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An example of Trash the Dress

A tragic story has come out of Canada in the last few days, with the news that a woman taking “trash the dress” photos near a picturesque waterfall, drowned after being pulled under the water.

Newlywed Maria Pantazopolous, 30, had recently returned from her honeymooon and was deliberately posing in the water for the ‘arty’ shots when things went tragically wrong.

Pantazopolous was married on June 9 this year and was having photos taken with her feet in the water of the waterfall when her dress got wet and became so heavy that she was unable to remain standing.

The photographer and a bystander both tried to rescue Ms Pantazopoulos but were unable to because of the huge weight of the dress.

This from the SMH:

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Maria Pantazopoulos

Sergeant McInnis told the Canadian Broadcasting Corporation Ms Pantazopoulos may have been doing a “trash the dress” photo, which the broadcaster said was a photography trend where well-dressed people are pictured in scenes that “seem slightly out of place”.

Family friend Leeza Pousoulidis told the Montreal Gazette Ms Pantazopoulos was “really, really happy” after her wedding and honeymoon in the Caribbean.

“She’s a really fun girl, and she just didn’t want her wedding dress sitting in a box in the closet,” Ms Pousoulidis said. “She said ‘I want to have fun with my wedding dress. I want to have great pictures and memories of me in my wedding dress.’”

So what is trash the dress?

Trashing the dress is an emerging style of wedding photography. The idea is that you’ve bought this rather expensive gown that you’re not going to wear again any time soon – so you may as well do something with it.

So in the months after the wedding, you put your dress back on, head to the great outdoors – either with or without the groom – and you, well, trash it. It’s an artistic style of deconstruction in that the photographer creates an artwork for the bride to keep that involves her ruining hew wedding dress at a beach, or in the bush or even at a garbage dump.

It’s not known exactly how the trend started but it’s growing in popularity and is now offered as part of the package offered by many wedding photographers.

The result is often very beautiful….something about the contrast of the raw or unkempt environment and the elegance the most expensive dress a woman will ever own. Take a look:

Trash The Dress

There isn’t necessarily some greater lesson or bigger picture view to take here. This story of a young woman, who was just embarking on the next exciting chapter of her life dying so unexpectedly, is quite simply a tragedy.

Maria Pantazopoulos’ death was a freak accident – certainly, the majority of trash the dress shoots aren’t dangerous. But some of the photographs in this gallery do make you fear for how far amateurs will go for the right ‘shot’.


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102 Comments so far

  1. Tracey Groombridge

    A very sad story and tragic accident.
    The photos are pretty amazing but I’m more of an up-cycling type of girl why not donate it to a young women who can’t afford a dress to marry in, pay it forward.

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  2. ameliastclair

    I’m so torn over the trash the dress trend! On the one hand I think the photos would be spectacular, but then the thrift shopper inside me sees the act as such a waste of a beautiful dress! This is when it’s completely trashed mind you – some can be dry cleaned and then good as new. Each to their own!

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    • Ninjalor

      I don’t exatly disagree that this is a self indulgent act, I more or less agree with Oddsocks. Sure its indulgent. But how do you define the limits and parameters for self-indulgence?

      Think, for example, of all the packaging, card board, napkins, etc… That you destroy or throw away on a daily basis. Is that not also wasteful? Yet you do it anyway. What makes destroying a wedding dress any more or less indulgent? Because it costs a lot?

      Really of all the things we waste on a daily basis, why criticize the wasting of the dress? People trash cars, tvs, steroes…all kinds of things. Would it be any less wasteful if the dress was already damaged?

      So basically is it wasteful because of the act of destorying it, or that someone else COULD be using it??

      If its because you think its “too wasteful” you need to take a closer examination of all the trash you throw out on a weekly basis.

      If your logic is that “someone else can use the dress”, let me ask you this question. “Do you password protect your wifi access? Cuz someone else COULD be using that you know. Its pretty wasteful to have multiple wifi connections serving one small areal proximately.”

      Face it, there are all kinds of things you throw out, waste or don’t give to other people. What makes the trash the dress trend any more of a wasteful abominaion?

      So go ahead and acknowledge that this trend is physically wasteful, but stop being the pot calling the kettle black and more importantly, show a little respect for someone who died untimely, no matter how preventable this may have been, it doesn’t remove tragedy from the equation.

