like “if and its a bit if but if I give him another chance …” and I physically want to leap off the couch and say “there is no if ..!!!” She knows she shouldn’t be talking ‘if’, but she’s got the struggle of last week she loved him, less than a week later she’s meant to be flicking that switch off.
Best: She is being strong. And our babies are 4wks apart in age and they are so hilarious playing together.
OMM: Holding my tongue. I do pretty well at letting people know what I think. And this bloke was so much of a total and complete wanker I’m stuggling to contain my joy at the prospect of him being out of her life and in turn ours. It is completely the. worst. way. for it to happen and we had all hoped she might have worked it out without this happening.
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So pleased to hear that she has stayed away. Unfortunately there’s no ‘off’ switch with love & domestic violence is a complex situation as I’m sure you know first hand. I had commented the other day but it must have been barred because I called him an a#%hole without the symbols! It’s natural for her to vacillate after the co-dependent relationship she’s been in. Just try & be there for her & if she needs a bit of professional help recovering & building up her self-esteem etc after this experience, see if you or your Mum & Dad can help her facilitate that or babysit so she can attend without Bub.
Good on her & you!!
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I hope it all works out for your sister. She is lucky to have such a supportive family.
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Best..? Worst..? BIG changes happening in my workplace atm.. I am actually currently waiting for my turn to be spoken to by my manager! I was asked to work full time this morning but declined, as that would mean hardly anytime to spend with my 3yo during the week. So I have agreed to consider working 9-4.. not sure how I feel about this.
Are there any other single parents out there (or people who know single parents) who have kids before school age, in the workforce? What are the benefits of working longer hours/less hours… I am scared I will committ to something I am not going to find is the best thing for my little girl and I. On the other hand, the hours might make me a more motivated (richer) person, and lotsof people seem to have these hours as no issue… right?
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Best: my baby boy starting to smile again after 10 days of sickness.
Worst: I can’t stop eating biscuits. I never, ever bought or ate biscuits before I started maternity leave. Totally lacking in self control!
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I put on more weight after the pregnancy than during it. I ate myself a biggest loser ‘apron’ through boredom and bone crushing exhaustion. Try to find the strength to throw out the biscuits if you can. Develop a chewing gum addiction and remember that Summer is heading for us like a freight train.
Go on! Don’t try to look through your computer at me!! Yes, I’ve just opened a packet of chocolate montes and I have a glass of milk but that’s not proof I’m about to eat them all. I could be teaching them how to swim or doing a science experiment or anything!
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I never ate chocolate montes before my 15 week old son was born. Is it winter? Breast feeding? Being at home? Just opened a pack not an hour ago. Perhaps I should teach them to swim!
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think its been at home! I have eaten so much crap since being a SAHM. I have bee lucky not to put on too much wietgh but am scared what will happen when the breastfeeding stops……hang on is that the biscuits i hear calling my name….
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I think for me it’s being at home, being sleep deprived, burning up massive amounts of energy looking after baby, and having ‘treats’ to look forward to.
I am still slim and actually weigh less than I did before I was pregnant but I know all the sugar and trans fats aren’t doing me good. The odd biscuit/chocolate here or there is one thing but half a packet a day is another altogether!
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Its breastfeeding- our mothers group used be like a swarm of locusts on a chocolate cake!!
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Life is far too short to not eat a chocolate biscuit every now and again. Personally it’s wagon wheels that do me in.
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Best – Life is pretty good in general, nothing stands out ast the best this week but am just overall happy with things. I’d say getting into more of a routine with exercise is definitely a best although I seem to have hurt my shoulder muscle (back) not sure how so trying to stretch it out even though it’s painful!
Worst – Not sure if it’s really a worst but more missing my family…. my family minus my dad are all in Sydney right now for a mini holiday. I can’t remember the last time everyone (almost everyone) was together in the same place! I wish so much I could be there with them!
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Happy Friday!
Been a full on week for me! resigned at my job on monday! bittersweet really..bt now i can focus on our move to the east coast
luckily my husband’s company have paid for my flights to syd so il just book my flight home from there cannot wait to have 2 weeks in bello!! my happy place! and the company is also packing us up so it will be a bit less stressful this move! hubby leaves on sunday so im trying not to think of saying goodbye for 6 weeks before i see him again
bt we went to the resturant last night where we first met 3 years ago so was a pefect last date in Perth! ^_^
Drinks with my gfs tonight and high tea tomorrow!
Worst: lost my bankcard last night! so annoying now have to go to the bank and draw some money out old skool like! haha
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I have the ultimate best….for all you Olympic nuts, check out this video, ‘Sh*t Never Said During The Olympics’. I’ve watched it 3 times already and I practically cry with laughter every time I watch it.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oss0bTL14eE
Possibly NSFW, is a little bit sweary. Get the headphones out and have a chuckle. Happy Friday!
