By LUCY ORMONDE
When Zara Phillips was in Australia earlier this week, she told journalists the story of how she met her husband. It was 2003 and she was at Sydney’s Manly Wharf Bar with her cousin (Prince Harry, no biggie). Mike Tindall was sitting at the bar and, well, it “went from there”.
It’s the kind of story you wouldn’t mind sharing at the first meet-and-greet with the family. Not quite as romantic as ‘love at first sight at the Eiffel Tower in Paris,’ but definitely less awkward than telling your family that you met your soon-to-be husband when he bid for you in an online dating auction.
Because that’s something that could actually happen.
So. There’s this website in the US called What’s Your Price (dot com). It’s a dating site with a difference. And that difference is that the men pay women to go on dates with them.
The site describes itself as the “only online dating website where money can buy you love- or at least a first date.” Jezebel describes it as the World’s Worst Dating Site.
Users register in one of two categories – those who want to ‘Date Generous People’ (i.e. women wanting to date men with money) and those who want to ‘Date Beautiful People’ (i.e. men who have wallets full of cash). The Generous People bid to take the Beautiful People on a first date (we assume they pay for the date also) and the Beautiful People pocket the cash.
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The site’s creator Brandon Wade said that What’s Your Price was not a new concept – and that celebrities and firefighters have been participating in charity auctions for years. He compares it to eBay for dating:
“It’s just another way of approaching dating, in addition to the tools that are already available out there,” he told the Daily News.
The users are divided into two categories – “the generous” who are willing to shell out some dough and “the attractive” for those who want to get paid for the first date.
The second date, he promised, is up to “the generous” to get with his own skills and charm.
“We really try to frame the entire process very clearly – you’re paying for the opportunity of a first date – it’s a chance to allow somebody to like you more than just from an online profile or picture,” he said.
But dating experts have likened the site to prostitution.
“What we’re saying now is women are like cars,” Patrick Wanis, a human behavior and relationship expert said. “We can go shopping for cars, we can shopping for girls .”
He also pointed out that many of the girls on the site were scantily clad and advertised that they were looking for sugardaddies or short-term relationships. Users can choose a variety of arrangements including short-term relationships, discreet affairs, sugardaddies or even the wholesome long-term relationship.
Dr. Seth Meyers, a relationship expert who wrote Dr. Seth’s Love Prescription”, said that the minute the dollar bills changed hand, the relationship was doomed for failure.
Even the most self-conscious men he said, should be able to find partners through another means.
“The best thing someone can do in looking for a date is basically invest in social activities that reflect their own interest,” he said.
It’s the creator’s belief that the exchange of money will encourage people to date differently. “By offering a little incentive, attractive members are more inclined to take a risk on someone who isn’t their usual type, and if the date goes sour, at least they won’t be going home empty handed.”
The question is, can the Generous People get a refund and a reply paid envelope if their date’s a dud?
What do you think of the idea of biding for a date? Would you try it? Would you date online? How did you meet your partner?








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I joined the website out of curiosity. There are very few active participants. While browsing my profile on the site today I noticed 2 things: Among the list of participants who had allegedly viewed me, one had a “last online” date of 3 weeks BEFORE i joined!; and I received a request to bid on a date from someone who was not in the list of people that have viewed my profile.
That should tell you something about the honesty of the site.
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Most profiles on this site are fake, the people don’t even exist. The site charges men a minimum of $10 per profile for the ability to communicate with the women. The higher the offer, the more it costs. So most women who accept your offer won’t even respond. Who other than the site benefits? Most of the remaining profiles fall into three categories: 1) fake pictures or pictures that are at least 10 years old or 50 pounds lighter! 2) are only interested in the money so every date is a first date, having gone out with so many, lose track and forget that they winked at you or went on a date a few weeks ago. 3) Actually try to scam you. The less than 5% that are real look at the concept as an interesting ice breaker and don’t expect you to pay the amount agreed upon. In their view if they take payment, then it lowers the value of the date.
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Would people be more accepting if the generous person was female? Or if both beautiful and generous people were the same sex?
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If dirty old men were not looking, there wouldn’t be a site.
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I think this site sounds absolutely ridiculous!
Since when did women start becoming objects that we just sell on an online store?
This website sounds totally sexist and just plain idiotic! Is this what our world has seriously come to?
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Truly I think it’s really sad. Silly women who are only after someone with cash and sad men who have to pay someone just for the honor of having dinner wth them. It’s doomed to end badly.
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To be equal why not have a site where women can ‘buy’ a man? Fair is fair I’d sign up for it this service was available.I see nothing wrong with it if you can’t get a man the regular way pay for one.
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Well, based upon dating posts on here previously, most women still expect men to pick up the tab on a date. Why not add to that by also making the bloke pay for the privilege of just geting to ask you out.
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I went “dutch” on all my online dates.
Personally, if I were a bloke, I wouldn’t date anyone who wouldn’t pay their share.
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This is the very reason why women are now seen as products of society rather than living people with thoughts and feelings. It’s putting a value on a person and it’s hugely degrading. It also has the negative effect of teaching women that men should open up their wallets and fish out wads of cash in order to have a date. This site not only exploits women it also targets vulnerable men by convincing them to part with their hard earned cash.
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I think that it’s got nothing to do with prostitution. There are websites out there specifically for prostitution. I think that ‘what’s your price’ is a great idea. Our lives are so fast pasted these days that it’s hard to make time to get out and find someone for a date. We also use the Internet for basically everything, especially online shopping. So why not shop for a date? The women are choosing to do this and I’m sure that the men are happy to pay for a chance at finding love. I’ve been with my partner for 5 years. We met on an Internet dating site. I wasn’t expecting to find love. I just signed up because one of my girlfriends had and she said I should as a bit of fun. I chatted to a few people and I found that most of the men were either married or just looking for a one night stand. Luckily I found one who wasn’t either of those. At least with ‘what’s your price’ you know what to expect from the start.
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How is it ‘a great idea’ to build a relationship on such an unequal footing?
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Um, you’re not buying a woman, you’re paying for her time. Big difference.
And it’s not prostitution – THAT is a far more honest concept.
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I could’nt afford my wife she is priceless.
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Well if it’s prostitution, every so often I read on this site that it is extremely empowering for the woman.
What is the problem ? It’s so simple to just not enter any of your details on the dating site’s webpage, surely.
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This site would be a joke except it isn’t, and it’s at the least designed to bring out the very worst in people.
Vain, cosmetically enhanced women with IQ’s lower than their Bra sizes will be lured by the money.
“Males with money” and no respect for women will be able to buy that first “date”.
Where are the security checks ?…….The HEALTH checks ?……..The psychological profiles ?
Dangerous and totally lacking in integrity………and it’s prostitution now matter how “Hollywood” you want to dress it up.
I’m not anti-prostitution and at least those participants have some protection and are clued-up to the risks………this is just plain reckless.
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