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    • jedielf

      Ah, it just breaks my heart to see someone’s perfectly decent handiwork get trashed.

      Also: Poor, poor woman and her widowed husband and family. And I can’t imagine what it must have been for the people who tried to save her but couldn’t.

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  3. MissMin

    My mum cut her dress up to make my christening gown as a baby- which is beautiful, and much smaller to keep! Chances are it’ll be used again for grandchildren too – a much better use for an expensive and beautiful dress full of memories I’d have thought.

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    • Ninjalor

      Sorry amell, that wasn’t meant as a direct reply to your comment nor was it meant to be directed at anyone specifically :) (also, holy typos! Sorry guys! Lol)

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  4. Anon

    Another Darwin Award candidate.

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  5. fightofyourlife

    When I first heard about these “trash the dress” shoots, I thought they were for divorcing women who wanted to do something to symbolically mark the end of their marriages. When I heard the real reason behind them, I was just baffled and I remain so.

    It’s extremely sad that this woman died but this:

    “I want to have great pictures and memories of me in my wedding dress.”

    What? Don’t people generally have pictures taken at their weddings? Isn’t the wedding a good memory?

    I guess I just don’t get it.

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    • anothermichelle

      I think the trashing the dress idea is a rebellion against all the stress and pressure surrounding weddings and being a bride. I assume it’s supposed to be a ‘last hurrah’; a final act in saying goodbye to the whole wedding saga and hello to marriage and the next stages of life together. I think it’s meant to be a symbolic act (but yes, as others have said, it could be viewed as a wasteful and self-indulgent act!) I kinda of get it though – if you’ve invested so much time and energy into planning a wedding and being the ‘perfect ‘bride, then it would be a little bit fun to let all that go with a trashing of the dress. Not my cup of tea though, but then again, neither are weddings, generally.

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      • another fab single woman

        To me, it stands for the opposite of all that. The last hurrah is the hen’s night. The hello to marriage and the next stages of life together is the wedding and honeymoon. Given engagement parties, housewarmings, kitchen teas the hens, wedding and honeymoon, first child and so on… it’s a bit fatiguing. It also makes some brides seem even more self-obsessed. All the time, money, gifts, planning and photography. Why drag it out even more?

        Apart from the whole wastefulness matter, which bothers me (and I don’t mean shots like the one another reader linked to of a couple lying in the shallows of the beach where they were wet – that’s just creative wedding photography, not really trashing the dress like that one ripping it to shreds, or where it gets paint splattered) – let us remember that marriage is the event, the wedding is just one very special day. I think a separate set of wedding dress related shots kind of takes away from all that.

        Aside from art, journalism and modelling, photography should exist to capture special and family moments in an ordinary life. Events being staged to get another photo-shoot? It’s all a bit much. Trash the dress is a very staged bunch of images. It doesn’t capture the events of the couple meeting, wooing, marrying, honeymooning or living their lives.

        In terms of some kind of symbolism, as I said earlier it seems kind of ominous and destructive.

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  6. Amelia

    Let’s get the facts straight though. Trash The dress started with a photographer called John Michael Cooper in 2007. His image portrayed a bride engulfed in flames as “burning the dress” (she wasn’t actually in the gown). While this trend was big for awhile it has certainly petered out.

    Secondly, unless paint is thrown at the dress or it is ripped to shreds it is rare that the gown can’t be cleaned with a simple dry clean and either stored or resold or given to charity.

    I am terribly sad that this poor woman los her life through this. wish photographers and brides were more aware of things that could go wrong.

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    • Leelee

      Oh dear …sad but something only a wealthy first world person could suffer from…I think it seems horribly indulgent …why wreck something beautiful that could be recycled in the name of conservation…is this vanity?

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  7. Lozzie

    I hired my wedding dress – best decision I ever made – horrified my mother though.

    Apart from being a tragedy, this article gave me the shivers. I got married on board on large cruise vessel on Sydney Harbour. After a few glasses of wine, I convinced new hubby & photographer to climb up on the roof of the vessel that we had chartered. It was the level above the open deck. It was the roof above the dining area – it had no railings at all as we weren’t supposed to be up there.
    Had the vessel hit a swell, we would simply have fallen off, into the harbour, me in my full wedding dress.
    The staff were absolutely horrified when we told them at the end of the cruise, where we had taken the photos.