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That was great!
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Thanks KJ, hilarious!
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did i miss something…has Rick left mamamia? Where is he??
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Rick left MM a couple of months ago to go back to his calling – print media. He’s now at The Australian and doing awesome. http://www.theaustralian.com.au/news/features/life-on-the-line-for-liberty/story-e6frg6z6-1226444271899
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So good to hear news of Rick!!! Thanks Lucy.
Oh, and such a great article too. Kudos to Rick.
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Thank you for the info Lucy
glad Ric
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Best: Had a cracking weekend and have been on a bit of a high ever since.
Best #2: Getting much fitter and stronger. It’s so exciting! And I saw an acupuncturist and practitioner of herbal medicine who may be able to help with some niggling health issues I thought may always be a problem. Yay.
Best #3: Work going really really well. Feeling extremely (suddenly) valued. After going through a horrible patch a few months ago, this about-face is such a relief and gives me such confidence!
Worst: colds. I’m almost over mine but the bf has now got one. Boo.
OMM: Read this wonderful thought-provoking quote which gave me a shot of bravery for the week: “Are you more loyal to your fears than your dreams?”. It also made me think about what might be holding me back and gave me a push to let it go and just go for it.
Love and strength to all xx
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My beautiful Dad died,18 months after my Mum. She truly was the love of his life and it was hard to see him struggle without her.
It was a physical shock to wake up the morning after Dads funeral to think,this is life now… Both parents gone…at 50 yrs old you would think I could deal with it…but it is still hard.
Best: I was lucky to have them as Parents and I have a beautiful Brother and Sister to support me.
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Am so sorry for your loss. Big hugs x
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I am so sorry to hear that Gem, sending you big hugs X
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I am so sorry for your loss. I think realising both your parents are now gone is a truly defining moment, no matter your age. Bless x
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I’m sorry for your loss, Jem.
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Big hugs from me too. My mother died almost ten years ago, my father still here.
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Best: My big sister (one of them – I have 4). She loaned me money for my wedding and told me this week to consider it a wedding present and for moving expenses. I burst into tears. And my husband. I just love him so much.
Worst: Stress. It’s left me in tears, vomiting, not sleeping, quiet at work (so much so that my boss had to ask me if I am alright, I never thought he would notice anything wrong).
I am putting it down to the house business (we have put an offer on one and it has been accepted but it’s such a slow process); work (I’m a female in a man’s world and sometimes I just get sick of being told what to do by men!! They generally leave me alone because I am good at my job but sometimes…..ARGH!!); my birthday party on Saturday night (too much fuss and I don’t enjoy the focus on me – husband thought it would be a good idea).
OMM: My best friend is going to Armidale for Uni for 2 weeks. We email each other all day every day. Work will be boring but maybe I will get more done. Would probably get more done if Mamamia wasn’t such a distraction

And I forgot the last episode of Grey’s Anatomy was on last night!! Damn you Olympics
Going now, have a good weekend humans
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Your sister sounds as awesome and as lovely as mine and that’s just about the biggest compliment I pay
How’s the wedding planning going Kym W? Xx
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Hi!! My wedding was a few months ago, best day ever
. It was one of those “pay me back when you get on your feet” loans. But she rang during the week and said don’t worry about it, it’s a gift. She is an awesome sister that I don’t get to see as much as we would like as she lives on the South Coast and I am in the Hunter. Hence, the tears
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“Can you remember an Olympics before where a picture of a rower with (or without) a boner has gone viral?”
Yes, there was a whole team of them at the last Olympics…
Best: new client, yah! more money in the pile
Worst: toddler brought home another round of the flu from daycare. plus am getting tired of being out-bid at house auctions.
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Wow you have a money PILE!! Thats super cool.
Congratulations on the new client!
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Best – Travel plans and savings all coming together for ten weeks backpacking. I leave in six weeks – so exciting!
Worst – I broke my bloody GHD last night. Shithouse hair for me today. First world problem indeed.
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I think that’s the ultimate first world problem. I thought mine broke yesterday and I almost cried – and then realised I hadn’t turned the power on. Fail!
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Ha! Lucy, that’s hilarious.
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Best: Enjoying the sunshine..
Worst: Worrying about schools.
My child will be starting school next year. I’m moving to Sydney from out of town and will be living in the inner west – Ashfield/Summer Hill/Ashbury/Dulwich Hill/Haberfield area. I know Haberfield and Summer Hill have good reputations, but they have strict catchment areas. I would love to hear from anyone whose children go to schools in this area.
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Hi. We have two kids at Ashfield Public and a friend has her son at Haberfield. It depends on what you are looking for. Haberfield is a big school with a stronger academic reputation, but my friend’s kid (even last year in kindy) gets a lot of homework and my friend feels quite stressed about it.
