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red light dark room1 Street sex workers: What its really like

Gemma Rose Turnbull's book, Red Light Dark Room

She’s young, blonde and distracted in that self-centred, teen way. She’s got a daggy boyfriend and her clothes hang off her tiny hips. She lives on raspberry liquorice and red cordial. She’s got no boundaries and is prone to the odd inappropriate and thoughtless remark. Just your typical teenager really.

If I had to guess I’d put her at sixteen, though she could be younger. She says she is eighteen but it’s hard to believe her because her habit has already stunted her growth and because the standard line when the youngest ones walk in is, ‘I’ve just turned eighteen.’ It’s the underage mantra.

She has a boyfriend and works for the both of them, walking the street. They both have a heroin habit. They share it, and their homelessness. But I don’t see the romance in this addictive relationship, which is wearing them into the ground.

‘I’m off to work,’ she chirps, her tender age unmistakable in the skewed movements of her uncontrolled and angular limbs. He lingers after she has been taken by a car, stoned and playing at spotter*, mostly failing to take down the number plates like he’s supposed to. He’s dopey and pretty much monosyllabic. Another typical teen: baseball cap, acres of boxer short above his waistband and a slouchy ‘tude.

She is very sweet of course, naive and faintly abrasive, but unarguably sweet. Yesterday she wrote on the whiteboard:

I (heart) you guys. thank-u for ur (heart) and support without this place I wouldnt get through (heart) Angel xxx

And then added the moniker of teen love:

Angel (heart) S. xxxxxx

I’m surprised she didn’t add a 4 EVA.

On Monday, Angel was raped. Raped by a client who beat her with his belt in the hotel room that he had booked for his lunchtime jerk-off. He pushed her on the bed and raped her from behind without a condom while she cried, all the while berating her for her tears.

The hardest part is that Angel is not the exception to the rule. The youngest ones are the easiest targets for violence at the hands of mugs. C. is another young girl who walked in today and, in a tiny voice, asked if she could drop some fits off in our yellow bins. She had two big hickies on her neck and I reckon she was no older than fifteen. She talked so quietly, eyes darting this way and that, about her habit and her baby and how guilty she felt about not being able to breastfeed. All the while I could not help but notice the scars, track marks and bruises on her skinny arms.

She told me she was on the street for the first time after ten days in hospital. She had been beaten by a mug and dumped unconscious in Richmond. I made enquiries into what sort of support she was getting, trying to conceal my dismay. She was reluctant to discuss it and left with a soft smile, back to business. All I could think about was the horrible future I could see stretched before her. She’s just a baby, but one that has a baby and a heroin habit that she works on the street to support. She should be in school having fun.

A friend and I had a discussion this week about the rhetoric that sex work is empowering. I’m not a sex worker so this is just my gut feeling, not individual experience. But this kind of sex work – street sex work – this doesn’t seem empowering. This seems like slavery. Slavery to a habit sure, but more than that it is slavery to the idea that men can let their sexual desires run rampant, can fuck without a measure of self control, and that this is sanctioned by the fact that the act is transactional. It’s almost always vulnerable women who ultimately pay for the most insidious of men’s fantasies.

Every day our society reinforces the notion that men and women are inherently different. From the time our children are young, we squeeze them into gender-assigned roles that tell them how they can and can’t behave. Muddled up in all that should and shouldn’t is the myth that somehow, biologically, sex is a male desire for which society needs to cater to. It’s so ingrained that it filters down to the street level to become an excuse that sees a middle-aged man rape a young woman. I don’t buy it. I don’t buy that we have to sit back and indulgently support the uncontrolled sexual desires of men.

But we do. The onus is almost always on sex workers to stop their ‘socially destructive behaviour’. Very few countries target the men who solicit them instead. Very few cultures question a man’s right to be oversexed. Many tolerate appalling standards of sexual behaviour. You only have to look at the pack-raping antics of football teams to prove that point.

Society’s steady diet of porn, advertising, movies and music videos stream an insidious message into our consciousness. The message is that men are allowed to need sex and women are vessels for that need. The effect of that message is the dangerous and degrading sex act enacted on a teenager in a St Kilda hotel room at lunch time. And all the while we walk obliviously by.