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  8. natalie

    On a slightly different note, my wedding dress has been packed away for the past 12 years. I was thinking I might get it cut down and altered for my daughter to wear for her First Holy Communion.

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    • Dee of Adelaide

      I had mine made into a christening gown for my children

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    • spirulinas

      My grandmother turned my mum’s wedding dress into a first communion gown for me!

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  9. Anonymous

    it’s time to TRASH THE TREND!

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  10. Huh?

    How could this woman have “drowned after being pulled from the water”? Surely she would have drowned in the water??

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    • Ally

      No you can drown after being pulled out of the water. Its actually quite common, and happens because you still have residual water in your lungs, that you dont realise. That’s why, if you get pulled from the surf, the lifeguards will always make sure that you go to hospital for a check up, even if you are now conscious.

      I don’t know if thats what happened in this instance, but it is certainly possible.

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    • Sienna

      You read it wrong. It says she “drowned after being pulled under the water”.

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    • MJ

      You can actually drown hours or even a day after being submerged in water. It’s called ‘dry drowning’. It happens to kids a lot, they get pulled out of a pool but seemingly recover quickly, then deteriorate quickly in the middle of the night.
      Not sure if that’s what happened here but.

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  11. Col

    Honestly, speaking of trashy, what’s with all the sensationalist article titles? And someone must think better of it, because they seem to be edited quite often once published. I agree with other commenters that an article discussing the “Trash the Dress” trend in the context of this young woman’s tragic death is inappropriate, so I will put aside this very sad story and focus purely on “Trash the Dress”.

    People are entitled to spend or squander their money any way they like, but I do find this trend rather wasteful and self-indulgent. I hope the women in these photos are grateful for having the luxury to be so devil-may-care with something so valuable. Let’s see some “Donate the Dress to Charity” photoshoots!

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    • Col

      Maybe sell it & donate the money here http://www.fittedforwork.org/

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    • jamilarizvi

      Hi Col,

      We change headlines through the day occasionally, if we think of something better! It’s one of the joys of being online is that we can keep trying new things.

      Jamila

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      • Col

        “Newlywed dies in a ‘Trash the Dress’ shoot” ironically sounds even more like a Daily Mail article than your original title “Trashing the Dress Turns into Tragedy” (but it’s a close call) so I’m wondering about the rationale behind the change.

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  12. Barb Fisher

    I haven’t been able to get this story out of mind since I heard about it. I guess because it’s so tragic. A young woman with so much ahead of her, embarking on one of the most exciting journeys of her life……..gone. Because of something so seemingly innocent and in good fun.

    Tragic.

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  13. oddsocks

    I agree with others below that this story is insensitive to the tragic death of this young women.
    I disagree with the idea that a ‘trash the dress’ shoot is wasteful/indulgent/ symptom of a throwaway society.
    I was married when I was 20. I wore a gorgeous dress which I bought off the rack. The wedding was beautiful but not over the top, we were young and poor and totally in love. I could not afford the $100 or so (the cost of my husbands suit!) expense to have the dress properly cleaned afterwards so I put it in the bath and spot cleaned it with sard soap.
    I am now 30 and we are about to celebrate our 10th wedding anniversary. We are still young, in love and cash poor! We will not be having expensive gifts/holidays/diamonds etc to celebrate our wedding anniversary. Instead we are planning a trash the dress session. I will wear my dress, my husband an old suit and our 3 little boys shirts/ties. I intend to play in the backyard in the paddle pool and do some fingerpainting with the kids while my photgrapher friend takes some photos. Aside from having a fun day I am hoping to come out of it with some fun and unusual family portraits, photos that we will always treasure, a celebration of 10 fabulous and amazing years of marriage with 3 little boys we feel so lucky and blessed to have.
    To all the judgemental commenters… give me a break. I could honestly think of a hundred more indulgent ways to celebrate our anniversary which many would not bat an eyelid too.
    Oh and I plan to get the sard soap back on my dress at the end of the day, was thinking of dyeing the fabric and making a bag or something with it.

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    • Emma

      What a lovely idea!

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    • rene

      That sounds wonderful Odd Socks and can I just say that I am IMPRESSED that after all of this time and three kids you can still FIT INTO your wedding dress! Yay for you! :)

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  14. Serena

    Instead of “trash the dress”, why not “recycle the dress” instead? Donate it to charity so some other brides who can’t afford a beautiful dress for her wedding can make good use of it.

