When you’re a kid, you’re a bit self conscious.
You want to fit in, so everything your parents do or say is MORTIFYING.
And if you’re a kid growing up today, then the explosion of social media has doused fuel on that already raging fire.
Because parents now have another channel through which to communicate/interact/embarrass their kids.
It’s a far more dangerous way of sharing, one that we don’t fully understand yet.
I’m nineteen now and every kid my age or younger is part of “the guinea pig generation.” Our parents have been presented with a platform to share quotes and stories and photos their children.
Listen to Luca and his mum Mia Freedman discuss sharenting with Jessie Stephens and Holly Wainwright on Mamamia Out Loud.
So, speaking from the perspective of my fourteen-year-old self, here are the six clear-cut social media rules that kids want their parents to follow.
1. Don’t tag me in anything. Ever.
“Mum has tagged you in a photo/status” is the Facebook notification no kid wants to receive.
Sure, a Facebook status is relatively harmless. But the issue with tagging is that all my friends can see whatever I’m tagged in. So if you tag me in an adorable family photo – I know this concept may be a struggle – everyone I’m friends with can see it. Even if they’re not friends with you. And that’s not cool because I’m very much ashamed of how daggy you are.
Top Comments
Are you shitting me? Expecting your parents to respect your privacy after you just told her you're ashamed of the way she looks. You fresh little upstarts might want to be reminded how you got to be all that in the first place. Do you seriously think you are the only one who is ashamed of their parents, most of your friends are too... it's the entitled era. The small percentage of your friends who aren't ashamed of their parents were lucky enough to be taught respect and appreciation, but then they probably wouldn't want to be your friend anyway. Not only did I not have SM at your age I was hardly even allowed out of the house for all the chores I had. You should thank your lucky starts for what you have
My god, this author sounds like she detests her mother. I am glad my lot are happy to communicate and share on social media with me. No such entitlement from them. This goes WAY beyond being respectful.
I believe Luca is the child of Mamamia CEO, Mia Freedman.
He obviously worked hard to write this article full of honestly before showing it to his mum to then be posted on an international platform. If anything I think that displays the type of relationship they have. Trusting, respectful and encouraging of individual thought. Well done Luca!!