Comments on: Is kissing someone REALLY cheating?

By: C

Fri, 14 Sep 2012 12:20:47 +0000

I think it is, I personally don’t just kiss anyone. Kissing is the most intimate thing to do, while sex can be totally meaningless. There’s something far more intimate in a kiss but I’m sure some people feel different about it. If you begin to feel an emotional connection to another person then it’s instantly cheating, those feelings lead up to a kiss. Always.

By: Kate

Kate — Fri, 14 Sep 2012 09:42:41 +0000

The only people you need to ask this question is 1) yourself, 2) your partner if in a relationship.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Fri, 14 Sep 2012 04:58:54 +0000

“every time my partner tells someone I cheated”

Why on earth would your partner want to share this piece of information with anyone?
It is your business and his. If he wants to go on with you and repair things, he can’t go around sharing this info.
If he left you, he could say what he wants.
If he’s staying with you but going around saying this, break up with him – he is just out to punish you.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Fri, 14 Sep 2012 00:53:58 +0000

Yes unfortunately it is cheating….but my issue is that as a primal being, I do get attracted to other people….how to deal with that!

By: Edie-Louise

Edie-Louise — Thu, 13 Sep 2012 22:19:24 +0000

How about kissing someone from the same sex if you’re in a heterosexual relationship? Still cheating?

By: Rach

Rach — Thu, 13 Sep 2012 13:33:30 +0000

Kissing (more than just a peck) is definitely cheating. I don’t think that’s even really in question. Would you forgive it- that’s the question. I probably wouldn’t.

By: danii

danii — Thu, 13 Sep 2012 13:30:06 +0000

to find yourself in a situation where it is even possible to kiss someone else is not a good sign! you wouldn’t be flirting madly with someone, leaning close to them etc if your partner was there. it is definitely cheating in my books.

it happened to me and was the end of a 3 1/2 year relationship. the pain and self doubt that it created in me was unbearable…..i am now coming out the other side but a kiss is never ‘just a kiss’.

By: whatahooha

whatahooha — Thu, 13 Sep 2012 13:27:13 +0000

I would not kiss anyone on the lips but my husband and babies, but kisses on cheeks for all good friends and rellies.
Once I went to kiss “hello” my hubby’s mate and we both accidentally turned at the same time and ended up kissing each other on the lips! I don’t know who was more shocked, him or me!

By: Belli

Belli — Thu, 13 Sep 2012 11:48:52 +0000

Agree!

By: MissNeriss

MissNeriss — Thu, 13 Sep 2012 11:24:39 +0000

I think I would consider it cheating. I think I would forgive though. Not sure about forgetting…

My husband would definitely consider it cheating and there is no way he would forgive. He’s made that very clear since the very beginning of our relationship.