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  15. Michelle

    I am not and never have been a bride and I have no desire to be so can’t imagine a wedding for myself let alone wanting to trash a perfectly good dress…

    But, I think the trashing the dress idea is a rebellion against all the stress and pressure surrounding weddings and being a bride. I assume it’s supposed to be a ‘last hurrah’; a final act in saying goodbye to the whole wedding saga and hello to marriage and the next stages of life together. I think it’s meant to be a symbolic act (but yes, as others have said, a massively wasteful and self-indulgent act!) I kinda of get it though – if you’ve invested so much time and energy into planning a wedding and being the ‘perfect ‘bride, then it would be a little bit fun to let all that go with a trashing of the dress. Not my cup of tea though, but then again, neither are weddings, generally.

    I do agree with others that there is a disconnect between the reporting of a tragic accident and the gallery of photos. I think the problem lies with the fact it feels a little like an advertisement for the trend, which doesn’t sit well with the fact Maria Pantazopoulos (or Pantazopolous, it’s spelt two ways in the article) died tragically. I know it’s not an advertisement for the trend, it just feels that way when there’s a gallery of images. Just an observation.

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    • Anonymous

      That’s a lovely idea to donate but even if you trash it (eg get it dirty), doesn’t mean it cant be cleaned or recycled in some way to keep yourself for sentimental reasons… Just saying

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  16. Jude

    My friend has plans to do this very soon underwater in the ocean. I will send her this story to alert her of the dangers.

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  17. Mia

    Hey Everyone,
    We’ve been reading the comments all day and I wanted to respond. When we heard about this story yesterday, we thought it was something we wanted to cover. We’ve been aware of Trash The Dress phenomenon for a little while but have not posted on it before.
    This story was relevant to our readers we felt. It showed how a ‘trend’ can turn to a tragedy. I’d never even considered the implications of submerging a heavy wedding dress in water.
    And as you can see in the gallery – water seems to be an extremely common theme in Trash The Dress photos.
    To just say a woman had died while wearing her wedding dress two months after her wedding while standing in water…..we felt that left many questions unanswered.
    News reports that have quoted the tragedy occurring during a ‘trash the dress’ shoot and yet not explained what that means have been, in my opinion, confusing.
    So we wanted to give the news story some context. In the same way that a death caused by ‘planking’ would be accompanied by some explanation of what that meant.
    Hopefully, this tragedy will serve as a warning. But regardless of that, it’s impossible not to feel for the husband and family of Maria Pantazopolous.
    We certainly never intended to be disrespectful to her memory.

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  18. Anonymous

    Some are quite artistic but the one who had her dress on fire and the two laying across a train track are ridiculous! That is all.

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    • Alicia

      The bride on fire is one of the earliest “TTD” photos around. She was actually a stunt woman so the photo is definitely a reflection of who she is.

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  19. amyspeak

    Hey Mamamia, I think this “trash the dress” trend is quite an interesting topic – I’d never heard about it before but I know a couple of photographers who have done wedding shoots with a few photos that could fit and artistically it can be quite innovative.

    But I do wonder whether this story could have been separated – one to talk about the death of Maria Pantazopolous and one to discuss the actual trend. It just feels like the article is disconnected, as several other people have mentioned below. Even having a subheading before the articles switches to talking more generally about “trash the dress” would help, I think.

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    • A Photographer

      TTD has been around for about 5 years and is akin to sticking a baby in a flower pot with some sunflowers on it’s head. Interesting the first time you see it, boring and repetitive from then on. I hope this is the end of TTD.

      I posted the story on the weekend warning photographers, there is an undercurrent in the industry of getting more and more risky and jaw dropping images, and it is dangerous. Enough.

      Such a tragedy

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      • another fab single women

        What’s next? Fifty Shades of Grey themed morning-after-the-wedding shots?

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        • Jess

          These exist…well at least morning after shoots

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          • another fab single woman

            Yes, I know but Fifty Shades of Grey themed is my imagined spin on the concept of ‘what’s next’ in the too much information / look-at-me / oversharing / shock tactic generation in their milestones of life.

            Have we not moved on from the days where the bride was required to hang sheets over the veranda the day after the wedding to prove she was a pure bride, or in medieval times where consummation was witnessed by guests?