*A spotter is someone, usually a boyfriend or friend, who takes down the registration number of the cars the sex workers get into. They also take note of how long the job should last for, and other identifying details. They usually receive a percentage of the sex workers’ earnings for this. Often street sex workers will spot for each other; a camaraderie and mutual protection which has been seen to play an important part in sex workers’ health and safety.

Gemma-Rose Turnbull is an award winning photographer, who has just released her first book Red Light Dark Room; Sex, lives & stereotypes which was the result of a collaborative project with a group of street sex workers in St Kilda. The book has received vast acclaim and attention, and is being sold to raise money for St Kilda Gatehouse, a non profit organization who provide a safe haven off the street for marginalised women.

Street sex work, which involves the trading of sexual services for money or drugs at the street level, is a particularly hazardous and stressful occupation. Those engaged in street sex work tend to be the most marginalised, oppressed, and stigmatised. These women face many daily challenges, including physical and sexual assaults, ill treatment by the public, housing instability, incarcerations and continued financial difficulties. These women often suffer from physical and mental health issues related to their work and lack of appropriate medical or psychological care.

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  1. Guest

    A good reminder of the reality of prostitution. As an aside, I always thought the most irresponsible articles in Cosmo and its various stablemates were the ones glamourising prostitution. I know one girl who claimed she got into it because the mags made it sound like fun, easy work (she had other issues, like I believe a majority of prostitutes, she was a sexual abuse victim) and wonder how many others fell into the same category.

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    • Another guest

      You’re so right. I’ve considered it myself, in times where my mental health has been unstable. I’ve read several articles over the years that give the impression that sex work can be a safe and lucrative career path. Even now, when my mental health starts failing, I fall back into thinking I should give it a try. It’s good to get a dose of reality from people other than those in my immediate circle.

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      • A Sex Worker

        I am a sex worker, and can I say I would fully recommend it to anyone who wants to give it a go.

        its a job. different to other jobs (I think better than other jobs).

        Its not the tragedy that this photo book depicts. I have been a street based sex worker and my clients were lovely people.

        Rape is more likely to happen in the familial home than on the street via sex work.

        That should make you all realise how niche and tragedy-porn-esque this photo project is.

        There is nothing wrong with sex work. Stigmatising it (like this article has done) is what is wrong. Not the work itself.

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        • Anonymous

          Really, you are proud to sell your soul? Proud to have revolting creatures touch you… I find that truly sad…

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    • Susan

      Agree…. And I think “Secret Diary of a Call Girl” is really irresponsible.

      Belle is so glamourous and adorable…

      Heck, who wouldn’t want to be her?

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      • A Sex Worker

        Secret Diary of a Call Girl is by a real sex worker. This photo-book is not. This photo-book is by a person who got a short and extremely biased look into sex work and is regurgitating it as photographic tragedy porn.

        its still porn!

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        • Susan

          I get what you’re saying and appreciate that. It’s a good point and a view that needs to be expressed in this forum as the majority of comments are “those poor girls”…

          I’m totally divided over the issue. A bit confused. But I’m okay with sitting on the fence here…

          I do know of sex-workers who are empowered and have choices. Then I do know of sex workers who come from traumatized backgrounds and although are still making a choice, that choice is a bit harmful to them.

          I mentioned above my friend who went into the industry… She would tell me about some pretty unsafe situations… It can’t be good for the psyche to be constantly entering into danger….But then again I can see how that danger isn’t the sex worker’s fault, of course.

          By the very nature of show biz, SDOAC, surely has to polish things up, though… I would think….

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          • A sex worker

            The most stressful thing about my day is reading awful whorephobic stuff like most of the comments on this blog.

            Actually my clients treat me with respect!

            I like my job!

            And when I say I like it, it makes people very uncomfortable, and they don’t want to hear it.

            That in itself should tell you something about how messed up the world is about sex work! Its not the work thats difficult, its the discrimination that comes with it!

            Thanks for replying

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            • Susan

              It sounds exhausting, dealing with that much ignorance… I think you’ve made some of the most valid and enlightening comments on this most.