Summer Hill is similiar in that it also has a stronger academic reputation (and the local OC), but again is a big school. I don’t know anyone whose kids go there, so I don’t have anything else to say!
Ashfield is a small school with quite a creative focus. There is not much pressure to achieve academically (which suits us, but that’s a personal thing for you to decide). What I really like about Ashfield is that it has the special needs unit for the district and this promotes a real sense of inclusion and helpfulness in the other kids. They get to see the extremes of the human condition and that everyone is different – plus it’s a very multi-cultural school, which also helps there. There is no bullying in the playground. We love it there, but it might not suit everyone’s style.
Whichever school you pick will probably be fine, the differences between them are all nice-to-haves – each school has different strengths and weaknesses, but all are in a great area, etc etc.
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Stressed about Kindy homework? Really? LOL
Primary School kids shouldn’t have any homework & if they do the kids should be doing it not the parents!
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Thanks for your response. It was really great to read. I’m surprised that Kindy kids get homework! It is so difficult trying to work out where to send your child. I’d like my child to have a balanced educational experience – academics, sports and creativity.. Is thinking of trying to get her into Yeo Park (K to 2) which will then allow me to get to know the local schools a bit better.
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Yeo Park is tiny and has a small catchment area. There are lots of good schools in the inner west…as there are everywhere! Good luck making a decision – I’m sure it will work out fine.
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what did you mean by “local OC”?
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best: when ur at skool dont wont to go to maths so u wag it, go outside the skool grounds and find yourself somewhere peacful and quiet u read.
worst: when the person who picks on u (turns out to be stalking u) shows up and bashes u and u cant tell anyone about it because u wagged!!!
to me life sucks!!!
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By leaving the school grounds you are putting yourself in harms way, teaganjai. And you are worth protecting. The person who bashed you needs to face the wrath of the school or the police. Please tell someone. What you did was wrong but nowhere near as wrong as the person who assaulted you. Straighten your back, admit you were wrong, face the consequences like a young and responsible adult and tell someone what happened. Go and read Sarah’s story of courage and her fight for justice. Grow a vagina and demand your rights … and for the love of God, start valuing your education and the brain and opportunities God has given you and stop wagging! If you have other problems then speak to the school counselor and demand the help you deserve.
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hey thax gotta love u guys!!! i wish i could my friends try to dbo me in chappy ( chaplain at skool) but of course i didnt go, hey i moght try to go to chappy for once!!! gotta love u guys!!!
p.s. i was only wagging to get away from my x
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It can get better – stand up and be brave, tell someone who can help you what happened. Reading is wonderful but maths is pretty important too (even if it might be boring).
Be strong, we are behind you xx
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Best: My partner and I are going hiking in the Blue Mountains this weekend. We go hiking a lot but this time our daughter is staying at her grandparents, so we’re going to tackle some of the harder and not toddler friendly trails. Afterwards we’re staying in a hotel, maybe get massages, just try to take it easy.
Worst: I have no worsts.
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Pack warm clothes!
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It’s just not my week. I feel like a troll whinging about my first world problems, but I know here on MM you dont get judged for it. So here I go:
Worst: Getting sick again, loosing my voice this morning, getting trapped in an elevator yesterday and no answer on the emergency phone, snapped off my rear view mirror when I turned it, work just falling apart. Just feeling low.
OMM: A wonderful photographer friend of mine took, what I have been told is amazing, photo of me at a friends wedding. SO many compliments on it. When I first showed my partner, he said it was an “odd” photo as I was looking at something else, not straight at the camera. I don’t have the best self esteem, and the only compliments I want to hear, are from him. Which I never get. He just isn’t that verbal guy.
It shouldn’t bother me, but it does.
Something to look forward to: sleeping in tomorrow and meeting my lovely friends new baby that I got my booster shots for! Thinking of making her and her husband a pasta bake, ready to put in the oven to help out. I know she would probably be sick of flowers and food seems more helpful?
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Food is always a win, in my book.
Sorry that your partner didn’t give you the response you’d hoped – when everyone else is raving about it, that would be a massive let-down.
Hugs to you xx
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Food is the best. I always make a care pack for friends who have just had a baby. I’ve been told several times that it was a lifesaver.
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Oh Maggie. I don’t think they are first world problems at all! I hope you get better and get your voice back and don’t get trapped in any more lifts. xxx
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Food is WAY better!
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My boyfriend is like that too, I rarely get compliments from him and when I do they are poorly worded and just surprise me more than flatter me. I guess some guys feel “lame” about compliments, or have trouble wording them right so they don’t feel self conscious, I don’t know.
I wish I could offer you advice, but I have nothing haha. Just be quietly happy with the concept of less words = thoughts in his head everyday of how beautiful you are and how much he loves you.. guys are sometimes soooo different when it comes to self expression!!
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Actions speak so much louder than words.
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