            Morning after shots = Tack-o-Rama. I hear that some are shot in the shower, others in the marital bed. What do you write as a caption when sharing these with nearest and dearest, or worse your work colleagues and acquaintances? “Look, we f*cked?” ?!

            Privacy is the most undervalued commodity of the 2010s. Is nothing sacred?

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  20. Polly

    Some of these photos are just fabulous. Just beautiful.

    Some of them ….. ? Well you cannot always account for bad taste.

    I can just hear the conversation at the dinner table. “So we are going to awkwardly drap your head across the train tracks. Your parents will love it and it will look so good over the fireplace.”

    The death was sad but our lives would grind to a halt if we stopped every time something bad happened.

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  21. Anonymous

    What a bizarre article. Someone died. So what are you asking Mamamia? Has anybody else ‘trashed the dress’ or talking about the trend or what? It’s just a weird way to introduce the article, by talking about a tragic accident.

    Kind of like a story about someone with a nut allergy dying from eating peanut butter and using that for the basis of an article about what kind of nuts people like to eat … poor taste.

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    • Col

      Yes! Like running a story about someone who died from a peanut induced anaphylactic shock, followed by a peanut butter cookie recipe & slideshow of other nutty treats. Where’s the taste level??

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  22. Alice

    Thanks for deleting my post Mamamia. Little too close to home perhaps?
    Once again. Sorry to see the fruits of all this hard work for Mia going down in both value and dignity. Perhaps she needs to be more across the appropriate editing and proofing of all articles and put herself in the shoes of the people she is writing about.

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    • Natalia

      Hey Alice, your comment accidentally went into spam. I just approved it. Cheers

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  23. Ljs

    Absolutely tragic accident
    Absolutely obscene trend. How many people save for months/years to buy a dress only to trash it. Often the parents. How insulting to say “thanks for the dress, now I’m going to destroy it”.
    Donate it to charity, have it altered, keep it for someone to inherit, just stop contributing to
    the amount of one off wastefulness.

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    • Alicia

      Not all dresses cost thousands and not all dresses are destroyed. I’ve photographed a bride running through mud in a $1 ebay dress (that didn’t look like it only cost $1 as it fit her perfectly) and personally, I trashed my own dress. It cost around 1k and I rolled around in the ocean wearing it. I then took it to the hotel and spent half an hour washing the sand out and hung it up to dry.

      I’ve since used it on a model when training other photographers and it’s currently boxed up and still perfect.

      “Trash the dress” doesn’t have to mean destroy it. Most often all it means is that it gets a little dirty or wet and it’s easily cleaned afterwards.

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  24. KO

    My sister in law is getting married shortly and is planning on “trashing the dress” the day after… Can’t see the sense in it myself!!

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    • Cam

      Tell her to avoid deep water.

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  25. Sally

    I hope you have written permission to use the image, you could be causing the person business loss by plastering her images with clear watermarks of her name, these brides are not in danger in these pics

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    • Mel

      Agreed, you’ve used an image taken by a friend of mine without her permission, and then you have her name watermarked across the picture! She certainly is not an amateur as you suggest, this is her business, and the bride in the photo is not in any danger whatsoever. Shouldn’t you be asking the photographers permission before you use the image?, And especially so when you’re article suggests the photos in the gallery are taken by “amateurs” and that the photographers are putting their clients in danger for a good photo? I hope you don’t destroy people’s businesses because of this

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  26. Alice

    It’s disappointing that I am beginning to see articles on Mamamia that remind me of NW or Who in their incorrect unsubstantiated print, and sensationalism at the expense of tragedy. I understand that you write heading’s and blurbs to stories to entice readers into them, however your integrity is on a downhill slope and I am saddened that you are following a well worn path and not keeping your individualism. Mia, remember why you started this, and who you are. Imagine if this was your Sister or friend and (low) journo’s around the World were using ‘fake’ facts to sell this story. Sad.

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    • Anne

      And yet you still took the time to open, read and comment. That is bizarre more than anything. obviously something about it interested you.

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      • Col

        Because people only ever read and comment on things they agree with (like you replying to Alice).

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  27. Jo

    You might want to look at the images you are using. Are you using them with written consent of the photographer? None of these ladies are in ANY danger.

    It is a tragic loss but don’t paint a bad attitude on an amazing experience.

    I trashed my dress but did so where I know there was no danger.