              Thanks for keeping on responding to people, even though it must feel like banging your head against a wall.

              And I’ll admit to being guilty of ignorance too (I’m sure that’s clear to you! I think I thought that “Secret Diary…” was completely fabricated.)

              It’s so good to hear about the respect-part. I’m sure it is possible to have regulated system where the true offenders (people that commit sexual violence) are charged fairly. It has nothing to do with sex work- It’s about power and abuse.

              Ever thought about doing an opinion piece for Mammamia? I hope someone in the industry does. I have learn way more from your commentary than I have from the actual article… So at least that’s come out of it?

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  2. macca

    Brilliant article. Thank you so much for sharing and raising our awareness about an industry most of us are ignorant of.

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  3. Lana

    Wow. I have been fortunate enough to see Gemma’s book. Heartbreaking and powerful. Sad very very sad how people treat other people

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  4. JulC

    That sort of society do we live in that we cannot find other ways to help support women in need. What sort of life have these poor women had to end up living like this. And the men that abuse these women make me sick! Note to these men – women are not here to satisfy your sexual needs you disgusting pigs!

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  5. OssieLeo

    so sad. my heart just breaks for these women/ girls. Is there somewhere in Brisbane like the Gatehouse? I would love to help.

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    • Kyznet

      The Hope Foundation in Brisbane do amazing work.

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  6. Caroline Overington

    Those marks on her arms … has she been cutting herself? I can’t help but think that’s what it is.

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    • Liz

      or burn marks?

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    • Kylie L

      I thought exactly the same. Sex work can’t be empowering if it leads to that…

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      • YouthWorker

        Without seeing them up close, they look like standard marks of self harm.

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        • A sex worker

          I agree, and they have nothing to do with sex work. Unless you are trying to sell photos of tragedy porn, like this Gemma person seems to be doing.

          As a sex worker I am insulted and angry at this story, and that someone is making money out of photos of my colleagues. Gemma is as much of a client as anyone who usually pays me, except I would bet Gemma didn’t pay for those photos to be taken.

          Now THATS exploitation.

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          • Miche

            Actually, a lot of the girls took the photos themselves using cameras given to them by Gemma. I respect your perception on this issue ‘Sex worker’ but it’s not the only one. Gemma has done a great job at shining a bright illuminating light on this problem that mostly goes noticed. These particular sex workers need help, obviously. The staff at the Gatehouse offer just that, thankfully. But its not enough! We need a change in the way people *just accept that there are streetworkers and we need a change in they way people just accept that (some) men *just use their services.

            A sad fact is that these particular men can get away with abuse, degradation, and perverted acts that they would never get away with in a regulated brothel. My heart goes out to these women. And Gemma. And the Gatehouse. They do a great job. xx

            Click here if you care enough to help these sex workers http://www.stkildagatehouse.org.au/

            I bought the photo journal ages ago. It’s great. And the money goes to helping the women who go there to get help.

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          • OK WE GET IT

            please stop rabiting on about how great you think your industry is and how empowered and FINE you are… maybe in 10, 20 years you will not feel the same way…

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            • Miche

              Exactly. Sex work can be empowering. And women and men should be free to choose to work at whatever they want. But when self harm enters the equation, or worse, abuse at the hands (or whatever) of a sicko then its wrong that we, as a modern society, allow this to continue.

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          • Sigh

            When I was young, a lot of my friends were prostitutes, street workers,because we were all druggies and they picked that over break and enters etc. I didn’t know anyone that liked the job. Later on, I knew a few women that worked as escorts or in brothels. I have to say none of them like it either. The longer they stayed in the profession, the less they liked it. You are probably in the minority.

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            • A sex worker

              I get it, everyone want to hear when we hate our job, no one wants to hear when we like it.

              And you wonder why sex work is so difficult to navigate.

              Well thats a clear message – be a victim and we will like you, if not, clear off and shut up.

              There is a word for that approach —> its called DISCRIMINATION.

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    • M.

      As someone with a ridiculous amount of experience with self-harm, I’d say it looks like she’s cut herself. The good news is they’re not recent.

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  7. karynmelbourne

    A great read while being extremely sad at the same time. This book is now on my must-buy list

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