• Beautifulpeople.com mentor an ugly person

    Dating site for beautiful people launches “Adopt An Ugly Person” program.

            By KATE LEAVER There’s only one problem with running a dating site exclusively for beautiful people: You’re not making money from the ugly ones. This charming gentleman called Greg Hodge has exactly that problem, with his borderline-psychotic website BeautifulPeople.com. Hodge launched the site so that excessively attractive people can find one [read more]

  • sex

    Government steps in to save husbands from sex-crazed wives. Phew.

    By BERN MORELY Seems as though us pesky women are at again! Apparently, not only are we ALWAYS up for it in the bedroom, we are starting to pressure our blokes to reciprocate. Good news is though gals, the Abbott Government isn’t only encouraging couples to have a healthy sex life, it’s also going to [read more]

  • Remeber this - key advice.

    Sometimes love is simple. It’s either “Hell yes!” or a straight “No”.

            BY MARK MANSON Think about this for a moment: Why would you ever choose to be with someone who is not excited to be with you?  There’s a grey area in dating many people get hung up on — a grey area where feelings are ambiguous or one person has stronger [read more]

  • Courtney Beck

    Every night for a month, my fiancee and I made time for love.

              By COURTNEY BECK My name is Courtney Beck, and I have the intention to create more nookie in my relationship. My fiancé Jules is along for the ride (pardon the pun, or not). This is our story. Carving out time in your day for nookie is tough, and sometimes you [read more]

  • What to do when you're in a relationship with the wrong person

    “I had a baby with the wrong man.”

              This post was originally published on Role Reboot  and has been republished here with full permission. By MAVIS KING A case for balancing instinct and logic when choosing a partner who will father your children. I had a baby with the wrong man. It’s as simple as that, and what a [read more]

  • men who take women's surnames

    Only 2% of new husbands do this thing for their wives after their wedding day.

        Tamara and Simon Pace are a regular couple from regional Victoria — who made an announcement at their wedding that shocked their guests. It wasn’t a pregnancy. It wasn’t a move overseas. It was the fact that Simon had decided to take on Tamara’s surname. “They (Tamara’s family) were blown away actually, a couple [read more]

  • mybestfriendswedding

    ‘Marriage pacts’ that actually worked out.

              “If we’re both single at 35…. “ For all those who have made a marriage pact over a few too many glasses of wine/champagne/tequila, we have some news for you. Turns out, marriage pacts aren’t just silly statements. Turns out, they become reality. At least for these lovely couples. When a Reddit [read more]

  • jacqui porter and husband

    To the guy I fell in love with all those years ago: There’s something I want you to know.

        By JACQUI PORTER Hey you, yes, you. The guy I met all those years ago, the guy I fell in love with. The guy I married under the blistering hot summer sun. The guy my kids call “Daddy”. I just wanted you to know something. I notice. Between the sleepless nights and the toddler [read more]

  • serial cheater 3

    What makes someone cheat repeatedly on their partner? This woman explains.

          By LEA CLARK This post originally appeared on Role/Reboot, and is republished here with full permission.  I am a serial cheater. I know many people would look at me and feel disgust or sadness if they knew my secrets, and perhaps they should. I feel these things toward myself often. My marriage [read more]

  • Is the spooning really worth the lost sleep?

    ‘My husband and I love each other. We just can’t share a bed.’

        Hollywood director Baz Luhrmann, 52,  and his Oscar winning designer wife, Catherine Martin, 49, don’t share a bed. The designer/director duo have been married for 17 years, have two children and keep separate bedrooms. In an interview with the Daily Mail this week, Lurhmann said both he and Martin “need space.” “We are surrounded [read more]

  • She's endangered.

    The female libido fairy. Rare. Endangered. Fragile.

        By MIA FREEDMAN “Every time a man lies in bed pretending not to hear a crying child, a female libido fairy dies.” This nugget of wisdom was coined by a guy called Jack Ellis, father-of-two in his entry for a competition to find Australia’s Mentally Sexiest Dad. “And you can’t bring her back [read more]

  • Tully Zygier

    Honesty is a tricky point when it comes to online dating and having a disability.

          By TULLY ZYGIER I’ve never really dated. In high school boys didn’t look at me that way and I was too scared to make a move. My first and only real boyfriend was an older man that I had met online. In the ’90s online chatting was through a program called Internet [read more]

  • perfect relationship

    She’s a “freaking catch” and she’s looking for love. Can you help?

          By COURTNEY BECK A few years ago, I had a crazy idea to start a blog and advertise myself as a date in the hope that the Internet would help me find the girl of my dreams. In September 2011, I found her, and in February this year we got engaged. Single [read more]

  • mia freedman

    For every woman who is relieved she never married that guy she once lived with.

          By MIA FREEDMAN Before I met my husband, I had three defacto relationships. From my late teens to my early twenties, there where three occasions where a boyfriend and I moved  in together and this lasted anywhere from a few weeks to more than a year. While the experiences and the blokes [read more]

  • family after birth

    Are couples really having sex in the delivery room? Yes. Yes they are.

    By AVI VINCE Most doctors recommend waiting six weeks before engaging in sex with your partner after giving birth. And depending on how the birth went, and how you are healing, and how you are coping with a little one, sometimes it is a little less than six weeks and sometimes a little (or a lot) more. But [read more]

  • Cosmo lesbian sex tips

    Never thought we’d see Cosmo do this.

