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Chasing emotionally unavailable men: Scarlett Johansson has been there too.

Scarlett Johansson, 31, has a suave French husband and a cute French baby, a pretty great career and good hair now but a while back, she was in the depths of despair.

And it was all because of a stupid boy.

“Long, long ago, I had someone in my life who was forever unavailable … but, like, so attractively unavailable,” Johansson told Cosmopolitan. “You have to get to your breaking point.

Some fool made himself unavailable to ScarJo.

"Rock bottom is the moment when you're like, 'I've lost myself. Why am I standing outside this bar at 1:30 in the morning texting while my friends are inside? Or taking a taxi to see him at some ungodly hour? This isn't me."

I have definitely been there.

I wonder what Scarlett would say to this guy now? Post continues after video...

"That is the moment you've gotta cut it off. Otherwise, it will keep coming back, suck your blood."

I definitely didn't cut it off, and she's right. Why couldn't ScarJo have warned me back then?

Johansson was married to Ryan Reynolds from 2008-10, and she and her current husband, art collector (this is a career?) Romain Dauriac married in 2014. Their little girl, Rose Dorothy, is 19 months old.