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    • Chrissy g

      Can iask why? Why did you trash your dress, I’m 30 but I feel like I clearly have an old fashioned attitude, it just feels like… Wasteful and well… Self indulgent… Another beautiful photo shoot…

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  28. Sally B

    This is something I just shake my head over. My mother paid for my wedding dress, it was her gift for me. No way would I throw that back in her face by doing something so ‘wanky’ (scuse the language).

    This is photographers getting more $$. For ugly photos.

    Truly a ‘throw away’ society. I just feel empty about this whole topic.

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  29. Melinda Gibbs

    That story is so horribly tragic and devastating for a beautiful young bride to die at the the prime of her life. I don’t understand the “trash the dress” trend, it does seem so over indulgent and excessive. Why don’t brides sell their dress instead and recoup some costs from the wedding? And save the planet along the way by stopping unnecessary production.
    Please visit http://www.threecolourswhite.com.au if you’re interested in selling your dress.

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    • Mel

      This is not an advertisinng site (for you). Leave a comment then leave.

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      • spirulinas

        Why not? People post links to their blogs all the time, and someone might want a site like this.

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      • pennypacker

        how rude Mel! Who are you to tell anyone what to do?

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      • gemmadee

        Actually Mel, I think the link is perfectly placed. In an article focussed the trend of destroying wedding dresses after the big day, some people would like to see a bit of sense and responsibility.

        A wedding dress is expensive in many ways – they cost a lot of time to make, the materials in it are usually resource hungry and they cost a lot to buy. It is a waste to completely ruin it when so much work and resource has gone into it.

        Thanks for the link, Melinda, I’m sure a few women would like to see their precious dresses given new life on a new bride, rather than languishing in a cupboard (or worse, a rubbish bin).

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  30. Rachel

    I find the whole concept utterly stupid. Also #26 and #27 are quite insensitive. #27 is simply horrible.

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    • Mhor

      Sorry what is wrong with #27?

      Also #26 is my John Michael Cooper picture called Joan of Arc. It was two images photoshopped together – one of the bride wearing the dress, a second with a blow up dummy on fire wearing the dress. Did you really think a bride would do that to themselves for a photo?

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  31. bettina

    Just trash it at the wedding I say! After dancing the night away I had 10cm of mid on the bottom of mine. Much more authentic…! :)

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  32. Sa ra h

    I find trash the dress utterly ridiculous, the photos aren’t romantic, just dirty in most cases and I have to agree with 26 being in very poor taste! Only in western society of over indulgence would destroying something beautiful and expensive become popular! And what’s the symbolism of laying on train and tram tracks?

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    • jess88

      I wondered if the tram and train track photos were meant to be a metaphor for how the marriage was going.
      Somehow, I dont think that was the message the bride wanted to send though. . . .

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  33. Luzo

    Ummm sorry I can’t be more articulate but: seriously?!

    Reporting on the tragic death of a bride then supplementing it with a gallery of wedding photos to show us the trend, especially photo 26? I don’t know whether you needed filler for this article hence the insensitive tie-in of photos like #26 but maybe a separate article on the ‘trash the dress’ trend was more appropriate rather than using someone’s death as a segue to a photo gallery…

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    • N

      My 26 is the underwater photo.
      I think it is beautiful.

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      • another fab single woman

        No, it reminds most of us of the poor bride who just drowned in a similar photo shoot. Haunting, and very hazardous.

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        • Luzo

          Exactly. Poor editorial discretion.Imagine a friend or family member of the poor girl seeing that photo in the context of this article…

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        • Simone

          Agreed. Insensitive and disgusting.

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  34. Bec

    Some of those photos are fun, but a lot of them have a tragic ‘Miss Havisham/Rebecca De Winter’ feel to them. Especially the ones in the water. Creepy.

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  35. Bec

    Some of these photos are fun, but a lot of them have a very tragic ‘Miss Havisham/Rebecca De Winter’ feel to them. Especially the ones in the water. Creepy.

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  36. rivkah

    A tragic story, but I find the ‘trash the dress’ concept ridiculous, not to mention the obscenity of spending massive amounts of money on one garment and then deliberately wrecking it.

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  37. May!

    So tragic – her poor husband. Such a high to such a low.

    On a note about the idea of ‘trash the dress’, I just don’t really get the appeal. Especially pic 25 (where she’s on the tram tracks), it looks like an ad for depression.