            The Rocket. The Bermuda Triangle. The Sexy Spider. All of these ridiculous Cosmo sex positions. But there’s a significant (awesome) difference. Usually, Cosmopolitan magazine gives sex tips that focus on a guy’s pleasure and a woman’s empowerment, depending on which issue you pick up. They’re full-blown heterosexual at all times, and for many years, haven’t tried to [read more]

  • losing virginity 25 years

    “You lost your virginity better than I did. I guarantee it.”

          It’s been 25 years since I lost my virginity and I have some good news for myself. Apparently, it’s not my fault that it was a pretty crap experience. Nor was it the fault of my hapless but well-meaning partner. The reason that losing my virginity was so… unsatisfying… is because it [read more]

  • cheating

    She found out her boyfriend of 4 years was actually married with kids.

          There was one morning radio segment that had everyone in the Mamamia office talking this morning. It was the story of a woman whose partner of four years had suddenly vanished without a trace, and it came via Chrissie and Jane’s Private Investigator on Mix 101.1. For those of you who haven’t heard of Chrissie [read more]

  • "It was wrong from the beginning. We knew it. Can’t ignore it any longer. It isn’t love."

    Husband writes down all the excuses his wife uses to get out of sex. Epic.

      Update: Another epic spreadsheet of sex-refusal excuses is going viral — and this time, it was created by a woman. The site Guyism has released a spreadsheet made by a wife who recorded all the times her husband refused sex, for reasons including “he was watching a Band of Brothers marathon” or “He was hungover”. According to Guyism, the marriage eventually ended [read more]

  • never go to bed angry 2

    The relationship advice you can officially stop following.

      “Never go to bed angry.” It’s the relationship advice cliche you’ve no doubt heard a hundred times from your grandma, your aunt, and your girlfriends. Or, at the very least, from glossy women’s magazines who, since well before sealed sections even existed, have insisted that resolving arguments before bedtime is the ‘apple a day’ needed to keep break-ups away. [read more]

  • Allison Baden-clay children

    “I was nearly Allison Baden-Clay.”

              This week we all learned the truth about Allison Baden-Clay. She was intelligent – fluent in several languages.  An accomplished  career woman.  A devoted mother. And for years – according to her friends – she was the victim of ongoing emotional abuse in her relationship with her husband Gerard. A relationship that [read more]

  • Andrew Heslop.

    Andrew Heslop: “I came out at 21. Some wait until they’re 60.”

                When I started to write this piece one week ago it was off the back of the Network Ten announcement that Ian Thorpe had sat down to do an exclusive interview with Sir Michael Parkinson. Parky had come out of retirement and was quoted as saying who wouldn’t jump [read more]

  • consequences of coming out

    This is what it feels like to live in the closet.

            Today, Olympic swimmer Ian Thorpe is experiencing a joyous acceptance of his sexuality by the Australian community. What he most feared might come to pass as a result of his coming out – derision, cruelty and the demise of his hero status – seems almost laughable in the face of the [read more]

  • The fault in our stars

    This couple’s heart-breaking love story mirrors The Fault In Our Stars.

    I was diagnosed with cancer for the second time when I was 22. The first time was 11 years prior, when the medical establishment discovered a fist-sized tumour bulging out the back of my left knee. Still on the soprano-side of puberty, I wasn’t really equipped to grapple with the enormity of my situation and the [read more]

  • break up

    The 8 reasons marriages fail.

          When you look at the statistics, keeping a marriage alive can seem like a pretty hard task. Reports vary depending on several factors, such as the age at which you marry – however, the figures are generally discouraging – sitting anywhere between 30% and 60% of all marriages ending in divorce. Just [read more]

  • rachel corbett

    “All of a sudden, I’m in love with a bloke I met on an app.”

              I found love on Tinder. Dear God. I never thought I’d hear those words, let alone say them. I’ve always been your quintessential ‘old school’ dater with a fear of ‘going online’ that rivals my 76 year old father’s fear of ATMs … you just can’t trust them.  The unfortunate [read more]

  • the worst sex of my life

    “For a beautiful half-second I thought perhaps he wouldn’t notice….”

            Warning: This post is not safe to read at work (or with kids around) and your boss is probably looking at you rather disapprovingly right NOW….    I just had the best and worst sex of my life. It started with an app. And ended with white sheets stained by a [read more]

  • Jessanne Collins

    “Mum was right, writing about porn can lead to being in porn.”

          On a June day in 2008, I found myself in a novelty sombrero. I was dangling my feet in the deep end of a swimming pool at a ranch outside of Santa Fe, sporting a red Forever 21 sundress, $1,000 worth of borrowed turquoise jewelry, and wide sunglasses, which I hoped would [read more]

  • walk of shame 1

    It’s 2014. So why are we still asking this question about women and sex?

          I just had the most astounding correspondence with a so called ”journalist” from a well-known Australian women’s magazine, wanting to ask me about owning the ”walk of shame”. When I asked her exactly what she wanted me to comment on, she was unable to articulate what she wanted. She said ”it’s a [read more]

  • meg-ryan orgasm

    Too many of us don’t know enough about this important part of our bodies. So let’s learn.

              Let me introduce you to someone you should have met a long time ago: This is your clitoris. It’s about 100mm long. Its tip has whopping 8,000 nerve endings; twice as many as the penis. Around 95% of this structure sits inside your body. And most of us have no [read more]