Comments on: JAMILA: This is why you’re not married.

By: seriousmarksays

seriousmarksays — Tue, 05 Mar 2013 15:25:52 +0000

i have to admit that i hate being alone and single again, especially after a divorce. i was a very happily married man at the time, and now trying to connect with a good woman again is very difficult for me now. she was the one that cheated on me, and i was a very caring and loving husband that was very much committed to her.

By: Joss

Joss — Wed, 27 Feb 2013 13:16:53 +0000

Depreciate?! We sound like a fricken asset at tax time.
Single – be picky. Not unrealistically picky (doesn’t sound like you are) but picky enough that you actually “like” the person you’re going out with. No one needs to settle for second best. At the same time though, no one is perfect….but I’m sure you know the difference!!
Everyone deserves someone who is just as “beautiful” (more inside that out) than they are. It is up to you to decide that you are worthy (you are!).
I know it might not seem comfortable, or maybe it is, but have you tried any online dating sites? I know there are a lot of guys out there who just want sex through those sites, but I think you’d work out those guys pretty quickly – just keep it email friendly and don’t meet them at least for the first month. If they’re not interested to stick around that long….then chances are they wouldn’t stick around that long anyway. Their loss!
It frustrates me that women put themselves down, saying that when we get older there is no point, just get what you can get otherwise you’ll be by yourself. F**k that. Be yourself, don’t go and get plastic surgery or botox, or a boob job, or labiaplasty….WTF?!
We ladies are on our knees trying to please the men in this world. WHY??
I seriously don’t know why, so if anyone can let me in on this secret please do…..
Single, its’ your life you do what you want to do. I’m hoping that includes loving yourself as you are, standing up for you and what you believe in….and not taking S**T from guys who want to take advantage of you. Of all the people in this massive world I PROMISE you there is someone out there for you. They might not be in the same city, but they’re out there. Thank gosh for the internet…..no go find them!!!! xxxxx

By: Joss

Joss — Wed, 27 Feb 2013 12:39:36 +0000

and that….is perfect

By: Kara

Kara — Tue, 26 Feb 2013 04:25:38 +0000

You may be the exception to that rule, more often than not sleeping with someone straight away may not land you with a ring on it.

By: caitlinmaree

caitlinmaree — Thu, 14 Feb 2013 22:14:27 +0000

The reason I’m not married= I don’t want to be

By: Lisa

Lisa — Mon, 04 Feb 2013 03:51:50 +0000

Unfortunately, I think we al have one of these ‘friends’

By: Guest

Guest — Sun, 03 Feb 2013 08:10:36 +0000

You must send her ‘F-me boots’, by Amy Winehouse!

By: A bloke that thought he'd be married now

A bloke that thought he'd be married now — Sat, 02 Feb 2013 08:42:51 +0000

Well I’m a 38 year old. I’ve used RSVP, Oasis Active and E-harmony. But woman would see my picture and well that was it, gameover, block enabled.

E-harmony from it own database would match me to women that I myself had “chosen” who were also on RSVP and Oasis Active. I’d be hit with the double whammy. I’d hand pick those on RSVP and Oasis only to be rejected. Then jump on E-harmony to supposedly be matched to a truly compatitible woman; but only to be watch someone I had already “chosen”. Ha.

Anyhows, ‘Que será será, whatever will be will be’

By: Chris

Chris — Thu, 31 Jan 2013 18:39:51 +0000

If either spouse can break down a marriage at any time, with no grounds at all, without penalty or the obligation to compensate the other spouse, how can marriage be said to exist anyway?
Since 1975, weddings have been nothing more than parties.

By: Joey

Joey — Tue, 29 Jan 2013 10:56:49 +0000

I’m 29, in a great relationship for 5 years, and have no desire to get married. Ever.

As it is wedding season I’m getting plenty of very polite queries re. when I’m going to get married.

How about never.

Luckily a lot of it comes with a good dose of humour (ie my boyfriend and Dad bantering about how many goats and cows will suffice for my dowry – love it!)

For me, having a great relationship is what is important. I’d also rather spend my money on a holiday than on a wedding.