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  38. Al

    Some of these pictures are truly awful – the train tracks, the flames, the paint. Are we becoming so totally self-obsessed and wasteful that we couldn’t think of something better to do with an expensive dress that won’t be worn again? What would people who can’t afford such extravagance think of this? How about taking a photo of presenting the beautiful dress as a gift to a bride who is really struggling or has had some other tragedy (illness etc) befall them? To me, the trash the dress concept represents everything that is superficial and wrong with the world, and everything a marriage should NOT represent. I am sad for this Maria, not just because she died but because she thought that was a good idea.

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    • another fab single woman

      This is a great idea Al: “How about taking a photo of presenting the beautiful dress as a gift to a bride who is really struggling or has had some other tragedy (illness etc) befall them?” Yes, how about that? I hope it catches on.

      Like you, these images make me sad for all the waste.

      Plus, it feels ominous somehow of the marriage itself; self destructive or something. Maybe if a bride got divorced down the track and had a trash-the-dress party, I’d get it. But that’d still be wasteful.

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      • Marijana

        I completely agree with you. What a ridiculous thing to do after your wedding! First you save up and buy a dress for ‘the most beautiful day in your life’, then you trash the dress. To me it’s like you don’t want your marriage to remain happy.

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        • Debbie

          My Mum wore a dress that was borrowed off an acquaintance.
          They said they were thrilled that the dress got to be worn again. My Mum says she has never once regretted not having to find a place for a wedding dress in her cupboard.

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  39. Amy E

    The tone of this article left a bad taste in my mouth. Is it a tragic report of a young woman’s death or an advertisement for shocking waste?

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  40. Anonymous

    I hate to be a spoilsport – but I hate the concept of dresses worth SO much money being trashed like this.

    If you don’t want to keep your dress intact, why don’t you either sell it to someone who may not be able to afford a brand new wedding dress, or even donate it to a charity? I hate seeing mindless wastes of $$$s like this…

    See this: http://offbeatbride.com/2007/10/why-im-not-into-trash-the-dress

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    • MissV

      I’m with you on that! But hey, each to their own really.

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    • Anonymous

      Most people, especially people who’ve bought an extremely expensive dress, just keep it in a box for decades. That’s much more common and much more of a waste. At least people who trash it are doing something with it and having a fun experience.

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      • Anonymous

        How about selling the dress and donating the money to charity?

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        • Anonymous

          Wedding dresses can be hard to sell, particularly when they were custom designs. One of my friends has been trying to sell her custom Vera Wang for years and she’s had no luck.

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      • marijana

        what’s the difference between ‘waisting it by keeping in a box’ or ‘trashing it’ and then throwing away?

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        • Sara h

          I used my in a patch work quilt for our bed. Christening dress, cushions, throws, table clothes……the list of wys to re use is endless!

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    • Alicia

      Not all dresses are destroyed. This is me at my own wedding (we ‘trashed’ the dress on the day) – the dress was hosed off in the hotel, has been worn by a model since then and it in perfect condition in a box in my cupboard.

      http://www.flickr.com/photos/savvystudios/3693507152/in/set-72157620887684663/

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  41. picardie.girl

    The first two are stunning shots.

    The news about the drowning is so terribly sad though – her poor husband.

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  42. Guest

    Pic 27 is very disurbing

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  43. fiz

    Some are actually quite nice. #27 is literally ON FIRE. That’s weird.

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  44. Anonymous

    Is a story about a woman drowning really the best way to introduce a silly piece about ‘trash the dress’ photo-shoots?

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    • Audrey

      Couldn’t agree more – I thought this could have been much more respectfully discussed.

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    • fiz

      Yes, I do agree with this. The concluding paragraphs are quite jarring when juxtaposed with the headline and main thrust of the article. Even more so when you look at photograph #26.

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      • Gabby

        AGREE.

        MM: can you please fix?

        Thank you.

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      • Candy

        My thoughts exactly.

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  45. beee

    I love the trash the dress idea. When are you ever going to wear the dress again? Might as well have fun and take some cool snaps.

    My heart goes out to Ms Pantazopoulos’ family and husband. Such a tragic freak accident!

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    • Kathy W

      Tragic – yes. Freak – no.
      Weight of the dress when wet, raging current = someone with commonsense should have predicted the outcome.

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